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Top 10 Sex Toys Under $30 (5th Edition!) | The Ins and Outs

I keep an eye out all year long for the best budget-friendly sex toys and kink accoutrements, and here are my top picks for 2019!

Another year, another edition of my best budget sex toys list! I’ve loved seeing how far the industry has come over the past half decade — there’s so many good, cheap toys on the market now, it’s getting harder and harder to narrow them down to 10!

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So wait even though not a single one of my posts here has actually been flagged by the algorithm I’m still trapped in an Explicit Mode hellscape that makes this entire blog effectively useless?

Cool. Love it. Thanks Tumblr.

(Follow my main to keep up with me here or my Twitter if you’re on there)

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I’m not super active on Tumblr these days, but depending on how far-reaching the NSFW ban is this blog may be affected.

If you wanna keep up with my stuff I’d suggest following me on Twitter and YouTube just to be safe! 💛

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Black Friday is the best time to score a sweet deal on just about anything you could ever want, and sex toys are no exception! I’ve rounded up all the best sales from my favorite shops to save you time as well as money.

If you want the tl;dr version, I think the best overall sales happening are at Peepshow Toys (25% off sitewide, deal applied to cart + huge doorbusters through Monday) and Lovehoney (hourly rotating deals up to 50% off + additional 20% off sitewide for my followers only), unless you’re located in the US and making a large order, in which case Come As You Are‘s 30% off $300+ CAD (~$227 USD) with the code BLACKFRIDAY30 cannot be beat!

But it’s worth perusing the whole list because some toys are only available at some shops.

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Icymi! 

I’ve also just added a new deal from Lovehoney exclusively for my followers: get an additional 20% off sitewide through this link only, minimum $40 order, through Monday!

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Black Friday is the best time to score a sweet deal on just about anything you could ever want, and sex toys are no exception! I’ve rounded up all the best sales from my favorite shops to save you time as well as money.

If you want the tl;dr version, I think the best overall sales happening are at Peepshow Toys (25% off sitewide, deal applied to cart + huge doorbusters through Monday) and Lovehoney (hourly rotating deals up to 50% off + additional 20% off sitewide for my followers only), unless you’re located in the US and making a large order, in which case Come As You Are‘s 30% off $300+ CAD (~$227 USD) with the code BLACKFRIDAY30 cannot be beat!

But it’s worth perusing the whole list because some toys are only available at some shops.

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I’m holding a giveaway for one of my all-time favorite sex toys, the njoy Pure Wand!

Enter the giveaway on my website!

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I’m finally reviewing the iconic, the legendary, and the delightfully shiny njoy Pure Wand!

Where to Buy: SheVibe Lovehoney (international) Peepshow Toys (use code ERIKA for 10% off)

Other Toys Mentioned: (Hitachi) Magic Wand Lovehoney Satisfy Me G-Spot Dildo

Video Transcript + Pictures: View on my website!

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What do I think of the Lovehoney Satisfy Me G-Spot Dildo? Let’s discuss!

Further Reading: Top 10 Sex Toys Under $30 (4th Edition)

Video Transcript + Extra Pictures: View on my website!

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Top 10 Sex Toys Under $30 (4th Edition)! | The Ins and Outs

From a mix of small indie crafters and large mainstream manufacturers, I've curated a variety of 2018's best budget-friendly sex toys for your perusal.

Reprising my favorite annual post of the year, here is the 4th edition of my Top 10 Sex Toys Under $30 list!

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Answering your sex ed and sex toy questions!

Further Reading/Viewing: Sex Toy Material Guide How To Find Sex-Positive Doctors and Therapists – Hedonish WOCSHN (Women of Color Sexual Health Network) Directory Think “If you’re not sure if you’ve had an orgasm, you haven’t?” Shut up. – JoEllen Notte I Gave Up Vibrators For 4 Weeks – Dangerous Lilly Fucking Trans Women #0 – Mira Bellwether

Muffing Toy Recs: We-Vibe Tango Pleasure Works Electra Blush Gaia Eco Tantus Silk Small Tantus Pro Touch Max

Unique Toy/Brand Recs: Blush’s Avant line Lust Arts Uberrime Geeky Sex Toys Funkit Toys Hole Punch Toys Tails & Portholes

Video Transcript: View on my website!

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Find out my thoughts on the Sola Cue G-Spot Vibrator!

Where To Buy: SheVibe

Other Toys Mentioned: L’amourose Prism V We-Vibe Rave L’amourose Rosa

Video Transcript + Pictures: View on my website!

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What do I think of the B Swish Bthrilled Wand? It’s pretty fucking great.

Video Transcript + Pictures: View on my blog!

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Apparently every YouTuber does Adam&Eve videos now. Soooo here’s mine. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

Sex Toy Material Info: TOXIC SEX TOYS? – Erika Lynae Toxic Toy Reference Guide – Dangerous Lilly The Trouble With Toxic Sex Toys – Bitch Media

Indiscreet Mailers Allegations: NEVER Order From Adam&Eve.com – Reddit Thanks For Letting The World Know I Bought Sex Toys, Adam&Eve – Consumerist

Used Sex Toy Allegations/Reviews: Endless Pleasure Thrusting Vibrator (third review down) King Cock Squirting Dildo With Balls (third review down)

Video Transcript + Images: View on my website!

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By popular demand, here is my second year-end roundup of sex toy hits and misses!

Toys Mentioned: We-Vibe Wish (Review) Hot Octopuss Queen Bee (Review) Viberry Toothbrush Vibrator (Review) We-Vibe Touch (Review) L’amourose Rosa (Review) NS Novelties Luxe Electra Compact (Review) Doxy Die Cast (Review)

Other Links: Ducky DooLittle’s Cancer Bills Fund Godemiche Issues

Video Transcript + Pictures: View on my website!

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Testing out an unusual new sex toy — the Hot Octopuss Queen Bee! I am so excited to never have to use this thing again.

Where to Buy: SheVibe Lovehoney GoodVibes

Other Toys Mentioned: Hot Octopuss Pulse

Video Transcript + Pictures: View on my website!

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Are there any toy materials (like pvc/jelly/silicon/aluminium) you refuse to buy/keep in your collection based from your opinions on quality or health reasons? I have heard that the non-restrictive laws of sex toy manufacturing allows companies to make them out of questionable materials.

Yes, silicone is the only material I will put in my body that isn’t rock hard (e.g. glass, stainless steel, etc.). Other soft sex toy materials like PVC, jelly, “Cyberskin,” etc. are highly porous and often toxic. I’ve done a bunch of videos on the subject, if you’re interested.

I’m also wary of a lot of cheap “stainless steel” that some companies make, since it’s often just chrome plating over some mystery alloy and not actually stainless steel at all.

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Should you be wrapping up your dildos? Here's some important info to know!