Call me Ivy. Here is my blog. I hope you like it, but… before you get too far… I have some mental health issues. I use this blog as an escape. Please leave if 3d, sh, sui thoughts, etc. could upset you.
MY DMS AND ASKS ARE OPEN
Pls ask me stuff
im desperate for attention
Hobbies: DUNGEONS AND DRAGONS 🐉, Reading 📖, Minecraft, crafting, gardening, and digital art
DNI
Idk I’m just putting this here because everyone has one… tbh no one actually follows them 🤷🏻♀️
Stats and blinkys will be safely buried below the cut
Hw: 201 (April 2025) Height: 5’1
Lw: 136 (August 2024) Cw: 157.6
Goals:
Next Gw: 145 Ugw: 87
- fit goal jeans #2 by June 25th or lose access to sweets for 2 months
Tags:
Froggyfits:>> - my outfits
Nalacat:) - my cat (but if I get termed that’s an easy way to find me)
Im a dungeon master for dungeons and dragons at a local game shop. While on vacation all of the other dungeon masters alerted players that they couldn’t make it. I reminded my players id be out of town and also wouldn’t be there.
Two players dog pile me about needing more than a 2.5 hour heads up that I wasn’t going to be there despite they themselves saying that they couldn’t make it that night. The store owner herself has to step in and tell them to stop. (It’s a volunteer position mind you)
I thought that was that… I was wrong
*today*
I come in as my usual self, being friendly and chatty (even with the two MEN that did the discord thing). My favorite player gives me a pack of gourmet cookies. They players get the table ready and I say “Man do I have some fun things planned for tonight “ and problem player 1 (P1) say yeah but first we need to talk.
I was praying to Gaia that he was not about to bring up the discord conversation from last week but he did.
He went off about how more than 3 hours notice is needed because he “gives up his entire day to be there” (the function starts at 7:30 pm) and how I’m a forgetful person so I shouldn’t expect my players to remember things that I verbally tell them.
I looked him dead in the eyes and said “I’m gonna walk away because I’m getting pissed off”. I grabbed my husband and took him outside and explained the situation. I told him I was gonna pack up and go home. At this point I’m so angry I could cry and I’m literally shaking.
I walk back in and P1 tries to CONTINUE the argument so I tell him I’m gonna go home. After hearing that he continues to push so I walk tf out with my shit and everything. I leave my husband and his brother at the shop. We rode together 💀.
I get home and all the dms text me that both him and the other guy are banned.
Store manager calls to tell me the same thing. He says they value me and want me to continue DMing but will respect any decision I make.
Female store manger messages me and tells me the same and that they’re also banned from the discord server.
Finally, I’m at peace but now I’m worried all my players will leave because I feel like I overreacted.
