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Sometimes self-care is skipping school with your crush

something weird

im bi but I tend to get crushes on fictional male characters more that real men and real women more than fictional female characters

so I guess I like to concept of men

orchidbreezefc

i think this is a common feeling because men are written with such depth and complexity, whereas fictional women are not only few and far between, but are written half-assedly and from a place of little understanding of a woman’s standpoint.

meanwhile, real women are lovely and complex people, and real men are mostly just potatoes.

shephaestion

tommig19

This explains so much

theconcealedweapon

You’re able to call your parents “Mom” and “Dad”. They were not born with those names.

You’re able to call your teachers “Mr” or “Mrs” and their last name. You’d get in trouble if you addressed them by first name.

You’re able to call a celebrity by their chosen stage name.

You’re able to call your friends a shortened version of their name, their middle name instead of their first, or a completely random nickname.

You’re able to call a married woman by her husband’s last name, even though she was not born with that last name.

But when someone’s transgender, how does calling them by a name they were not born with somehow become a hassle?

tlematimun

psych2go

20 Self Love Affirmations

1. “I am beautiful.”

2. “I love and approve of myself.”

3. “I choose to think thoughts that enhance my life greatly.”

4. “I am worthy.”

5. “I accept myself exactly as I am.”

6. “Forgiveness is the door out of my past.”

7. “When I forgive myself, it is easier for me to forgive others.”

8. “I accept that I cannot change anyone but myself.”

9. “My life is constantly improving.”

10. “I understand that in order to grow, change is needed.”

11. “I flow easily with life.”

12. “I am worthy of forgiveness.”

13. “All experiences are opportunities to grow.”

14. “I welcome positive change with ease.”

15. “I am deeply grateful for all of the wonderful people and things in my life.”

16. “I radiate good health.”

17. “I only give my body goodness.”

18. “I trust my intuition.”

19. “I lovingly think in a positive way.”

20. “I am at peace with myself.”

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awesomacious

Critter Pool Ramp

dashbeardconfessional

this is jUST THE BEST

dailypsychologyfacts

6 Types of Unhealthy Father Daughter Relationships | Psych2Go x Mikaru

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What would the combination of 1 and 2 be?

noblelilium

What about unhealthy brother-sister relationships or siblings in general?

dailypsychologyfacts

what do you guys think? Want a topic on this?

uncle-knobheads

Fic authors deserve more credit.

Story time: I started a book about 23 hours ago and just finished it. Also in that time I slept for 10 hours, spent time with family, was at work, etc. Anyway, I enjoyed the book (Simon vs. the Homo Sapiens Agenda). But it felt like it flew by, so after I finished I looked up the word count because what are pages? Pages are meaningless. I only function in word counts anymore.

The estimate I found was 58,580. My immediate reaction was “oh, that’s why. That’s nothing!” But what a shitty response. Because no. That’s not nothing. That’s a whole. Damn. Book. An entire novel! And Fic authors regularly bust out 30k, 50k, 100k, 150k words. AND THEY DO IT FOR FREE. WHILE WORKING AND LIVING THEIR LIVES.

So anyway, thank your favorite fic author today because they deserve it. Because they’re amazing. They’re the MVPs.

saltoftheao3

arabwife

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Can i get a step by step on how to do this?

catastrofries

So far for me it’s been something like:

1. Become aware of how and when you tearing yourself down.

2. Now that you can catch yourself doing it. Offer counters to the negative self talk. A really useful thing I read was to talk to yourself almost the way you would child. Gentle and patient. Even when they fuck up.

3. Take time to celebrate your small accomplishments. You’ve been attacking yourself for every little mistake. Apply that same fervor to the positive things in your life. Did the dishes even though you didn’t want to? Fuck yeah! Got up and took shower? YES!!! You are taking positive steps to feeling better. Celebrate it.

4. Make lists of things you’re good at/ like about yourself. The first time I did this the only two things in my list we’re that I liked my hair and I had good friends. It was start.

5. Don’t beat yourself up if you screw up steps 1-4. It’s counter productive. When I catch myself calling my self stupid for some mistake or other my response now is,“We don’t talk to ourselves like that anymore. What’s something constructive that could actually help solve the problem.”

Most of the time that seems to work. Not always. But more and more Everytime.

I hope any of that made sense.

absolutely-walnuts

oh my goodness there are instructions!!

lovelustquotes

dankmemesreasonforliving

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psych2go

Read full article here:

6 Side Effects of Toxic Parenting - Psych2Go

plannedparenthood

Most people today only know a country where they have the right to access abortion. Abortion is a safe and legal medical procedure — and we need to keep it that way. We can’t go back. Senators must vote for judicial nominees who protect our reproductive health care, not attack it. Take action: https://p.ppfa.org/2JhrOdV

#pro choice

projectqueer

In a country where 50% of LGBTI students are bullied at school, this is not good.

When a trans student in Japan asked her teacher to be included on a girls’ school trip – she was assigned male at birth – her teacher told her classmates. Then their parents complained about the student.

This story is an example of the growing rate of Japanese teachers outing their LGBTI students to their parents and peers. The numbers of LGBTI students reporting they have been outed by their teachers in on the rise. That’s according to Tokyo’s Kyosei Net or All Japan Sexual Minorities Support Network an LGBTI not-for-profit.

Minako ‘Minata’ Hara is the representative director of Kyosei Net and recently worked with a student whose teacher outed them. Hara told Japan Times there is not enough guidance for teachers on how to work with LGBTI students. Teachers believe telling their parents is the right thing to do.

‘Although the LGBT student only consulted with the teacher in charge, the parents found out immediately,’ Hara said. ‘Most of the teachers are just acting because they want people around them to be aware. But since they lack a common understanding, they are often just playing it by ear.’

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#lgbtq

ariaste

Relationships are scary and complicated ONLY when you start thinking of your partner as some kind of adversary.

You know how to stop being scared of relationships? Remember that it’s got a goddamn buddy system *built in*. That’s all a relationship IS: “Let’s approach life with the buddy system.”

Check on your buddy. Make sure your buddy doesn’t forget their lunch box on the schoolbus. Hold hands with your buddy so you don’t get lost. If your buddy wants to look at the monkey cage, look at the goddamn monkey cage with them. If you are the one looking at the monkey cage, ask your buddy what they want to do next, and when they want to feed the giraffe, help them find a quarter for the little food dispenser. Be a good buddy, and if your buddy isn’t a good one too, tell the teacher and ask for a new one.

This isn’t fucking rocket science, people.

matociquala

I have reblogged this before. I will reblog it again. And it’s not just romantic relationships: it’s family members and friends as well.

smartass-stripper

This kind of woke my ass up because of the amount of times I’ve had a buddy who didn’t check on me, didn’t want me to check on them, but didn’t want me to leave.

animalstalkinginallcaps

MY GOD, YOU’RE SO SQUISHY.

SAMUEL, YOU SLIMEBALL. KISS ME AGAIN.

I COULD GET LOST FOREVER IN YOUR FLAPS AND FOLDS.

STOP TALKING AND TAKE ME, SAMUEL. FILL ME WITH CHILDREN, NOT JUST POETRY.

YES! AND YOU AS WELL, SHEILA. AFTER ALL, OUR HERMAPHRODITIC REPRODUCTIVE SYSTEMS ALLOW FOR MUTUAL FERTILIZATION.

THAT’S SO SEXY.

I KNOW.

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Vigil for #KaliefBrowder, a young man who took his own life after years of reliving the trauma of spending three years in an adult prison beginning at the age of 16, for the crime of stealing a backpack in which he never was convicted. His wrongful imprisonment is another example of the flawed justice system that has stolen the lives of so many innocent people.

#no justice no peace