[what-iz-life]

Maturing is accepting you won't always get all the answers or apologies for the shit that hurt your heart...but you heal anyway.

[what-iz-life]

If I ever stop talking to you & remove you from my life, just know how hard it was for me. I have a bad habit of holding onto the little bit of good in ppl & giving too many chances. So if I don’t fw you anymore, it’s bc you pushed me way past my limits—but when I'm done I'm done

[thursday]

[thoughtkick]

“If you find yourself constantly trying to prove your worth to someone, you have already forgotten your value.”

— Unknown

[toxicserenity]

Are you single?

Yahhhhh hmu

[toxicserenity]

Anyone still on here? AND CAN GET ME A PLUG PLS. I'm cute and fun to be around🥰

[golivebyfaith]

“But You, O LORD, are a shield about me, My glory, and the One who lifts my head.”

— Psalms 3:3 NASB (via gracefaithworks)

[toxicserenity]

anyone wanna talk?

[toxicserenity]

Anyone going to beyond wonderland next weekend?

HMU LET'S HANG AND MAYBE DO SOME SHIT TOGETHER❣💛🧡💚💙💜💗💕💋

[onlinecounsellingcollege]

Tips for When you Feel Angry

1. Stifle your first impulse to react by saying or doing something negative. Instead, stop and either do the opposite of that, or simply choose to respond by doing nothing at all.

2. If you can remove yourself from the situation, then that is probably the best thing to do for now. That is, detach temporarily and choose to walk away. You can talk about what happened, or the issue, later on.

3. Speak calmly to yourself so you don’t over-react. (Figure out in advance what will likely work for you.) Depending on the person, it could be something like “Just chill” or “Leave it for now” or “This isn’t the right time to talk to talk about this.”

4. If you feel as if the person has really pressed your buttons, make yourself count to ten before you think about responding. At the same time, focus your attention on slowing down your breathing, and doing what you can to make your body relax.

5. To help with this, distract yourself by visualizing something that’s relaxing. For example, it could be a peaceful scene like the mountains or a lake. Alternatively, it could be something funny that has happened recently.

6. Speak directly to yourself, and make yourself act rationally. You’re responsible for you and how you act, and what you say. Don’t be controlled by your powerful emotions. You don’t want to end up with regrets later on.

[relentless-for-jesus]

God’s walking with you.

God’s walking with you.

God’s walking with you.

He’s never left you.

He’s never left you.

He’s never left you.

He’s never leaving you.

He’s never leaving you.

He’s never leaving you!

[onlinecounsellingcollege]

“Your peace is more important than driving yourself crazy trying to understand why something happened the way it did. Let it go.”

— Mandy Hale

[thegoodvybe]

“When you keep hurting someone, you do one of three things. Either you fill them up with hate, and they destroy everything around them. Or you fill them up with sadness, and they destroy themselves. Or you fill them up with justice, and they try to destroy everything that’s bad and cruel in this world.”

— Nick Lake, In Darkness (via thegoodvybe)

[toxicserenity]

Destroying everything and myself is deff accurate.

Guess who dropped out of school again! AND quit her job!! Next stop relapse🤗

[renukawrites]

when you pray to God for happiness, sometimes it’s delivered in unusual ways. like losing your job. or ending a relationship. because it’s part of what’s hindering your joy. it needs to go to pave way for something better. trust that when you ask, you are heard, and you will receive… even if it looks like everything’s going wrong. - renuka i. have faith.

[onlinecounsellingcollege]

How to Move Forwards and Make the Most of Life

1. Pay attention to what bugs you – it could be telling you something important about yourself.

2. Don’t just live with blah or negative feelings. Decide that you will fight to have a happier life.

3. Don’t change or stifle your personality. You’re valuable and special – so be true to who you are.

4. Pay attention to your physical symptoms. They may be highlighting unresolved frustrations, pain that needs addressing, or deep unhappiness.

5. Notice where your mind goes when it starts to wander. This often gives you insights into wishes, hopes and dreams.

6. Be willing to acknowledge and face your fears as they’re stopping you from going for the life you want to have.

7. Instead of feeling jealous or envious of others ask yourself what is missing from your own life right now.

[thegoodvybe]

[onlinecounsellingcollege]

“The hardest walk is the one you take alone, but it is also the walk that makes you the strongest.”

— Unknown