Kat Needs a Nap

Kat, 28, they/them/any. I love talking about anime, especially One Piece. mostly reblog. #i may be an idiot but I'm a fluffy idiot

[sandersstudies]

Sick list of symptoms bro. Now try humanizing your behavior instead of pathologizing it.

[sandersstudies]

Pathologizing: Hey sorry I yelled at you. I have this ADHD symptom called RSD that makes me really sensitive.

Humanizing: Hey, I’m sorry that I blew up like that earlier. In the moment I felt really attacked and overwhelmed and I reacted badly, but I know you didn’t mean to offend me with what you said, so that behavior is on me.

[queer-asinfuckyou]

Because I just saw a post bitching about this one, I want to add: this post is saying that you need to take accountability for the way you hurt other people, even if it happens because of a symptom of your disability/illness. It's also saying that using terms (especially acronyms) that aren't common knowledge isn't a helpful way to explain yourself. It is NOT saying that you need to let people walk all over you because "your disability isn't an excuse."

If you're diabetic, you don't have to eat the honey glazed ham that will send you into a coma (their example). But you also can't yell at the person offering it and accuse them of trying to kill you. You can just say "thanks, but my body can't handle that kind of sugar intake, so I'll pass"

[ayin-me-yesh]

If you run over someone's foot with your wheelchair you still apologise

[aesungaia]

Everyone's Friend

[penn-dragon]

Watching the finale of The Amazing Digital Circus bit me with the bug to design circus avatars for all the Straw Hats. So here they are with their names and some of the thoughts I had while designing them. (Jinbe is probably my favorite because look at him.)

[tomannynotebooks]

NOT

Creating an egg does not make me a woman

And I am not to become one

Not being a woman does not make me a man

And I am not to become one

The only change is in my perception

Of what gender was, is, and will be

Of my own presentation and purpose

Of me

I am not man nor woman nor broken

I am not

And will continue to be

[dndprofessor]

[i-am-grell]

i am 130something parts into this; 4kids is fair game 😂

Part 120 | Part 121 | Part 122 | Part 123 | Part 124 | Part 125 | Part 126 | Part 127 | Part 128 | Part 129 | Part 130 | Part 131 | Part 132 | Part 133

[dykeselfcest]

life is so hard when you love being competent and knowledgeable and helpful but you also love slacking off

[i-am-grell]

we were all angy at thirteen

Part 1 | Part 2 | Part 3 | Part 4 | Part 5 | Part 6 | Part 7 | Part 8 | Part 9 | Part 10 | Part 11 | Part 12 | Part 13 | Part 14 | Part 15 | Part 16 | Part 17 | Part 18 | Part 19 | Part 20 | Part 21 | Part 22 | Part 23 | Part 24 | Part 25 | Part 26 | Part 27 | Part 28 | Part 29 | Part 30 | Part 31 | Part 32 | Part 33 | Part 34 | Part 35 | Part 36 | Part 37 | Part 38 | Part 39 | Part 40 | Part 41 | Part 42 | Part 43 | Part 44 | Part 45 | Part 46 | Part 47 | Part 48 |

Part 49 | Part 50 | Part 51 | Part 52 | Part 53 | Part 54 | Part 55 | Part 56 | Part 57 | Part 58 | Part 59 | Part 60 | Part 61 | Part 62 | Part 63 | Part 64 | Part 65 | Part 66 | Part 67 | Part 68 | Part 69 | Part 70 | Part 71 | Part 72 | Part 73 | Part 74 | Part 75 | Part 76 | Part 77 | Part 78 | Part 79 | Part 80 | Part 81 | Part 82 | Part 83 | Part 84 | Part 85 | Part 86 | Part 87 | Part 88 | Part 89 | Part 90 | Part 91 | Part 92 | Part 93 | Part 94 | Part 95 | Part 96 | Part 97 | Part 98

[syn4k]

ok note to self i gotta leave the house regularly so that i dont feel like im slowly transforming into an evil fucking shadow clone of myself

[syn4k]

So as it turns out your sense of self doesnt exist in a vacuum. You gotta actually use it and bounce it off of other people like echolocation to see where you are as a person and shit. So if you dont regularly interact with other people the echoes just get weaker and weaker and before you know it your personality is a blurry fucked up fog clone of its former self. which it sucks because this makes it really hard to interact with people again but yknow

[tomannynotebooks]

"Don't send your emotional pain to my organs" -my sibling

[faustique]

just a reminder in case your mind is playing tricks on you today, you matter. you're important. you're loved. and your presence on this earth makes a difference whether you see it or not.

[tomannynotebooks]

SHATTER MYSELF

Ill break my own heart now

Lest one more cruel do it in my stead

Further shatter pieces that have not yet been repaird

And hope that this time theyll finally rest

For I've weatherd many heartbreaks 

From love spread far and wide

With little love returned

To repair what is inside

I'll retreat once more to shelter

Till light again breaks through 

And maybe be the time

My heart has been renewed 

But doubt crushes hope

Fickle as it is

Uncertainty triumphs 

Over bright shining grins

with every new peice broken

More hope spills away 

Cupped for moments in hands

That never meant to stay

So yes I'll shatter it myself 

Make the pain come quick

Stave off the creeping agony

Of slowly crumbling bricks

[tomannynotebooks]

UNKNOWN

My world is an unknown 

One just offset from reality

My senses tell me one thing

But rarely the whole truth 

My instincts react to what ifs

Not what is

My words best left unsaid

Slip past a tongue that can't be held

My world is an unknown 

And I it's lonely dweller

Can't help but wish to leave

To join the reality of others

Where the unknown is far away 

And warmth of friends is found

Instead I burrow down

To the depths of my unknown 

Where lonelyness abounds

But my safety is more sure

[panerasexual-deactivated2017100]

drop whatever you’re doing right now and climb a tree

[nintendowii2011]

its pitch black outside, and freezing cold. I think ill climb a tree tomorrow

[panerasexual-deactivated2017100]

you climb that fuckin tree right now

[likes-dinos]

I’ve literally never seen this post on my dash when it is not after dark and cold as balls. I’m beginning to think this is a conspiracy to get us eaten by some nocturnal tree demon.

[the-place-where]

everybody put in the tags at what time you saw this

[escuerzoresucitado]

[breakbeatbun]

"well, you're the expert here!" i had to googoo it 💔

[beaft]

googling shit like "why do i feel bad after hanging out with my friends" and all of the answers are either "you need better friends" (i don't; my friends are wonderful) or "your social battery is drained, you need to rest and regain your energy levels" (i don't; i've got tons of energy, it's just manifesting as over-the-top neurotic mania). why is this even happening. it's like some stupid toll i have to pay as a punishment for enjoying myself too much

[beaft]

I actually, genuinely think social event aftercare would fix me. I need someone to put me to bed and say "you were fun today and no one hated you"

[starbitten13]

[ebonydraygon]

#theres a thing called 'larp drop' thats essentially this#esp since when having a great time you might be more inclined to disregard your limits and ignore discomfort#(and forget to eat/drink if its larp whoops)#and then once you have a moment to yourself it all comes crashing in#source: once forgot to eat at larp and had a sobbing fit in my car that ended the instant i bit into a chicken nugget - @queerfarmgremlin

[troublepunk-ldn]

this is also true of festivals, conventions, pride parades, concerts, and any situation where you have a lot of fun with other people!