I won't say much about this since this is not about me, but i think it's important and I deserve to share what i went through
Kyky was a very manipulative and toxic person in my life, who disrespected my boundaries and those of other friends of mine multiple times
she made me extremely uncomfortable at times and there was genuenly no way to get through her to make her see the fact that her behavior was wrong.
I met kyky around january 2025, during a period of time in which i was very vulnerable because i was going through a break up, she became a close friend, someone i genuenly believed i could trust in and talk.
later on (maybe a week or two after we had started talking and hanging out) she started behaving a bit weird around me, the best way i could describe our interactions would be that she was lovebombing me, trying to get me to like her
i feel it's important to mention I am demiromantic, which means i usually don't catch feelings for people i haven't known for a while, and by that point i didn't even knew how she looked like or where she was from. She confessed to me on late february that she had been crushing on me, I was still heartbroken and my mind was all over the place, I did not want to upset her so I told her we could get to know eachother better before anything happened
this resulted in her becoming increasingly more flirty with me in dms, calling me by my irl name and acting almost possesive about me with other people, she also had access to my 18+ private account on twitter where i posted drawings, which she would just casually bring up and share screenshots of in our dms, making suggestive comments and trying to get the conversation to turn to those topics, which i rejected doing in at least more than one ocassion due to how uncomfortable it made me
it's not something I like talking about and hopefully wont be bringing up ever again, I tried telling her that I was hypersexual, and that talking about those topics so casually was not a comfortable position for me to be in, but she didn't seem to mind, maybe i was not clear enough, regardless she continued to flirt and bring up the account. I then realized i was getting incredibly uncomfortable around her and asked her to stop, nothing would happen between her an I, so the friendship became really awkward.
she started picking up fights with me and some of my close friends after that, she would vent to me constantly about how much she disliked the people who where close to me, trying to get me to mediate situations that she got herself into because she refused to have proper conversations about it, she would say some really insensitive and mean spirited comments often, and when trying to educate her on certain subjects she would refuse to listen and then vent to me on dms again about how my friendgroup was too "mean" or "sensitive"
i cut her off on late november after a lot of things happened that i will not talk about in here, again this is not about me, but I felt like i needed to share the experience i had with her.
please share this around, she's not a good person and I hope no one else the displeasure of being around her.