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the scene of gillion trying to teach chip how to use his newfound magic gets me so emotional, because gil is being the teacher that he himself needed and never had.
gillion, who was given just a single try to succeed before being treated like a failure and whose subsequent unsuccessful attempts were treated as nothing more than a pile of additional disappointments, being patient with chip and encouraging him to keep trying, even though chip wanted to give up after his first failure.
gillion, whose struggles to succeed were met with disapproval and never with attempts to help him, reminding chip that he was capable and catering his guidance to chip’s way of thinking: handing him the stick again because it seemed like it had aided him, asking him how he had done magic back before he’d realised he was doing it, asking how his brain works and telling him to do it in the way that suits that.
gillion, who had been expected to do things in specific and rigid ways, seeing that chip’s magic was manifesting in a form other than what he’d planned for and immediately encouraging and nurturing that new manifestation instead.
gillion, who had the terrifying weight of the prophecy forever on his mind while trying to learn, noticing that something else was affecting chip’s performance and trying to get to that root issue.
and then gillion, who grew up being basically taught that he could never be enough and who is still struggling with that belief…responding to chip voicing the same belief about himself with, “for who? because it’s enough for me. and i know it’s enough for everyone else here.”
Been working in pest control for 3 months now and i can confidently say that nobody on earth seems to understand that sometimes You Will See A Bugs and that's Normal if you live literally anywhere with oxygen
Unfortunately it appears you have a garden that is growing several important pollinator food sources you will be seeing wasps sometimes. You want us to spray your flowers? That'll stop the wasps but only because your flowers will be Dead
I just think everyone would benefit from living in the woods for a week and having their bug tolerance forcibly increased by being forced to share a showerstall with a wolf spider the size of a half dollar everyday
(Life hack: if you consistently put out safe water sources for bees, the wasps will see you and they WILL eventually recognize you. And once you become The Bringer Of Water, they will become your own little goon squad. I used to get stung if I startled them by my compost bin, but now I have banged doors open just to realize a wasp was chilling right on the lintel, but all it does is wave its antennae at me. They see me carrying watering cans to my flowers and follow me. When I go to other places, the wasps there will also be friendly. Wasps are fucking amazing yall.)
I really hate how culture normalizes fear of bugs and reinforces and fuels insect phobias until they make it impossible to coexist with nature
I would never dismiss someone's phobia. I know what kind of hell on earth that shit is. And I don't mock people for being scared of wasps or bees because some people have allergies that can kill them and it's kinda dumb to be rude to someone who is afraid of something that might kill them. But it's done people such a disservice that culture tells people it's reasonable to be afraid of all bugs and that most bugs will hurt you or your house or your pets.
I see so many comments and tags on posts about nature saying things like "I would love to spend time outside but I can't handle being around bugs" as if it's normal! If you can't sit on grass or go on a hike because of your fear of bugs, that's like...clinically significant highly disabling stuff. It's locking you away from so many experiences.
Fears like this often get reinforced by witnessing other people's responses to a stimulus. We are social creatures and if you watch the people around you show disgust and fear in response to bugs, you will learn to respond that way too. If you hear on the internet and TV and elsewhere that most bugs are dangerous and want to hurt you or will give you diseases, it will be reinforced even more.
The fact is, bugs are just guys. We depend on them for almost every part of our lives. Our planet is teeming with so many wondrous life forms, and many of them are insects. They come in every color and every form of iridescence, they glow and sparkle and they are fuzzy and striped and spotted. They are not "gross" or dirty.
Insects worldwide are now dropping in number, and it could mean disaster for us and every life form on earth. Most flowering plants (80% or so) have a symbiotic partnership with insects where they are dependent on insect pollination to fertilize their flowers. Wasps, bees, flies, butterflies, and even ants and beetles are all important pollinators, and each plant's flowers are designed to be pollinated by a different group of insects. Without these insects, the majority of flowering plant species would not be able to exist. They would go extinct. That includes most of the plants we eat. No wasps, bees, flies and other pollinators= no apples, no berries, no peaches, no plums, no anything. That's a simplified summary but it expresses just how important they are.
A big reason for it is the use of insecticides that are highly toxic to a wide variety of non-target insects. For instance, carbaryl, typically known as Sevin in the US, was for a long time sold in every garden center in a powdery dust form, to put on garden plants that had holes in their leaves.
Carbaryl dust is incredibly toxic to bees and can be picked up by them in the same way as pollen, and in that way it can be carried back to the hive and kill the whole hive.
Many of these insecticides are also highly dangerous to humans, and using them in and around your home exposes you to poisonous and/or potentially cancer-causing substances. The residues of these insecticides linger basically forever inside homes. There have been studies done that found insecticides that have been banned for a long time still lingering in people's carpets and floors.
So it's not good that so many people are terrified of insects. And the best antidote is to learn. Learn about bugs and their diversity and unique beauty and intelligence. If videos are no good, look at books with pictures; if you don't want to look at pictures, books without pictures or podcasts might help. Maybe start with bugs that seem less frightening and move on to learning about others from there.
Learn about their ways and behaviors and how they are similar to animals you are more familiar with, such as birds or cats. Learn the ways in which they are similar to you—you will find that you share many important qualities, like "enjoy fruit" and "would defend friends and family." Join bug identification groups online. Learn from people who keep bugs as pets.
It is so, so rewarding and important.
If you can tolerate particular bugs like butterflies or bumblebees, I recommend looking at them close-up in videos and pictures to get more familiar with their shapes and movements and behaviors. Bugs are scary to a lot of people because they seem strange and unfamiliar (thorax??? legs??? many?!!) and their layout is quite different than, for example, a mammal. But once it becomes familiar, the creepiness is reduced.
A side effect of this is that you might become very upset because you want to pet bees and you can't pet the bees because your hands are too large and they are too small. :(
I was never severely scared of insects, but I did have a huge shift occur when I started seeing them as beautiful and cute. The world really opens up. It seems like such a wonderful miracle that I can get so close to these beautiful animals, many of which are fluffy and colorful and gleam like gemstones and have cute antennae and so many colors. They groom themselves like cats! There are tiny bees that make tiny buzzes when they fly. It's really a wonderful thing.
A fear of bugs is understandable. But a lot of people with a fear of bugs aren't just afraid of them, they hate them or don't consider them animals and so don't want to bother getting over their fear because it's more convenient to just kill them. I can sympathize with a phobia but I can't sympathize with actively not wanting to change it.
It is 100% possible to get over a fear of bugs. You have to want it. I used to be absolutely petrified if a bug was in the room, I wouldn't even go through the door. I was so scared of the idea of touching a spider that I shook out my bed sheets every night in case there was one. I didn't want to get over my fear because I didn't know anything about bugs, they weren't animals to me -- they were just meaningless mindless drones.
I started to want to when I started to learn more about them, their roles in the ecosystem, their behavior that actually makes a lot of sense because they're just animals. Step one was acknowledging every bug I saw as a living creature, saying to it "You're a lot like me, we are more alike than different, we want a lot of the same things (food, water, rest, not to get hurt) and we share the same space whether either of us like it or not." Even if I still wouldn't go near them, I stopped feeling the urge to kill them.
Step two was learning about my native bug species. I downloaded the app iNaturalist and started to learn to identify them. I uploaded a lot of pictures of flowers and mushrooms and birds but I felt encouraged to get closer to bugs so I could get pictures of them and identify them. Eventually I was able to get really up close with bugs I found outside, even bees and yes, spiders, to admire them. I really recommend this app if you're trying to get over a fear of something in nature -- be it bugs, or birds, fungus, etc.
Step three is getting comfortable with bugs crawling on, landing on and touching you. It probably sounds impossible if you're anything like I was 5 years ago. If you start with step one now, in 5 years you'll see what I'm talking about.
It's a process but it is absolutely doable. Because guess what, I used to HATE bugs -- I said it literally a lot, that I hated them. Now I LOVE bugs. They're some of my favorite animals and I genuinely feel the same appreciation about a lot of them that I do traditionally cute animals like cats. It's worth it. Please start teaching yourself about bugs, you'll find a whole world of wonder.
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(dakota cole voice) what do you mean the queen is dead. i just talked to ms g yesterday.
"headcanon that gillion used to like wearing flowy dresses and skirts with ribbons and stuff before he was forced to wear stiff and bulky armor for his training" thanks @8-maximum-8 hahahah who needs a fun expression of your identity when you are a weapon... :(
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what a lot of people dont understand is that the deep hatred of panic at the disco is fueled by a very intense love for (what used to be) panic at the disco. oh what could have been. oh what it has become. wretched
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