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what the fuck did i do to attract all the gross fandom nerds. why are you following me all of a sudden. fuck off. if you have a harry potter house in your bio you're a bad person
i just blocked another one so im making this my pinned post. If you're an honest-to-god mcu fan then This Space Is Not For You
there are many fat gay women which is basically awesome
clap. clap for fat gay women
really difficult to convey to some people that you are absolutely allowed to dislike a character, but you should also pay attention to and understand why the POC character or woman is disproportionately targeted by fandom (for, often, innocuous reasons)
the among us show being a total gorefest on par with john carpenter's the thing is a really fun choice
the among us show having a gay orgy in the middle of it is another really fun choice
realizing many people don't know about infinity train creator owen dennis' among us show from years ago, which has been trapped in unreleased limbo all this time and was just dumped on streaming this morning with no advertisement. they don't even know about its weirdly stacked cast
She balled so hard they banned her from ballin.
we're overdue for a reactive wave of anti-cozy games. animal crossing but office workers. restaurant management but applebee's. farming sim but all spreadsheets. never see an ear of corn the whole game
a young witch trying to solve a gristly murder in the Italian alps during the Years of Lead
"We're overdue for a reactive wave of anti-humor clown performances" mused Pagliacci,
Lounging on a chaise sofa as he idly reflected.
worst mistake u can make w your male oc is giving him a sister that's cooler than him..... like sorry idw hear abt him anymore can he move tf out of the way
"we follow this guy & his bf while his sister is off doing espionage" now hold on ✋ can i go with her
It's pride month so I'll allow myself to express one opinion on the internet :
There are no "exact color" of pride flags.
I see more and more sites and posts talking about the exact hex codes for the lesbian flag, or the right purple for the ace one, and how it should be more or less saturated and I just want to say: pride flags were meant to be sewn in your kitchen. To be spraypainted and to be recognised.
There are no "exact colors" of pride flags because you should do them with what you have ! Nobody should care if you use a crimson red instead of a cherry red or whatever ! Be free ! wave your colors ! The colors you have !
A daily game that challenges our understanding of human cultures. Ten objects. 5,000 years of human history. Guess where and when each artif
An interesting game where you are presented with 10 artifacts from the MET. You have to place where the artifact is from and what time period it is from. Each artifact scores up to 10,000 points, and you lose points the further away your guess is and how far off in time you are. You can only play once a day. Thanks to @baebeylik for showing this to me.
Today I scored really well. Yesterday ... not so much.
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Midna and Link <3
Yesterday I finished TP for the 15th time in my life and I'm really devastated. So i decided to draw my queen and his doggy
My designs for an AU of mine where brit and jenny are students of girls school. I might change them in the future, but as for now, they'll look like that!
I dont have a lot to say about it, but you can ask questions in the comments or asks! I'll answer them
Their characters are different from the show :]
For my friend :)
Idolmaxx Jenny design by antithesis_art on Twitter
Still working on stuff so have this.. during the waiting
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every time i say velociraptor is very important to imagine a turkey-sized predatory bird and not the weird lizard thing from jurassic park
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Im not arguing with a tall girl. Whatever you say beautiful
The identity of OP is unimportant because I’ve seen this sentiment all over the place. But when I saw this post I just felt compelled to talk about this mentality.
Most likely this same logic is not applied to, say, politicians. Let’s put aside the fact that there is (unfortunately) no concrete delineation between a person who is merely a “private citizen” and a person who might be in the “public interest.” That’s the kind of distinction that everyone has to subjectively make for themselves.
The “nobody can criticize anyone for any reason” outlook is a childish, hyper-individualistic outlook that contributes to Missing Stair type social dynamics.
Have you ever been in a house that had something just egregiously wrong with it? Something massively unsafe and uncomfortable and against code, but everyone in the house had been there a long time and was used to it? "Oh yeah, I almost forgot to tell you, there's a missing step on the unlit staircase with no railings. But it's okay because we all just remember to jump over it."
Some people are like that missing stair.
When I posted about a rapist in a community I belonged to, although I gave almost no details about the guy except "he's a rapist," I immediately got several emails from other members of that community saying "oh, you must mean X." Everyone knew who he was! Tons of people, including several in the leadership, instantly knew who I meant. The reaction wasn't "there's a rapist among us!?!" but "oh hey, I bet you're talking about our local rapist." Several of them expressed regret that I hadn't been warned about him beforehand, because they tried to discreetly tell new people about this guy. Others talked about how they tried to make sure there was someone keeping an eye on him at parties, because he was fine so long as someone remembered to assign him a Rape Babysitter.
(Please go on to read the whole “Missing Stair” blog post. It reflects some experiences I’ve had as well!)
I understand that rape accusations and “callout posts” can be used as vectors of harassment. It can also be really annoying for some rando who you’ve never talked to to send you a callout post for some other rando you’ve never talked to. I’ve seen a lot of that on tumblr especially in the late 2010’s. But there has to be some kind of reasonable position on this issue for people who actually want to live in community with other people instead of completely eschewing any kind of responsibility for the community you’re in. And at the same time it’s unsustainable to foster a culture of hypervigilance and paranoia.
You have to use your critical thinking skills, no matter what. There is no easy one-size-fits-all principle you can adopt.
I can’t help but feel like the current hyper-individualistic social climate is also partly due to the failure of the #MeToo movement to change the cultural paradigm, which I do feel it had the potential to. But moreover I think that a hyper-individualistic culture is at least partly a product of the capitalist mode of production. We are atomized from each other, even as we attempt to reach out (sometimes digitally).
the thing is. tumblr is social media. it's not a community. there's no clear delineation of ingroups and outgroups.
if oop meant, say, 'callout posts' within a discord server or some kind of actual social group, then sure.
but they meant tumblr. home of false accusations against trans women. i think it's very reasonable to choose not to participate in that context.
well, no, tumblr is not “a community” much in the same way that a large city with the same population as the number of tumblr users is also not “a community.”
there isn’t “clear delineation” of ingroups and outgroups, but often that isn’t true in real life either. the point of the missing stair post is not actually dependent on there being extremely concrete boundaries between tumblr subcultures, which is why i have seen “missing stair” type situations happen on this website before which often blew up into public accusations (and, sometimes, counter-accusations).
“home of false accusations against trans women” is a strong choice of words. Frankly I don’t have any reason to think that’s more common on this website than on any other website, unfortunately. But conversely, you do actually have to be able to take some kind of concrete action when, for example, the accuser and the accused are both trans women, and you know both of them IRL, and your choices will have consequences that affect the rest of all of your lives. that is a realistic scenario.
Two things to consider:
Would it change how you acted in the above scenario if it was a cis woman accusing a cis man? What about a cis man accusing another cis man?
How many degrees of separation away from someone do you have to be before they are no longer a priority for you as a fellow human being?
Do you want to hold everyone in the world at arms length forever? Put everyone in the world in a position of such abstraction, such distance, that it does not matter to you if they are the victim or the perpetrator?
I certainly don’t. I think that’s part of the problem with our (global) society, that too many people act as if they are at a “safe distance” from everything.
so, like, yes, i do kind of agree with you (in the descriptive sense) that there isn’t necessarily “a community” of tumblr, and I often talk about how i do not feel there is “an LGBTQIA+ community” or “a queer community” or “a trans community” or even “a transfeminine community.”
However, that being said, you must also consider the real possibility that the people on the other end of the fiber-optic cable who make funny words appear on your screen might be other human beings.
I’m not interested in the specificities of why the OOP as an individual “participates” or “doesn’t participate.” I’m trying to examine the underlying mindset in general, rather than in specific. (Btw on left-leaning tumblr, nobody complains when someone points out a particular user is a neo-nazi or a zionist. Everyone just hits the block button and moves on. Same with using the “Shinigami Eyes” program that demarcates transphobes.)
This isn’t about one particular user’s habits. It’s about the underlying hyper-individualist mindset. I think it could actually be awesome if we were a bit more community-minded, or community-aspirational if you will, about some very basic issues of safety.
