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BBQ Shapes - now with heaps more flavour
All non Australians need to read the notes on this post
Me: I love this person...so much....they're such an important part of my life...I wouldn't be the same without them....how can I convey that to them?
Me:
Me:
Me: *sends them a meme out of nowhere at 2am* perfect
close
the tabs
stop
having them be open
what i say: i'm bored
what i mean: none of my usual hobbies are stimulating enough for me anymore because i am dead inside and i am desperately craving human interaction in a vain attempt to keep myself from slipping into the abyss of insanity
tag what you're majoring in/intend on majoring in
sugar
spice
and a shit ton of salt
the speed limit is 720 fuCKING MILES PER HOUR.
Itâs actually 45⌠how⌠how did you get 720?
No? Shouldnât it be 180?
No, I think 45 is right. 2 times 45 is 90, and 360 divided by 4 is 90, so yeah, 90=90.
Yeah, but if x = the sum of 360/4. then it should be 2 multiplied by x, (90). Yeah? If it was 2 times 45, 360/4 would have to equal 45, and it doesnât.
I dont get what yall are saying
But 2x = (360á4) is 2x=90 so x = 45
Tumblr: School is dumb I donât need math Tumblr: The speed limit is 720 mph
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a few months passed and my mutuals and i discovered the new xkit guys, some developers named new-xkit-extension. although their coding skills are great they have a lot to learn before theyâre ready to fix everything
Me: *jokes about having a crush on you.*
Me: *actually develops a crush on you*
Me: wait wait wait a f ucgking sSCNOD.
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hey i heard u like bad boys, i dont mean to brag or anything but im really really bad. at everything.
I am insecure and sensitive and I ruin everything I love
I lowkey just wanna make sure youâre happy as fuck
If I'm comfortable with you, I'll:
jiidesu:
niicolodean:
call you names
tell you weird and personal details about myself
say âI NEED TO PEEâ instead of just brb
type in caps a lot.
If iâm extra comfortable with you Iâll do all that and:
share funny photos from my tumblr dash
actually tell you when iâm upsetÂ
try to make conversation with youÂ
just generally act really silly when Iâm in a good mood
tell you jokes even if theyâre badÂ
honestly i kind of need school bc it keeps my life together. i see friends everyday, get out of the house, sleep normally, and remember to eat dinner
you put it in words
Borderline Personality Disorder: A Guide to Helping People w BPD Feel Less Like Shit
by Nolan D, certified real life Person With Borderline⢠(srsly, why would you trust sources written by neurotypicals????)
if you have bpd or youâre interested in learning how to be helpful to ppl with bpd, this is for you!!
i wrote this guide because my family and friends were having some trouble understanding bpd/helping me feel better. i tried to make it customizable, so feel free to add to it, remove things, or change things to suit your unique Borderline Experience⢠(but pls donât alter this actual post it will hurt my feelings. copy/paste friends).
like/reblog if you decide to use it or find it helpful pls, so that i know if iâm being useful!
What is BPD?
BPD is a cluster B personality disorder, along with antisocial, narcissistic, and histrionic personality disorders. Cluster B disorders are distinguished by dramatic, highly emotional, and/or erratic behavior. Borderlines are characterized by rocky interpersonal relationships, extreme emotions, issues with self-image, and trouble with impulse control. We may also experience symptoms associated with mania and/or psychosis.
What am I going through as a person with BPD?
Intense emotions and mood swings
Inappropriate and/or unreasonable anger and irritability
Impulsive and risky behavior, can include: spending excessive amounts of money, taking too many drugs, drinking too much, promiscuity, and self-harm
Predisposition to addiction
Difficult and intense relationships, often full of arguments, conflict, and breakups
Higher probability of being abused and/or raped
Sudden intense episodes of anxiety, depression, and mania-like behavior
Feelings of self-hatred, often resulting in suicidal thoughts and behavior
Hallucinations, including auditory, sensory, olfactory, and visual
Delusions, particularly an obsessive fear and belief that people are going to abandon me
Extreme need for attention in order to feel that I am worthy of living
Unstable self-image and lack of consistent personality/identity, often resulting in mimicking the behavior and personalities of fictional characters and real-life loved ones
Excessive self-criticism
Feelings of emptiness
Awareness of/guilt because of destructive behaviors, but feeling unable to stop
Dissociative states under stress, in which I feel a disconnection from my body and from reality
Unstable goals/aspirations
Tendency to interpret the emotions of others as overwhelmingly negative
Paranoia that people hate me or are annoyed by everything I do
Idolizing people Iâve just met
Fear that I am faking my symptoms, no matter how severe they are
Fear that I am being manipulative or abusive
Possessiveness of loved ones
Constant need for reassurance
So how can you help me?
Offer frequent unprompted reassurance that you love me, are not annoyed by me, and are not going to leave me/stop supporting me. If I have to ask for this reassurance, I will feel that I have manipulated you into giving it and will be unable to believe what you say.
Respect that I need to be given space sometimes, and comforted at other times. I need space if I seem to be pushing you away or shutting down. Tell me that you will be available if I need you so that I wonât feel abandoned, then leave the situation. I need comfort if I am clinging to you or refuse to leave you alone.
Never tell me that Iâm overreacting. It is not my fault that I experience extreme emotions.
Do not threaten punishment for impulsive behavior. This includes saying that you will take me to the hospital if I continue. Offer to talk me through it instead.
If you donât have BPD, donât tell me that you know how Iâm feeling. You donât. Empathy is much appreciated, but if you say you can sympathize with me, I will begin to feel distrustful of what you say.
Never say or imply that I donât actually have BPD. I get enough of that shit from myself.
Hear. Me. Out. No matter what I have to say. You donât have to agree, just listen.
Tell me why Iâm not a bad person. Have examples to back it up because I will likely accuse you of empty compliments.
If I become unreasonably angry at you, be aware that I will feel incredibly guilty and remorseful later. When that happens, accept my apology and move on if you are able to.
Never tell me to âjust stopâ doing something destructive. I guarantee that if I could stop, I would have already. Instead, gently ask me things like âWhy do you think youâre doing this?â + âDo you think it is helpful for you?â + âHow is it helpful? How is it not helpful?â If I am in a panic state/dissociative state and answer with âI donât know!â/refuse or am unable to provide an answer, please determine if I need to be given space or comforted, and act accordingly.
When I dissociate, I often appear zoned-out, distracted, or dead-eyed. I may be unable to see you, hear you, or speak to you. A gentle touch on the shoulder may or may not snap me out of it. Stay with me and make sure I donât do anything dangerous until I come back to reality.
Do not judge me for my actions, and especially do not imply that I am being a bad person. Do not try to make me feel guilty for anything, no matter what. Instead, gently ask questions about my behavior, and try to understand the underlying cause.
Use lots of words with positive connotations when speaking to me.
I will try my best to provide more advice on how to help me as I learn more about my disorder myself! Thanks for taking the time to read this, and be aware that Iâm not demanding that you do any of these things, but rather I am asking you to do so because it will help me be happier and healthier.