we're the theia system! plural system comic diary blog number 829245719. we are firmly pro-endo. do not bring syscourse to this blog. asks are open! we don't answer every ask we receive. if you send us an ask complimenting our art or saying hi, we will read and appreciate it, but might not post a response. we collectively identify as a trans woman; please avoid using masc language like "bro" and "guys" when referring to us. thanks for reading!
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CW: this blog will include discussions of sex, kink (forecefem, ageplay, incest, petplay, non-con, etc), abuse, self-harm, and various topics surrounding mental health and mental illness.
it says in our pinned post that this blog "might contain depictions of kink," but that may not have been clear enough. we might talk about forcefem, ageplay, incest, non-con, petplay, and a lot of other things, all of which are regular and important parts of our life. if those kinks make you uncomfortable or if you think there's such thing as an inherently immoral kink, this may not be the right blog for you.
Good timezones, may I ask what tools, websites etc you used to make each of your system maps? No worries if not & I hope you have a good day either way.
the '24 map was drawn with a drawing tablet in adobe photoshop! the '25 map was made with a free online tool... maybe canva, but i'm not 100% sure. the '26 map was drawn with a tablet in clip studio paint (which is our preferred drawing program now that we don't get photoshop for free from our university)!
system maps from 2024, 2025, and 2026, drawn almost exactly a year apart from each other. real names have been redacted. it's interesting to look back at how our understanding of our system has changed over time, and how we chose to map it at different stages of our journey!
We split an oc a while ago who is basically 1 to 1 of their source versions, mostly all of their Issues.
However. There is one change.
In source this oc will get flustered from holding hands, from a simple kiss on the cheek.
THIS ONE IS A FREAK/aff. Like goddamn I thought you remained Very Asexual I didn’t realise you were all kinky like that for one of our partners alters. It’s been an interesting discovery too. I don’t know why this is such a major difference? Most of us if not all of us are some flavour of ace and aren’t interested in kink or anything reslly sexual. Apart from This One. Good for them good for them but also could the difference between you and your source version have been something like. Not 50 billion attachment issues n mental health fuck ups./silly
(I do promise that all of my criticisms are very much jokes. We’re chill with them being like their source with their issues we just make sure to check on them and we’re chill with their differences. We’d just rather Not hear about Joe youd like either yourself or your partner on a leash when we’re studying the French Revolution)
hell yeah. go get that shit, freaky alter in a largely-ace system
Oh whoops, sorry everyone!! Thank you all for your answers, very helpful. Its hard to find any sex education stuff now, especially where I am (Australia) as so many sites are forcing ID checks to access anything adult and there’s basically nothing I could find on plurality (and I don’t think I’d trust it much anyways. I suspect I’m much more likely to find plural fetish stuff than actual plural sex life advice).
We’ll try to implement what you all recommend next time, maybe we’ll be back to ask more questions later! Thank you for helping out us (and also probably other systems n plural folk who follow you or come across the post!)
of course, we're glad to hear that it was helpful! good luck anon!
not the anon who sent the first ask about tomodachi life, but making ourselves as miis actually helped one of our alters realize he was transmasc!
(although its crazy that he didn't realize in a body thats been on testosterone longer than we've known he exists, but if tomodachi life was what it took than I'm still glad he got there)
that's so awesome, congrats to your alter!! dw, a few of us have only just recently started feeling comfortable expressing femininity despite living in a transfeminized body for 6.5 years or so lmao. sometimes it takes a while to click!
Please ignore this ask if it’s something you’re uncomfortable with answering but do you guys know or have any tips on how to block someone from being aware of front at all for sex stuff??
We’re a new system and I (the host) don’t want anyone to be aware of whats going on when im jorking it and neither does anyone else! Probably due to us all being ace in some capacity and not wanting to do the deed with anyone else abd also not wanting to witness it with anyone in real life either !
Sorry if this is like. TMI or not a cool thing to ask you’re just the only plural blog I’ve seen that covers sex in any capacity that isn’t sexual trauma and theres no way in hell im asking people who vent about sex on how to have sex alone abbfnfnf.
good question anon. gentle reminder that we prefer not to be referred to as "guys." long as fuck answer under the cut.
this is something we're still working on ourselves, and for us it's pretty tough. we don't have much control over our switches in general (the same skillset applies to front control whether you're doing it in the bedroom or anywhere else). here are some things that've helped us make progress. as a disclaimer, our system is monoconscious and does not have a headspace. i have no idea how much of this will be helpful to systems with a different experience of plurality.
first of all, as always, it's important to listen to yourselves and to each other. sometimes, when one of us is near the front during sex and doesn't want to be, it's because they're feeling a strong emotion or reacting negatively to something that's happening or about to happen. taking some time to talk them through it or doing our best to address their concern is enough to help them chill out and drift away from front. the more regulated everyone in your system is, the easier it'll be to get them where they need to go.
when relaxing and communicating aren't enough on their own, we find that visualization techniques can be helpful. the one we find most successful right now looks like this: we visualize ourself in the middle of a circle of doors, which can rotate around us on a rail (think monsters inc.). behind each door is a space that each headmate finds comfortable, like a cozy bedroom, nice natural landscape, or something like that. if a door is open then that headmate has access to the front. to usher a headmate away from the front, we picture them entering their cozy space, the door closing, and that door rotating to the back, behind where we're standing. the current fronter's door stays open in front of them. this is what works for most of us right now, but you could play around with different visualizations and see what sticks. berry has her own that involves manipulating colored points of light in the air around her. get creative.
my final tip is to practice, be patient, and be kind to yourselves. as with all skills, it might take a while to get this right. it's certainly taking us a long time! try to approach it from the perspective of "our brain is cool, let's get curious about it, every experiment is an opportunity to learn" and not "we're a bunch of fucking losers because we can't do xyz." i hate the way that "adopt a positive mindset" sounds, but unfortunately it does kinda work.
glad you felt safe asking us this question anon. let us know if you have more. as always, other systems are encouraged to chime in and share more advice in the comments.
has putting everyone into tomodachi life had as much of an impact on the way you all view each other in headspace as us. ‘Cause half the time when I’m speaking with another headmate I realize they’re literally mii shaped and I am too and we just have to. Cope? Ig?
we don't have a proper headspace and don't really "see" each other when we communicate, so nope! it's probably had some kind of effect on our internal appearances though. for some of the others it was their first time depicting themselves. good luck being miis anon lmao
hi, this is mynd-art here! just wanted to apologize for referring to you all as ‘guys’ when we answered your ask! we’ve edited the ask, but still wanted to give an apology! i hope u all have a good day/night <3
hi! we appreciate the apology very much! it's not a big deal at all, so don't worry about it! hope you have a good one too!! <3
The "watch that cutscene again" comic is so real we have one alter who SO desperately wants his fictional crush to show up one day.
it's been a while since indigo got that excited about umamusume, i don't know what triggered it again yesterday. she ended up sating her urges by making seiun sky in tomodachi life and watching her jog around the island
