I Love My F/Os!!!

I love my fictional others — and there's NOTHING you can do about it!! >=D *cackles evilly*

[thelorechaotica]

Hi there! My name is Lore.

I'm a physically disabled and neurodivergent adult with a history of family and medical-related trauma. My combination of disabilities and experiences have generally made romantic and sexual relationships inaccessible to me irl, so I use fiction to explore and fulfill those aspects of myself. I used to identify as asexual and aromantic, but have since dropped those labels as I find that they don't truly fit my experience nor my feelings. If I were to describe myself with better terms, I'd say that I'm neuro-queer and involuntarily celibate due to my disabilities.

Coming across the self-shipping posts and subsequent communities on here has been really reassuring and refreshing and I really hope I can make some new friends here.

I'm involved in several fandoms and have several fictional partners/crushes. If you're curious about my f/os, feel free to drop me a message or ask. I will occasionally name them in posts, but I haven't done it that often. Maybe that will change at some point, but my activity on this blog has been sporadic due to life and such.

That being said, I am aware that I may be a bit of an outlier as a self-shipper since I'm not invested in any canon or fanon ships. The only ships I'm truly interested in are me x my f/os. That's not to say that I hate other ships, I just don't really care about ships in general. Also most of my f/os are villains and are just terrible people by nature, so if that's not for you, that's fine. You can just respectfully scroll by my posts or block me. I will not tolerate personal attacks. I am here to make friends, not enemies.

And just remember...

Your f/os love you!

[comfort-character-central-deact]

Here's a reminder for you, friend!

Your f/o could see every side of you, and they would STILL love you. Why? Because you've always been enough for them. Don't you see? They love you BECAUSE you're you. Not just one side, not just one version. All of you.

[comfort-character-central-deact]

Your f/o is so proud of you. Maybe it's been easier lately or more hard for you, whether you did nothing but lay in bed, whether you got a million things done or nothing at all. The fact that you're just existing and doing your best? More than enough. I promise.

[the-bar-sinister]

Imagine your villain F/O stroking their fingers gently over your neck while they look at you with an appraising expression, as if deciding whether or not to grab you by the throat.

[thelorechaotica]

Question for all other self-shippers, do you have any everyday clothing items or jewelry that you associate with your F/Os?

I was thinking about it the other day and I have a pair of multicoloured socks that have hearts with arrows all over them. I associate those with the Saja Boys— especially Romance, Baby and Mystery. I think they’re my favourite socks now.

[comfort-character-central-deact]

"they are just so silly!!!! :3" I say, and the f/o is the most overpowered, grumpy, cocky/egotistical (etc) individual you've ever seen in your entire life.

[thelorechaotica]

Literally me talking about my Habs. 💜🖤 he’s a silly little guy but also a murder-bastard and I love him so much!!

[vinbitism]

emh fun fact: The fat black and white cat is a boy named pillow boy, and the grey cat is a girl named Isabelle. Pillow boy is what the emh guys called him.

there was a theory Pillow boy could also be Vinnie's dead childhood cat Mittens that Habit brought back to life,,, this came from a post back in 2014 and Jeff replied with #Canon lmao

pillow boy

Isabella

[thelorechaotica]

I have perceived the cats.

[yumeshipper-vixen]

your F/O falling asleep using you like a pillow and now you're stuck because you don't wanna wake them up 🤔

[thelorechaotica]

Me, watching KPop Demon Hunters…

My brain: Why choose just one demon boyfriend when you could have five demon boyfriends?

Me, developing a collective crush on all the Saja Boys: Fuck.

[thelorechaotica]

[thelorechaotica]

Me, watching KPop Demon Hunters…

My brain: Why choose just one demon boyfriend when you could have five demon boyfriends?

Me, developing a collective crush on all the Saja Boys: Fuck.

[theadventuresofclutchpowers]

message to selfshippers:

your f/o is thinking of you! theyre walking around and thinking of you and how much they love you and- awh fuck they felled down. they falled over. auh shit they're on the ground cause they fall over. awh. shit man. they're ok they just took a tumble. and also they love you

[comfort-character-central-deact]

Selfshipping and having f/os is so fun and even better when you ain't got ppl in ur ear saying it's "lame" or "cringe"

[thelorechaotica]

You are not cringe. Your f/os love you so much. Never stop.

[nyaoni]

if you feel insecure, just know that in another universe your f/o has a dedicated blog to you<𝟑 .ᐟ

[uss-moonveil]

Me: I feel ugly as fuck

My brain: remember… your f/o is insanely attracted to you

Me:

[uss-moonveil]

World is scary. F/o is safe:(

[darknessisnear]

Randomly thought of this meme

[fiirstloves]

f/os who are openly jealous but don't want to be too "obvious." the ones who would wrap their arms around your waist and place their faces into your neck. the ones who hold your hand tightly and bring it up to their lips to press a kiss in front of everyone else in the room. the ones who will call you "my love" or "honey" or "baby" to anyone who dares to flirt with you because you're theirs. the ones who lean close to your ear to whisper secrets that only the two of you can share. when the person who dared take your attention away from them finally gets the hint and leaves, they finally feel safe enough to ease up. but they can't stop the grin on their face as they nuzzle against you.

divider @/enchanthings-a