I think girls are especially worried about Ā being judged, and when youāre in high school, everything seems like a bigger deal than it is. As soon as youāre out, it feels like forever agoāzip-a-dee-doo-dah! So do what you want, and if people are going to judge you for it, who cares? You might not fit in, but thatās okay. Everyone thought I was weird in high school.













