My friend texted me late one night and was wondering 10 reasons to keep living. This is what I told her.
sometimes nights will feel cold and empty when thereâs no reason for it. live for these nights. embrace them. dance in them. do what you need to feel complete again, make tea, watch movies, write poetry and wear your prettiest pajamas. and when they are over, rejoice because you made yourself feel whole again. you did that. live for the nights in which you heal yourself.
words have more power than you think. they can save you. you need to live to see these beautiful words that will come, and sometimes theyâll come to you in the form of songs or poetry or texts or even the words that come out of your own mouth. live for these words.
thereâs no such thing as a stupid reason to stay alive. think of these reasons and hold onto them. you want to see the finale of your favorite show? you want to wait for that clothes order to arrive? you want to play your entire volleyball season? and when those little things to look forward to run out, find more. live for the tiny things that make you happy.
being âsomethingâ is easier than you think. passions come across when youâre not even expecting them. you love morning tea? live for those morning cups of tea. buy a teapot, get yourself a ton of flavors of tea. try every flavor of tea known to humankind. make your own tea. open a tea shop. make a tea kettle. live for your passions.
boredom is a dangerous thing. I know sometimes you want to lay in bed and do nothing, and sometimes that helps but more often it doesnât. a lot of the time staying busy will be the only thing that will help. find those little distractions and live for them. they may seem like chores or busywork but youâll grow to love them, I promise. paint your nails, try a ton of hairstyles, go through all your drawers and throw out old stuff, do 100 sit ups, spend an hour looking through all your music and create a master playlist of your favorite stuff, research things youâve always wondered like âwhy do cats have whiskersâ, look up motivational videos, watch interviews of your favorite band. youâll feel productive. do anything to keep your hands and mind busy. live for being busy.
self-love is hard to achieve and itâs a lot of work but itâs so wonderful. learn to love yourself. stop rejecting compliments, accept them and maybe youâll finally come to see them as true. self-love isnât thinking that youâre perfect, itâs knowing that youâre human and beautiful and you have more prettiness in you than flaws. itâs also knowing that yes, you are beautiful on the outside in your own unique way, but you are more beautiful on the inside than anything. make it your mission to finally recognize that you are a good soccer player, that you have really pretty colored hair, that you are your own worst critic and you are full of stardust and fairy kisses and you can conquer the entire world. live for loving yourself.
people are not as fragile as you think. you keep watering yourself down and youâre receiving watered down love. it wonât hurt them if you show your entire self in all itâs glory. it wonât hurt them to tell them what you really think. you are full of comets, stars, galaxies that they should be dying to see. show who you truly are. and if people are too fragile to handle it? leave them. if they canât handle the complete version of you, the you that makes you happiest, the you youâre not ashamed of, then they donât deserve you. live for being yourself.
we are a flawed, broken people. life doesnât have a meaning. the universe will end someday. people get sad and hurt every day. these are all things that are true, sad, but true. sometimes we just need to acknowledge that things are true, let ourselves feel what we feel, and move on. live for acknowledgement. but alsoâŠ
we are a flawed, broken people but that makes us all the more beautiful. life doesnât have a meaning but you can make one for yourself. the universe will end someday so we should make it as beautiful as we can before it leaves. people get sad and hurt every day but they get better. live for positivity, live for knowing that youâll be okay.
once in a while it will seem like nothing is going right. it may seem that way right now. but remember that you always, always have someone, in good times and in bad. even if everyone else abandons you, Iâll be here. I will stand by you in your brightest days and your darkest days, in my stormy skies and in my sunshiny afternoons. I will be a shoulder for you to lean on, I will do my best to make you happy when I can and help you when youâre sad. live for the people that love you and make you happy. live for me, and the countless other people that want you to keep walking this beautiful earth. live because there is so much left to see, live because there is too much left to do. live because one day, youâll be sitting at your kitchen table with sunlight streaming through the window at just the right angle with a cup of coffee and a gentle smile on your face, and youâll have a wonderful job and a beautiful family and friends that love you with their entire hearts, and youâll be so, so glad that you stayed alive to witness that very moment.
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