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UPDATE
This blog has been dead for the past 3 years and it somehow has 195 followers??? thats about as many as I have on my main blog. Thanks for following even though we all kind of jumped ship. This might turn into a writing blog depending on if the others think it’s ok
My friend sent me this after she won 3000 dollars off a scratch off. Reblog so that you can have good luck too
that’s a lot of dollars
IT WORKES I GOT PAID THREE DAYS EARLY
THAT’S FUCKING AWESOME
Pleeeeeease he needs the new laptop
Tomorrow’s
Halloween!
Happy almost Halloween guys!
First Look at The SpongeBob Musical Actors in Costume
what the fuck is this what the fuck
I’m going to cry this is so beautiful and unnecessary
Holy Fucking Hell. I shit you not, this is a legitimate play being preformed in Chicago. It has songs By Brendon Uri, The plain White T’s, Cindy Lauper, and many other amazing artists!!! Guys, Sopngebob was my childhood
Were You Born Under The Gaslight?
When applied to a family, the gaslight treatment is a special form of dysfunction. It happens when you, a child, receive messages or encounter experiences within the family which are deeply contradictory. Messages which are opposing and conflicting; experiences which can’t both be true. When you can’t make sense of something, it’s natural to apply the only possible answer:
“Something is wrong with me.”
Today, scores of children are growing up under a gaslight of their own. And scores of adults are living their lives baffled by what went on in their families, having grown up thinking that they, not their families, are crazy.
I have seen gaslighting cause personality disorders, depression, anxiety, and a host of other lifelong struggles. Receiving contradictory messages that don’t make sense can shake the very ground that a child walks on.
The Four Types of Child Gaslighting:
1. The Double-Bind Parent: This type was first identified by Gregory Bateson in 1956. The double-bind mother has been linked by research to the development of schizophrenia and Borderline Personality Disorder. This type of parent goes back and forth unpredictably between enveloping (perhaps smothering) the child with love and coldly rejecting him.
The Message: You are nothing. You are everything. Nothing is real. You are not real.
The Gaslight Effect: As an adult, you don’t trust yourself, your validity as a human being, your feelings, or your perceptions. Nothing seems real. You stand on shaky ground. You have great difficulty trusting that anyone means what they say. It’s extremely hard to rely on yourself or anyone else.
2. The Unpredictable, Contradictory Parent: Here, your parent might react to the same situation drastically differently at different times or on different days, based on factors that are not visible to you. For example a parent who is under the influence of alcohol or drugs one day and not the next; a parent who is manic at times, and depressed other times, or a parent who is extremely emotionally unstable. Whatever the reason for the parent’s opposing behaviors, you, the innocent child, know only that your parent flies into a rage one moment and is calm and seems normal the next.
The Message: You are on shaky ground. Anything can happen at any time. No one makes sense.
The Gaslight Effect: You don’t trust your own ability to read or understand people; you have difficulty managing and understanding your own emotions, and those of others. You struggle to trust anyone, including yourself.
3. The Appearance-Conscious Family: In these families, style always trumps substance. All must look good, or maybe even perfect, especially when it’s not. There’s little room for the mistakes, pain, or natural human shortcomings of the family members. The emphasis is on presenting the image of the ideal family. Here, you experience a family which appears perfect from the outside, but which is quite imperfect, or even severely dysfunctional, on the inside. This can stem from Achievement / Perfection focused parents (as described in Running on Empty), or from narcissistic parents.
The Message: You must be perfect. Natural human flaws, mistakes, and weaknesses must be hidden and ignored. You are not allowed to be a regular human being.
The Gaslight Effect: You feel deeply ashamed of yourself and your basic humanness. You ignore your own feelings and your own pain because you don’t believe it’s real, or that it matters. You tend to see and focus on only the positive things in your life, which fit into a particular template. You are extremely hard on yourself for making mistakes, or you put them out of your mind and simply pretend they didn’t happen. You may be missing out on the most important parts of life which make it worthwhile: the messy, real world of intimacy, relationships and emotion.
4. The Emotionally Neglectful Family (CEN): In this family, your physical needs may be met just fine. But your emotional needs are ignored. No one notices what the children are feeling. The language of emotion is not used in the home. “Don’t cry,” “Suck it up,” “Don’t be so sensitive,” are frequently uttered by the CEN parent. The most basic, primary part of what makes you you (your emotional self) is treated as a burden or non-existent.
The Message: Your feelings and needs are bad and a burden to others. Keep them hidden. Don’t rely on others, and don’t need anything. You don’t matter.
The Gaslight Effect: You have been trained to deny the most deeply personal, biological part of who you are, your emotions, and you have dutifully pushed them out of sight and out of mind. Now, you live your life with a deeply ingrained feeling that you are missing something that other people have. You feel empty or numb at times. You don’t trust yourself or your judgments because you lack your emotions to guide you. Your connections to others are one-way or lack emotional depth. Even if you are surrounded by people, deep down you feel alone. None of it makes any sense to you.
Were you born under the gaslight? If so, you are not alone. You are not invalid or crazy or wrong. it’s vital to realize that you have been, by definition, deeply invalidated. But “invalidated” and “invalid” are not the same. “Invalidated” is an action, and “invalid” is a state of mind. You can’t change what your parents did and didn’t do, but you can change your state of mind.
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I for some reason, feel like I’ve experienced both one and two
Since Vine’s gonna die, here are some great queer vines from Thomas Sanders
Dan and Phil play: Timore Inferno
Bette Midler surprised fans when she arrived at a Halloween party last night in her costume from the 1993 cult classic Hocus Pocus.
The 70-year-old actress appeared as evil witch Winnie Sanderson for the first time in 23 years for the Hulaween masquerade ball, an event celebrating the 21st anniversary of Midler’s charity, New York Restoration Project.
ok but that plot twist at the end of Ultimate Storytime….. damn
“Oh…This is new…”
“I take that back, this is normal”
I leave for one evening and I come back to this? what even is this??
the crystal gems!
When you realize school is next month
when you’ve been in school for almost three weeks already….
when you realize you have to start junior year at a new school in three days
wouldn’t it be neat if everyone’s hair color was based off of their birth stone?? tag what your hair color would be!!!
garnet, so like dark red
Ok, I know most of you guys are probably tired of this franchise already, but I found something new on sister location
this is the picture that Scott had up yesterday on his website. Looks pretty normal right? If you're familiar with his work, you might know that even the teaser images have secrets in them. I've managed to lighten this image
Please reblog if you don’t want porn blogs to follow you!
Made by me. Do not repost/edit.
quick summary: willy wonka and the chocolate factory
boy: i hate being poor
grandpa: were going to the fun factory
mr chocolate: hello naughty children its murder time
Reblog if Markiplier putting out videos late doesn't bother you
Trying to prove something to him
