girl no: itās not hard to start anew
FOR: The girls that feel like a loser every year, girls that promise themselves theyāll not fall back into mistakes but they do anyways, girls that donāt know who they are.
Yeah, girl, I get it. You think you laugh too loud, you find wrong things funny, youāre scared people think youāre fucking annoying and you canāt seem to reinvent yourself. whole break you tell yourself you have to be a certain way, day 1: youāre back to the beginning.
Ö“Ö¶Öø. ..š ą£Ŗ Ö“Ö¶ÖøšŖ½ą¼ą¼ąæ babe, itās time for some soul searching
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hereās a rapid fire 8 questions you ask urself right now, lady:
who the hell do I want to be?
ā personality, mental goals? wealth, love and habits?
which parts of myself right now are cool asf?
ā which parts of me can I never let go of? which I genuinely like about myself?
which parts gotta change?
ā what has hurt me and the people around me? What toxic cycles do I fall into and canāt get out?
ā what the hell am I scared of?
āslow habits I can methodically build up week by week? things I know I can keep consistent?
āIs it to be prettier? To have more friends? To be liked? To love myself?
deep questions, but thereās not way around it.
Ö“Ö¶Öø. ..š ą£Ŗ Ö“Ö¶ÖøšŖ½ą¼ą¼ąæ SLOW AND STEADY
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NO ONE CHANGES OVERNIGHT
if you change all at once, youāre gonna be looking fake asf. implement your āhow can I change?ā ideas weekly. Not all at once, hereās a template:
Week 1: listening to people and thinking of a good response before replying
Week 2: week 1 + not gossiping about other people
Week 3: week 1 + 2 + calling people out who shit talk
and so on and so forth, reinvention is a fucking marathon NOT a sprint.
Ö“Ö¶Öø. ..š ą£Ŗ Ö“Ö¶ÖøšŖ½ą¼ą¼ąæ WHAT STAYS?
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completely becoming a new person is reallyā¦shallow. somethings cannot be and shouldnāt be changed:
YOUR BELIEFS AND OPINIONS. donāt ever let yourself get influenced by others if you know your beliefs are tried and true.
YOUR HUMOUR. if youāre a funny bitch, stay a funny bitch, donāt change what you find amusing or funny.
YOUR BOUNDARIES. if youāre not into physical touch, donāt force yourself girlā¦
conclusion | babe itās not hard change what needs to go, 2026 will go well.
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