hiii i'm bri! 23, switch, poly, transmasculine, butch lesbian. a toy that's sometimes a gross perv boyfriend, sometimes the tickle monster, sometimes an obedient dolly. if you have no age on your profile or you're under 18 get out. to save space, rest is below the cut, go nuts.
this has lowkey become my main so if you would rather not have horny accounts liking/interacting with your stuff please feel free to block me, i see cool posts and like them before i remember what account i'm on
WARNINGS/DEAD DOVES/TRIGGERS -- hard cnc, use of language like rape/molest/violate, weird psychosexual shit about degrading your personhood and identity. if any of this would be upsetting to see discussed maybe click away.
about
-- i feel the need to clarify that for me personally, there is a difference between kink stuff i do and sex, mostly being the intention, types of touch, and language used. the two can go together obviously like literally just being tied up during sex is both kink and sex, but also when i walk out of a tickling session where the session was i was held down and tickled stupid, that's not having sex to me, that's kink. being greyace, the centerpiece to me is kink and sex is dressing for the kink, not the other way around.
-- that being said! i am a lesbian and also adore fellow transmasculine people. in terms of kink stuff, though, i'll play with anyone! only catch being that i prefer to only play with cishet men in group settings.
-- any sorts of asks are perfectly fine! even if you just want to compare notes on something we're both interested in i'd love to hear. i consider doing scenes to be a skill you can hone both as a dom and a sub, and i'm happy to chat about any of the shit i post about. anyway! kinks and interests
greens (big fan)
-- tickling -- cnc -- fear -- hypnosis -- bondage -- petplay -- pain and sadomasochism in general -- feet lowkey -- objectification -- intox (alcohol and weed) -- orgasm control -- praise & degradation -- ears? can you be into ears? idk they're fun -- human domestication guide -- armpits too if i'm honest -- scent/smell -- dollification (im dolly) --
yellows (nuance)
-- impact play: yes but may be more emotionally intense/difficult for me domming -- hypnosis: sub-leaning but switchy, i'm less interested in spirals and more interested in the mind game so expect heavy use of suggestion and psychosexual bullshit -- knives/blood: also sub-leaning but switchy, just make sure nobody goes to the hospital -- breeding: regardless of gender very effective as a threat but only as a threat -- caregiver dynamics/ageplay: no for stuff like diapers, baby talk, pacifers, etc., yes for general regression and smallness. still exploring this one but very drawn to the caregiver side of the coin --
reds (personal hard no's but we don't shame here)
-- piss, scat, vomit -- anal, top or bottom -- detrans -- ddlg -- incest/fauxcest --
A few weeks ago, a small but higher-than-normal number of accounts were mistakenly suspended. The suspensions were quickly reversed, but our response wasn't good enough, and we want to say more.
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We’ve heard from members of the trans community on Tumblr that they were disproportionately impacted, and that deserves a direct response. According to 3rd party researchers, Tumblr’s userbase has the highest proportion of LGBTQIA+ folks on social media, so it makes sense that when something goes wrong, those communities might feel that disproportionate impact.
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Tumblr belongs to everyone. We take that seriously, and we intend to earn back your trust. We are not afraid to have tough discussions with you or make updates based on your feedback, though on occasion, it might take some time.
To the people whose accounts were affected, and to the members of our trans community who felt targeted: we are truly sorry.
Providing my own data on this issue, since i have had the pleasure of gathering a great amount of evidence on this event:
a small but higher-than-normal number of accounts were mistakenly suspended
Two hundred within five minutes.
The suspensions were quickly reversed
Some suspensions were reversed.
We’ve heard from members of the trans community on Tumblr that they were disproportionately impacted
Correction. All members harmed but one were trans women, specifically, not just "members of the trans community".
We moderate behavior.
All members terminated were terminated after following one specific blog, created a few hours before. The "behavior" you moderated was following a trans woman's new blog.
However, these signals play no role in how our moderation systems make decisions.
Then explain why trans women are disproportionately banned on false grounds. What happens if someone gets mass reported by transphobic userrs? Why have you chosen to restore the account of a kiwifarmer, known hate group, and ban yet more trans women? Explain your decisions.
We are also overhauling our process with a goal of responding to mistaken suspension appeals within 24 hours, and have instituted an ongoing internal review of how suspensions and appeals are handled.
Going forward, we're committed to finding a better balance: being more transparent with our community about issues that matter, even when we can't share everything.
Since this event, trans women have been terminated at greatly accelerated rates, on more and more openly false grounds. Their appeals have been denied often without any human oversight, recieving a denial within seconds, or not recieving any answer.
To the people whose accounts were affected, and to the members of our trans community who felt targeted: we are truly sorry.
Now remember kids, unless the character directly turns to the camera and says "Hello audience. I identify as a transgender woman. Please use she/her pronouns from now on when referring to me. Thank you.", then he isn't really trans. No, the glaringly obvious subtext or word of the Creator don't count. He has to say the magic words. That's literally the only way you can tell a character is transgender. Extremely explicit magic words.
kidnapper throwing you in the trunk of her car, where you then hear her go back inside your place for what feels like 10 minutes, before coming back out and quickly opening the trunk to throw in your favourite plushie...
I seem to have recently become the type of girl who will, in actual fact, kick her feet in excitement if she happens to be texting a charming young lady while in bed
every time that one chappel roan song comes on i get pissed off at the line "i don't care if you're a stoner" as if being a stoner is just something to love a woman in spite of. as if being a stoner isn't one of the most beautiful things a woman can do
girl who knows that sometime tonight, inevitably, you will put your hands and your mouth and your body on hers and she won’t have the constitution to stop you. girl who can feel your intentions in the arm you have around her shoulders, the kisses you sneak onto the top of her head, the compliments that are just an inch beyond anything purely “friendly.” even if she were to thrash and fight and push, she knows you’d still get your way.
girl who invites you over for this specific reason.
an eternity collar. a solid metal ring casted around its neck so that it cannot be removed. a constant reminder of it being owned. install an o ring for function.
a genital piercing with a large hoop to be attached to chains can replace a collar with the added benefit of consistent pain to the pet's most sensitive regions. perfect for tugging and keeping irritated just so the pet is never fully comfortable.
genital mutilation as a punishment for recurrent sexual disobedience. have it spayed, neutered. its pleasure does not matter; its discomfort can make it obeying its owner regardless more satisfying.
removal of limbs. this is more common for dolls, but leaving it with stumps can force the creature to crawl everywhere it goes. alternatively, break the pet's limbs and regularly rebreak them so it cannot use them without being in agony. alternatively still, regularly cut their palms and soles for lesser but similar effect.
removal of the tongue is a permanent solution to a pet using its human words and refusing to stop. it will be reduced to panting, grunting, groaning, oversalivating, drooling. it will be a delicious mess. this does effect bowl feeding, but it can use its teeth and lips if it still has those.
