Dream Sweetly And Sleep Tightly, Princess

20||Male||SFW||Hello! Im a new caregiver blog and I'll be posting stuff for both all bigs and all littles to see, and well for pretty much anyone! I am a proud caregiver to @the-secret-little. She is my world and I will do anything for her. Feel free to follow if you like anything you see!

[the-secret-little]

So…I like angry? Btw I actually paid for these in January. I for some reason don’t have the conversation back that far but I do have the PayPal payment info. I paid for and arranged for these in January. Am I crazy? I mean I paid in January, was told they should be done by March, it’s June. And I have always had to reach out to get an answers. I’m pissed off. I really just want my refund tbh. I waited 6 months to get an order of onesies and pacis and was offered a refund many times but declined because I just wanted my stuff, the staff was well made and good quality. But this stuff really isn’t worth it I just want my money back. Also, I originally paid to get Mew. Not Snorlax. But she didn’t end up getting it? Even though it was ordered and she said ok. We discussed what I want on the snorlax one four times. So done. My trust in shops is so ruined by people never shipping their orders. Come on. And I am99% sure I follow this persons personal page where I see them buying lots of little gear…. Don’t 👏🏻 run 👏🏻 a 👏🏻 shop 👏🏻 if 👏🏻 you 👏🏻 can’t 👏🏻 handle 👏🏻 it 👏🏻

[thesnugglymonsterslayer]

Shop owners, care about your customers.

[iglovequotes]

http://iglovequotes.net/

[peteneems]

[ruinedchildhood]

Chalk Zone is real!?

[peteneems]

[bigcatslions]

[shaelaaab-deactivated20190122]

Mood

[yrobdtservt]

When you re-listen to Washington on Your Side and Aaron Burr is just talking about Alexander Hamilton’s body parts. Very suspicious.

[lyrics-and-music]

Twin Size Mattress // The Front Bottoms

[waldangerous]

Stuff like this is why I’m not famous.

[crandberrycrush]

This took me longer than I’d like to admit to get… but I love it. 

[hallucin8]

Dirty talk but you both use your customer service voice

[lo-kaia]

Thanks I hate it

[fifty-shadesofgay]

partner: *cums*

me: great! will you be needing anything else today?

[ruffboi-mags]

Customer service but you use your dirty talk voice

[mashable]

Kid destroys $15,000 LEGO sculpture an hour after new exhibit opens

[sourcefieldmix-deactivated20161]

furries are over

[shituationist]

Dada

[habitualshaker]

[tonightweredrinkingfromthebong]

gwen stefani was right when she said this shit is bananas

[daddyslilfairyx-blog]

🎀 Growing up🎀

Daddy and me eating dinner:

Me: “Daddy. I don’t wanna eat my veggies!”

Daddy: “But Baby…You have to eat them. Otherwise you can’t grow and you’ll stay as small as you are.”

Me: “You see? That’s why I don’t eat them.”

[sub-cmdr-deactivated20220913]

Not a Burden

Little subbie, being your Dom is not a burden to me. Rather it is a responsibility, a mantle, that I choose to take on. I know what it entails and I willingly accept. 

I already do this. As a father and as an employee I am driven to take charge and do what’s required to succeed. It’s who I am and must be encoded in my very DNA. I want to be counted on, steady, reliable, unflappable.

Being a Dom aligns very well with this. I want to earn your trust, day after day. To be your welcome refuge and your protector. To help you grow and flourish. Doing this helps me to grow and allows me to flourish. Its our perpetual upwards spiral.

I know that I am fallible. At times I do not live up to my own standards and have let others down. Failure leaves an awful taste, and I continue to strive to improve. I learn from my mistakes and adopt preventative measures. I don’t expect you to fix my faults, just to be patient as I learn and grow.

Sure, responsibility for another can be stressful, but a good and healthy stress. It’s what I derive meaning from - a loving father, a capable and competent employee, and a trustworthy and loving Dom. Being these things feeds me, and without them I lose a part of who I am. Being your Dom nourishes me in a deep and profound way. It is not a burden at all.

There will be times, for a myriad of reasons, that I cannot manage the responsibility as I should and I need a breather. I will do my best to communicate this and together we can work this out. Relationships require teamwork, D/s ones included. We have a strong bedrock, a deep and loving connection, and we will be just fine.

[submissive-seeking]

A fine addition to the collection of “What it means to be a healthy, functional Dominant” pieces wriiten from D-type point of view.

Well done @sub-cmdr , well done 👏👏👏👏

[instructor144]

^^^^

[eba-hoodlum75]

[spankmylace-deactivated20181217]

Power Exchange ideas with your little

Take away their adult privileges when they get home.

Restrict screen time

Make them ask for food, littles need help to get those things!

Make them change into a diaper, pull-ups or training pants to enforce the fact that they are little and need this just in case. You should probably help them into their little gear too tops!

Ask them if they need to go to the bathroom periodically, especially before car ride or when out in public, make them go potty even when they say they’re fine. Do they really know? Can you really trust a littles judgement? :P

Stop them when they try to do things for their selves and remind them just how small they are.

Run their bath for them, even if they don’t want to have a bath! You’re their caregiver, you take care of them and make these decisions for them!

Give a list of chores to do while you’re away, punish/ground them if they don’t follow through.

If they’ve been on the computer for too long stop them. They’re too little to spend that much time on a computer, coloring in a coloring book is more appropriate for somebody their age.

Encourage them when being little, remind them that it is okay to be little around you ♡

Be sincere in your interest when they are being little, playing, coloring etc.

Understand that your little is not a slave and isn’t going to be as easily told to do things like a slave might. Expect some resistance at times they are the child in this, they do pout and fuss.

You are their caregiver, so care for them as if they were a child, and make sure that they know that they are the child here. That’s the whole point of a power exchange relationship in this context.

[michellepsychologist]

🔹@chibird🔹