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Enneagram Wing Boards: Type 6 Wing 7 - The Confidant
Extroverted, materialistic, approachable, dedicated, tolerant.
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The Middle - Jimmy Eat World
Shake It Out - Florence + The Machine
I’ll Be There - Jess Glynne
Love It If We Made It - The 1975
Ironic - Alanis Morissette
That’s So Us - Allie X
I Wanna Get Better - The Bleachers
Give Yourself A Try - The 1975
Issues - Julia Michaels
I Love Me - Demi Lovato
So Far (It’s Alright) - The 1975
Take Me Home - Jess Glynne
Enneagram Tritype Moodboards: (19/27)
369 (The Mediator)
enneagram aesthetics: 6w7; THE BUDDY [11/18]
Instead of analyzing, the 6w7 is more likely to sevenishly jump into action, sometimes in inappropriate ways. However, because the cautious sixness is more powerful than the flamboyant seven-wing, they usually pull back from extremes before they become too threatening.
enneagram aesthetic | six
Questioners are responsible, trustworthy, and value loyalty to family, friends, groups, and causes. Their personalities range broadly from reserved and timid to outspoken and confrontative.
Enneagram 6w7 - Torn between the fire in your heart and the pressure on your shoulders, don't you think you've played the good little girl long enough?
Enneagram Wing Boards: Type 6 Wing 7 - The Confidant
Extroverted, materialistic, approachable, dedicated, tolerant.
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The Middle - Jimmy Eat World
Shake It Out - Florence + The Machine
I’ll Be There - Jess Glynne
Love It If We Made It - The 1975
Ironic - Alanis Morissette
That’s So Us - Allie X
I Wanna Get Better - The Bleachers
Give Yourself A Try - The 1975
Issues - Julia Michaels
I Love Me - Demi Lovato
So Far (It’s Alright) - The 1975
Take Me Home - Jess Glynne
ENNEAGRAM TYPE SIX : the loyalist
-> concerned with security & attachment
6w7 - The Buddy
Positive:
• Outgoing, Charming, Sociable
• Engaging and Lively yet Loyal
• Playful yet serious about commitments and security
• Faster Pace than 6w5s
• Will make sacrifices for family
• Cheerful, Personable, Curious
Negative:
• Materialistic, Impulsive, Manic
• Overreactive, Ingratiating
enneagram tritype aesthetics: 369; THE MEDIATOR [19/27]
The 369 is the type most likely to be a chameleon and will be able to adjust themselves according to whomever they are around. They are able to fit into the cultural milieu of what is expected of them, but their life mission is to bring harmony .
The mbti types as archetypes (tritypes)
125/251/512 The Mentor: Enfj, Infj, Infp
126/ 261/ 612 The Supporter: Esfj, Isfj, Enfj
127/ 271/ 712 The Teacher: Enfj, Enfp, Entp
135/ 351/ 513 The Expert: Estj, Istj, Entj
136/ 361/ 613 The Taskmaster: Estj, Entj, Intj
137/ 371/ 713 The System Builder: Entj, Intj, Entp
145/ 451/ 541 The Researcher: Infj, Intj, Intp
146/ 461/ 641 The Philosopher: Enfj, Infj, Infp
147/ 471/ 714 The Visionary: Infj, Enfp, Infp
258/ 582/ 825 The Strategist: Estj, Enfj, Entj
259/ 592/ 925 The Problem Solver:Esfj, Isfj, Enfj, Infj
268/ 682/ 826 The Rescuer: Esfj, Isfj, Enfp
269/ 692/ 926 The Good Samaritan: Esfj, Isfj, Infj
278/ 782/ 827 The Free Spirit: Entp, Enfp, Enfj
278/ 792/ 927 The Peacemaker: Enfj, Esfj, Isfj, Infj
358/ 583/ 835 The Solutionmaster: Istj, Entj, Intj
359/ 593/ 935 The Thinker: Istj, Estp, Istp, Intp
368/ 683/ 836 The Debater: Estj, Estp, Istp
369/ 693/ 936 The Mediator: Esfj, Isfj, Enfj, Infj
378/ 783/ 837 The Mover&Shaker: Estp, Istp, Entp
379/ 793/ 973 The Ambassador: Infj, Enfp, Infp
458/ 584/ 845 The Scholar: Entj, Intj, Intp
459/ 594/ 945 The Contemplative: Istp,Infj, Intp
468/ 684/ 846 The Truth Teller: Esfp, Isfp, Infp
469/ 694/ 946 The Seeker: (Harry Potter haha) Esfp, Isfp, Enfp
478/ 784/ 847 The Messenger: Esfp, Entp, Enfp (and exotic Intjs like myself. I don’t fit in my own system.)
479/ 794/ 947 The Gentle Spirit: Esfp, Isfp, Infj, Infp
I’m inserting a link to the test if you don’t know your type yet- please comment if I was right in your case ;)
Free test / quiz to help you determine your dominant Enneagram type in each of the three centers of intelligence along with preferred wings
Enneagram system
A rewrite/more in depth post of the Enneagram system compared to my last post on it. Not an expert. May change later.
If you like kpop and typology, check out my blog. I do type analysis on idols and typology notes.
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What is Enneagram?
I mainly took notes from Riso Hudson theory.
A typology system that categorizes personalities into 9 different types. Each type is numbered from 1 - 9.
Each type has a desire and fear that motivates their actions in life.
Core and Wings
Core: Our main type. It is the foundation of our personality and does not change.
Wing: Acts as a complement to our core. Wing can be one of the two types that sit beside core type. E.g a core 2 can have a 1 wing (2w1) or 3 wing (2w3). But is not necessary to use since wings can change and/or can be balanced.
Levels of Development
Summary of healthy - unhealthy levels of personality
- Healthy levels -
Level 1: Liberation
Let go of self image so we are free to express ourselves however we want. Self acceptance of all traits.
Level 2: Pyschological Capacity
Begin to identify with positive qualities in our personalities and learn to improve ourselves with them.
Level 3: Social Value
Still strongly identify with our set self image and make effort to maintain image. Want to share our good talents and abilities to make a positive effect on self and others.
- Average levels -
Level 4: Imbalance/Social roles
Idealization of self image; have a major focus on either good or bad qualities, no in between. Fear is an obstacle here.
Level 5: Interpersonal Control
Insist on self image being accepted by others, which can cause conflict. Can lead to controlling and manipulation.
Level 6: Overcompensation
Overcompensate due to underlying negative feelings. Desperate for others' acceptance.
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Level 7: Violation
Desperation for acceptance leads to violation of one's self and others. Serious conflict can occur. May victimize themselves to excuse offensive actions.
Level 8: Obsession and Compulsion
May be overly obsessed with an image of who they want to be. Deceives others
Level 9: Pathological Destructiveness
Most unhealthy state, display very toxic traits and behaviours, may have mental breakdown
Disintegration vs Integration
Or basically Stress vs Growth
Disintegration: When under heavy amounts of stress, a type will go into their disintegration type. They will pick up the negative traits of that type and act like the unhealthy version of it.
Integration: When maturing/developing positively, a type will go their integration type. They will pick up the positive traits of that type and improve their character.
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* I will only give short descriptions for the triads. I will explain more in depth in individual posts.*
Centers of Intelligence
There are 3 centers of intelligence. Each center shows how and why we solve issues in life.
Gut/Instinct/Anger (types 1, 8, 9)
Gut center focuses on reacting and taking action immediately. This triad has an issue with control and anger.
1: Often perfectionists who repress their anger in order to remain morally good. They see their anger in a negative light.
8: The most open and comfortable with their anger. Uses it to assert boundaries, especially since this type fears vulnerability.
9: Often a passive type that dismisses or downplays their anger. They fear conflict and may worry being more assertive will cause a negative effect on themselves and others.
Heart/Image/Shame (types 2, 3, 4)
Heart center focuses on self identity and connections. This triad wants love and recognition and do what they believe is best to get that. They struggle with self worth.
2: They want to be needed and helpful to others. Pride themselves on being of service. Wants to receive love and to give love.
3: The most image oriented type. They always try to show their best selves and best efforts in order to seem admirable. Fears being worthless.
4: Wants to create a unique image for themselves, believes being boring will make them unloveable.
Head/Thinking/Fear (types 5, 6, 7)
Head center focuses on ideas, making rational decisions, and gathering info. This triad deals with fear and uncertainty.
5: The most internalized head type. 5's want to gather as much knowledge and resources as possible in order to stay secure and independent.
6: Quite an anxious type who seeks security through relations with others.
7: This type fears pain and suffering and seek out experiences in order to avoid negativity.
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Other triads
- Harmonic Triads -
How types handle conflict, coping mechanism
Reactive (4, 6, 8)
Reactive types are not afraid to show and speak about their true feelings. They may seem "dramatic" in a way.
4: Melodramatic and self absorbed in negative feelings, drowns in intensity
6: Will argue, stick up for the right thing, moody, anxious
8: Big and loud reactions, can be very fiery
Positive (2, 7, 9)
Positive types dislike negativity and conflict and have their own ways of avoiding such tension. Optimistic during hard times.
2: Actively tries to be a good and kind person, only tries to focus on the good aspects of people
7: Seeks out fun opportunities to make their life exciting (basically distraction)
9: Values harmony and peace, will not risk any type of action that will disturb these values
Competency (1, 3, 5)
Competent types are often perfectionists who want to show their best selves. Objective and rational.
1: Strives to be correct and right, wants to be precise in what they do
3: Represses softer emotions to keep up a certain image, thrives with work/passions so they can be the best at what they do
5: Detached from feelings to remain logical and objective, knowledge seeking
- Hornevian Triads -
Relationships with others, how they get what they want
Assertive (3, 7, 8)
Assertive types go against people to get what they want. Do not back down easily, can seem aggressive and forceful.
3: Pushes through obstacles for achievements, goal oriented
7: Asserts their right to have fun, refuse to be restricted
8: Asserts power and strength, places boundaries
Withdrawn (4, 5, 9)
Withdrawn types are very internalized and do not show their needs openly. Deals with things alone.
4: Feels something is wrong with them internally, feels misunderstood
5: Detached from others as to not drain their own energy, will figure it out themselves
9: Introspective, lets life happen
Compliant (1, 2, 6)
Compliant work with people to get what they want. Builds relationships for security, wants to be helpful to others.
1: Doing the right thing instead of one's own wants
2: Focus on other's needs more instead of self
6: Tries to build a safe and secure environment by getting ppl to work together
- Object Relations -
How we are affected by others, our own affect on others, how we react to personal wounds
Attachment (3, 6, 9)
Seek out bonds and companionships for particular reasons. Individuality vs adaptation.
3: Changes their image to suit whoever they are with in order to meet expectations
6: Creates support systems to help with their self doubt and indecisiveness
9: Adapts to the energy of the environment to keep harmony
Frustration (1, 4, 7)
Triad gets frustrated when their needs aren't met.
1: Has a need to improve every little imperfection they find
4: Dislikes shallowness, longs for depth and complexity
7: Not enjoying experiences, not feeling fulfilled
Rejection (2, 5, 8)
Their own needs feel unimportant to others, so they reject their own needs as well.
2: Rejects the need to receive love and guidance, instead focuses on connecting with others and helping them.
5: Ignores and minimizes all their needs, offers knowledge and expertise in some hope of being acknowledged for their intelligence.
8: Rejects by being never putting their guard down, wanting to appear strong and as the protector of others.
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Subtypes
Claudio Naranjo theory
There are three subtypes/instinctual variants that show our drive in life. There are 27 different subtypes in total.
Self Preservation (Sp)
Focuses on physical safety and security. Our physical health, financial security, obligations, and comforts.
Sexual/One - on - one (Sx)
Wants intensity and deep connections, one on one relationships are preferred.
Social (So)
Prefers to be in a community, wants to create good connections and bonds with others. Socially aware, focus on group goals and contributions.
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Tritype
Katherine Fauvre theory
A minor but still interesting piece of Enneagram. Tritype is formed of your 3 dominant types from each center. The first number will always be your core, followed by your other 2 dominant types.
E.g 369. 3 = core, heart. 6 = head. 9 = gut.
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Enneagram notes
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Healthy/Unhealthy Type 6
Healthy Social 6
Kitty Pryde 6w7 (so/sx)- Kitty's development is all about community and standing up for what she believes. As a super ego type she goes forward in most of her appearances to fight for community and the well being for others.
Clare Deblin (6w5 so/sp)- While very anxious i think she is the most realistic display of an average SO6. Her desire to fit in and be in community with her friends constantly makes her feel comfortable in herself.
Marie Moreau (6w5 so/sp)- in the beginning of the show we see her having trouble to come out of her shell. By the end of the show we see how Maries core desire is for stability and community.
Unhealthy Social 6
Dvorah (6w5 so/sp)- Constantly using others for her own benefit and doing everything she can to control the hive.
The Deep (6w7 so/sx)- Insecure, dumb and creepy. He is constantly using the community around him to hide his true intentions. As well as his incompetence makes him rely on others constantly to fix his messes.
Greg Hirsh (6w7 so/x)- Similar to the past two characters he uses the system around to move upwards in life eventually landing him In a place he can never move.
Healthy Self Preservation 6
Allison Argent (6w7 sp/sx)- While she has her ups and downs she always kept her desires in check and tried helping as much peoples as possible. Eventually dying to save her friends (the movie didn't happen).
Miles Morales (6w7 sp/so)- He started insecure and worried about whats his place in the world and by the end of movie we see him fully accept the mantle of spider man.
Frank Shang (6w5 sp/so)- He initially had a confidence problem but with patience and friends he managed to out through and become an excellent leader.
Unhealthy Self Preservation 6
Josie from bottoms (6w5 sp/so)- She started a fight club to get with a girl she liked... While allot of her actions are morally dubious we see her eventually recognize the wrong she did and ask Isabelle a second chance.
Ashley Brown (6w5 sp/so)- Her anxiety makes her jump to conclusions fast and in most choices ends with her throwing others under the buss.
Peter Pettigrew (6w7 sp/so)- He hides behind other due to his vulnerability and incompetence. Eventually leading to his own death.
Healthy Sexual 6
Flame Princess (6w7 sx/so)- When we first meet her we see how sheltered she was due to her fire powers. As the series goes on we see how she struggles with her fear of who's true intentions are and who truly has her best intents for her. In the end of the show we see a fully realized FP who's interrogated to her 9 and found peace and love in community as the fire kingdoms Queen.
Natasha Romanoff (6w5 sx/sp)- Her health levels are completely up for debate however I see Natasha as a 6 who's worked to integrate too her 9.
Sango (6w5 sx/so)- Similar to FP she struggles to understand who to truly trust in the current stage. In her chase for her brother she learns to trust others and be vulnerable. Eventually falling for Miroku.
Unhealthy Sexual 6
Laura Palmer 6w7 (sx/so)- Her struggle to find stability in her life ends with her disintegrating fully to 9. Becoming sad and in need to feel something.
Jacob Black 6w7 (sx/so)-While he started well in the first movie. Once he became a werewolf he was constantly chasing after Bella even when she stated she wasn't interested.
Carla Roson (6w5 sx/so)- Looking for stably and peace in the first place makes her struggle with her relationship with Polo. Once S2 starts we see her trying to seduce Samuel to let his guard down. Eventually falling for him. In S3 we see how she fully disintegrates towards 9 in order to maintain her house hold steady. In the end she leaves las Encinas.
Enneagram Type 6
An overview of an enneagram type. Not an expert. May change later.
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Center: Head/Thinking/Fear
Other triads: Reactive, Compliant, Attachment
Basic motivation: Have security
Basic fear: Insecurity, feeling unsafe, unprepared
Wings: 6w5, 6w7
Disintegration/stress: 3
Integration/growth: 9
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Traits
- Strengths -
Loyalty
Tend to be prepared and ready for any situation
Secure and responsible
Good with details
Reliable
- Weaknesses -
Anxious and paranoid
Skeptical
Overthinking
Pessimistic
Self doubt
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Wings
- 6w5 -
The 5 wing enhances the cautious nature of a core 6. 6w5s are perceptible and knowledgeable. Self controlled and ethical. Although they like to be independent, they still value relationships with others. Seeking relations helps soothe the insecurity and fear they feel inside.
- 6w7 -
The 7 wing can make the 6 core more charismatic and enthusiastic about life and people. They value relationships and will try to honor their commitments and promises to others. 6w7s can be light hearted and can use humor to soothe their inner insecurities.
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Disintegration: 3
Disintegration to 3 can cause a 6 to become manipulative and dishonest in order to save themselves. They can be more competitive and arrogant in order to hide their inferiority complex; throw themselves into work to garner achievements. They are shamelessly self promotional in order to gain the acceptance they long for from others.
Integration: 9
Integration to 9 allows a 6 to relax. They learn to let go of their fear. Anxiety no longer holds them back. An integrated 6 grows more comfortable with their own choices and develops more self confidence. They are self assured individuals.
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Subtypes of 6
- Sp 6 -
Sp 6s are the most fear driven subtype. They see the world as a very dangerous place and so will put in lots of effort to relieve this fear. They may do this by trying to create an atmosphere of safety. This can be done by seeking out resources and reliable people and relationships who can provide protection. This type can be pessimistic as they always think about what can go wrong first. They don't mean to be a downer though - they just want to be prepared for any bad situation.
- Sx 6 -
Sx 6 is a counterphobic subtype. This subtype can be a little aggressive and rebellious. They take an offensive stance against fear rather than letting it run their life. They can exaggerate certain qualities of themselves in order to appear attractive. Sx 6s may put others through a series of trust tests before deciding to truly open up and depend on them.
- So 6 -
So 6s fear being excluded. They find safety being included in communities or big groups in general. They want to play an important role in society in order to have some sense of control and security. Being very committed and conscientious individuals, they also expect the same from others. This subtype also tries their best to be seen as trustworthy and reliable. Although usually skeptical of others, they can be very supportive and loyal when their trust is earned.
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What are some telling differences between social 6 and self-preservation 6?
tldr; sp6 feels guilty/introverted, so6 is more ideological
so6
stereotypically "nerdy"
decisions seem very difficult to them
often idealistic, "the greater good"
interested in psychic, ideological, or philosophical ideas
identifies strongly with their community
often mistaken for e1
does not like time passing, feeling as if they have wasted time
sp6
introverted, more independent, shy
seeks approval from authority
strong ideas about guilt
may be perceived as warm
often mistaken for e2 and sometimes e9
trust issues, struggles receiving help from others
contradictory
arrogant (believing they can be authority), selfish
finds it harder to stay in the present
Freud’s Last Session: C.S. Lewis [INFJ 6w7]
MBTI Type: INFJ Lewis is concerned with abstract thinking in a way Freud is not; he sees a broader perspective and intuits a lot about his debate companion over the course of the conversation simply by being present, listening, and thinking about the vital flaws in that moral argument. His interests are all academic and abstract, and focused on what things and words and beliefs mean, rather than…
Freud’s Last Session: C.S. Lewis [INFJ 6w7]
Enneagram 6 Subtypes Explained
Social 6 "Duty"
The Social 6 is characterized by their desire to belong to a specific group of people. They look for these social and emotional systems in which they can find comfort and emotional safety. Usually perceive as a rule follower by many in the community. However I find this to partial true. The SO6 does look for a system of support however, they can also look for a support system that rebels or is against the status quo. The groups they look need to share similarities to them or desirable traits. This 6s can be very outgoing and sociable BUT make no mistake they are still a 6. Meaning that they still share a general skepticism/cynicism of others. They can look like 1s (very responsible) and imo 7s (due to their outgoing and social nature especially if they have a w7)
Characters: Susan Pevensie, Marie Moore, Percy Jackson, Leon S. Kennedy, Xiao Yu, Scott Summers, Kagame Higurashi and Kendall Roy.
Self Preservation 6 "Warmth"
The anxiety the Sp6 harbors can be linked to their high awareness of their current environment as well as the ongoings of it. This subtype usually gravitates more to system that maintain their emotional comfort via order. Usually practical and hardworking this 6s maintains itself safe by maintaining a strict order around themselves. For this 6s the safety in their environment is both physical and metaphysical. Imo they are the most skeptical of all 6s approaching most things with cynicism. Being very careful as to who they let in their space. This subtype can look like a SP5 (due their more reserved nature however the SP6 does look for connection) and SP9s due to their environment focus.
Characters: Edward Cullen, Miles Morales, Bonnie Bennett, Chihiro, Asami Sato, Armin Arlert , Dipper Pines and Pearl
Sexual 6 "Strength"
Often confused by 8s this subtypes fight the fear the inner 6s have by standing on their own. However, unlike the 8 (who look for power and autonomy by themselves) the SX6 looks to fight their fear (by trying to connect with others). This subtype has an edge to them unlike the other 6s. Their desire for connection is more on the aggressive side. They are the most open about their skepticism of others. The focus for this subtype is stability in interpersonal relationships. As mentioned previously this subtype can look like an E8 (simply due to their reactivity) and some 4s (due to their edginess and over expression of emotion).
Characters: Claudia, Joel Miller, Laura Palmer, Sasuke Uchiha, Maggie Rhee, Killua, Chloe Price and Jared Grace
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