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drommy

free them

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teenagecrush

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rumorednightspress

NEW MUSIC VIDEO: The Maine - “Am I Pretty?”

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rapeculturerealities

For many women, their value is tied up in being a peacemaker, in being a fixer of problems, in being “nice,” even at a cost to themselves

It’s been documented time and again by psychologists and counsellors who work with assault survivors: in reaction to trauma, many women will do things they later regret because they felt somehow compelled to “be nice.” It’s a bit of social conditioning – be deferential, fix problems, avoid conflict at all costs – that keeps women uniquely vulnerable as they recriminate themselves for things that aren’t their fault. Even though no one but rapists are to blame for rape, many women carry their pacifist conditioning over into the aftermath of sexual assault, especially when they know the attacker: Maybe I’m overreacting? Maybe I misinterpreted? Maybe it was me?

thebestoftumbling

Cat ownership in a nutshell. (x)

startrekrenegades

[Person: Lookit this fucker. Cat: *muffled meowing* Person: He’s got a cat door - *clicks light* - that he can come in. But nope! He wants to come in the door! Cat: *muffled meow* Person: You wanna come in the door? Y'wanna come in? Alright, watch this - *door squeaks open* WELCOME to the house, Joe! Come on in– Cat: *runs away, jingling* Person: You FUCKER!!]

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Cats have a very poor sense of object permanence. As such, they don’t realize that its possible for two doors to lead to the same room. In their mind if they come in one door, that’s one room and if they come in the other door, that’s a completely different room. This is why, if you let a cat out and it’s raining, it will run inside and meow at you to open another door. They aren’t able to connect that both doors lead to the same outside.

In this case, this cat does not want to go to The Place The Cat Door Leads To but rather is asking to go to The Place The Front Door Leads To.

As for why he runs away at the end?

Well, he’s an asshole.

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Babe im not grabbin ur boob im grabbin ur heart

zannibear

thats my right boob tho

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babe

tranquilihty

neck kissing is honestly the hottest, most seductive thing anybody could ever do to me. if you kiss my neck, if you playfully bite my neck, if your tongue touches my neck i will melt in your fingertips.