Life Update! ⨠2025
Since I last checked in, a lot has happened and I think that you all, my fiendish friends, will be happy to know that all of it has been good. Better than good, actually.
Let's Get Into It! â¨
The big one that I feel might take some of you by surprise is that after 7 years, I ended my relationship because things weren't as good as I had pretended they'd been to the public. I'm not here to slander anyone or divulge details, but all I will say is that things were not good and I needed to get out.
Not long after, this man came crashing into my life and over the time we've talked and been together, he has changed my life for the better. He is healing a heart that he did not break; he has shown me that I do not need to dilute myself to be loved and brought out aspects of me that I had feared were lost forever when they were taken by the wrong people. I am a lover girl at heart, and I am safe to be that way with him.
Ghouls, I would like to officially introduce you to Jody. He is a fairly well known cosplayer on TikTok [here!] and that ridiculous app plays a bit of a role in how we met.
I started playing D&D! Which is something I'd wanted to do since I was 14 and last year, after loosely discussing it with a friend, a group was put together and these people have also changed my life. They are the most phenomenal group of people in the world and are not just my friends - they're my found family and we have had two in-person meet ups. One of which, the first, was a trip that actually gave me the strength to end my previous relationship because to be loved is to be changed.
Our D&D party is the definition of reluctant and unlikely heroes and we have the best time whenever we play. My character is a wood elf Druid (I know, I know).
This is my babies and I in our matching Kuromi headbands!
With my newfound confidence, the love and support of good people and better outlook on life, I've been able to put time, effort and money into myself and the people I love. In March, my sister and I were able to take our beloved Spawn Point (Mum) to Milan for her milestone birthday. We had an absolutely incredible time and got to visit the spectacular Duomo. We had good food, got a little lost, and I'll never forget it.
Smaller Updates! â¨
My health is the best it's been in a very long time, because I'm now not only able to focus on myself instead of putting myself on the back burner for someone else.
I still have my ratty babies! Not all of them, of course, some have passed but Halsin, Raphael, Liara and Kasumi remain with me and are going strong.
My business is doing well and I'm so happy in my infernal foundary (kitchen), hunched over and making dice set after dice set.
Because I no longer feel the need to be someone that I'm not, I got my nipples re-pierced, got my other nostril pierced and two more tattoos (the spiders on my legs, hehe) and I've never felt so good about myself!
