THE GREAT UNFRIENDING EXPERIMENT
Unfriending Facebook friends is trivial to me. Unless they are special and long-time acquaintance, then that's another matter.
In these unfriending experiment, I chose friends to unfriend based on the level of friendship I have with them. It's easy since I pretty keep a close knit of friends and acquaintances. I felt like I betrayed the first Facebook friend I unfriended because he has been my best friend for more than 10 years now, we've been classmates since Grade 1 to Grade 12. For the "not-so-close" friends and others that I unfriended, I just felt a little silly since I never know until then that I should have unfriended them a long time ago, they're not my loss anyway.
I don't think the Facebook friends I unfriended notice the change in the number of their friends. Otherwise, my best friend would've already sent me plethora of absurd accuses.
In choosing between two friends to unfriend, I guess I chose based on the level of social capital I can benefit from them. "Is there anything this friend can help me with in the future?" "Is he/she worthy to keep as a Facebook friend?" "Does one or two of his/her posts has positive impacts on me?" These set of questions ran through my mind as I chose the friend to unfriend. In the case of my best friend, I just did it out of fun. When I sent him a friend request, his reactions are priceless. As expected, he threw funny accuses and complained a lot. He asked if something is bothering me that is related to him, if I got a beef with him, and if I don't want to be friends with him anymore. The other unfriended Facebook friends, I didn't bother to add them again as I don't have anything to do with them anymore.
The one Facebook friend I will never unfriend is my mother, who recently got in to Facebook and is learning how to tread in the social media world. She asks so many questions that I find amusing.
These unfriending experiment has made me realize that it's totally fine to unfriend some people, especially if you don't have anything to do with them and if they don't impact your life positively.
That would conclude my insight to The Great Unfriending Experiment.