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This is a vent blog i will vent here

[trampledfauna]

Im genuibely gonna explode why are duo names just "traittrait duo" now THATS JUST A PAIRING TITLE THATS WHAT WE DID IN THE OMORI FANDOM criessss im not upset i promise harmless fandom behavior doesnt bother me (it does) ueeehhhh

[gender-incinerator]

I fear many of us are forgetting that trans men belong to Men (the gender) but not Men (the sociopolitical class) and I think thats an important distinction

[tboy-cock]

its really interesting how transandrophobic trfs will post shit like "trans men need to kill themselves" and "trans men deserve to be raped and murdered" and then tag them with #trans man and #transandrophobia, specifically so trans men will see violenr rhetoric against us just by following those tags, while we cant even use the #transmisogyny tag when we're talking about transmisogyny or even follow it because then we'll be harrassed by trfs and will have that violent rhetoric on our dashes. like its almost like this isnt "infighting" but is a hate group and victims of a hate group or something

[this-is-trans-joy]

I'm eight years into my transition and don't always get the same euphoria rushes I used to when my gender is affirmed, but my friend was watching me repeatedly lose in a video game and affectionately called me "boyfailure" after the nth reload. The feeling hit like a divine strike from above and I was so thrilled I beat the boss the next round.

This is trans joy!!!

[waterlilyworld]

i’m not gonna lie the erasure of transmasculinity everywhere i turn is really starting to get to me lads. multiple characters that are either gnc or outright trans in their source material are being hyper feminized in their television adaptations. a cis lesbian lgbt historian’s video comes across my path and in it she asserts clearly that stormé delevarie is a cis woman, the comments all agreeing on what a wonderful womanly woman she was, no one does it like women do. another video someone with nearly two million followers posts a video essentially saying trans men don’t experience discrimination compared to trans women. it gets tens of thousands of likes. a video of a cis woman in support of trans people next, all the comments talking about how trans women must be women because they are oppressed like women are, i wonder what that makes me to them. two trans men dead this last month. another two trans men with their teeth broken from hate crime assault this week. one of them in a trans sanctuary state, in broad daylight, screaming out for help and everyone around him looks away. looking away. everybody is looking away. we are the thing in the corner of their eye that they would rather not see and what crime did we commit to be treated this way? are we truly seen as so pitifully grotesque for our harmless aberration from the female sex that it feels natural to pretend we are not there? that we were never there? i’m terrified. i’m terrified by what is going to happen to us in the silence. i wish i wasn’t.

[transand]

a vicious cycle

[this-is-transandrophobia]

i (transmasc) made a post about how trans men and women really arent that different and how important it is to create a shared inclusive community and had to delete the post after just half an hour because some people started talking about how trans men are horrible abusers invading their spaces. im literally on your side and actively advocating for your rights and protections, why are you acting like a victim?

i dont know. im frustrated and honestly quite sad that this is so common on this site. i love my trans sisters and it makes me so sad that there are some horrible people that want to divide us. we really arent that different and we *should* be able to share experiences and unite with each other. i just wish that there was more kindness between trans people on this site

This is transandrophobia.

[this-is-transandrophobia]

tw suicide / death threats !!

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This is transandrophobia.

[nonbinary-wrath-month]

Conservative misogynists: Women are dumb and irritating. Their brains are poisoned by their hormones. The art they make is shallow and silly, their political theory is not worth taking seriously, and they're constantly whining and being drama queens about their stupid problems. They need to shut up and realise they don't belong in leadership positions.

Leftist "transfeminists" (so-called): Trans people AFAB are dumb and irritating. Their brains are poisoned by their hormones. The art they make is shallow and silly, their political theory is not worth taking seriously, and they're constantly whining and being drama queens about their stupid problems. They need to shut up and realise they shouldn't be leading our movement.

It's a match made in heaven! I ship it ❤️

[that-grassbro]

whenever i get an anon misogynistic hate ask, I have to squint at it to try and guess if its by a traditional misogynist, or a so-called transfeminist.

most of the time i can't tell

[transmasc-theory]

Why are so many of you on this site more willing to align yourselves with cis male MRAs than with transmasc feminists, while calling yourselves "transfeminists"?

You eat up all their talking points. You say that pedophiles aren't real and age of consent laws are wrong. You fearmonger about babytrapping in response to people with uteruses who are afraid of dying due to abortion bans, and then call those things equivalent. You equate circumcision with FGM. (I am against both, but the former is NOT equivalent to the latter). You insult trans men with slurs referring to their genitals and call them bitches and cunts. You fearmonger about "men" who are "invading women's spaces," except instead of trans women, you mean trans men.

You aren't acting like trans feminists, or any kind of feminists at all. You're acting like MRAs. Why are you doing this? You aren't transfeminists. You aren't pro-anything, even pro-trans woman. You're solely anti-trans man.

[trampledfauna]

Transmasc culture is APPARENTLY having to realize none of the communities you fucking grew up in want you around!!!!! Instead they want you raped and dead for some fucking reason but its okay because you call yourself a man (no one sees you as one)

[trampledfauna]

Aight yep pride doesn't apply to me ok I don't get to be a part of anything not in my personal life or online or even in the community that has what i am in its fucking name

[grimbluesins]

it's pride month bitch. love your transmasc/trans men brothers. if not you don't deserve to celebrate pride i'm not joking even a little bit. you can sit this one out

[mousidy]

"we're all faggots in the eyes of the state!" "we all have it just as bad!"

ok. wage gap

source

like. come on now

trans mennnn pspspsps understand your relative privilege over your transfem sisters and use it to support and uplift us instead of pretending not to have the structural leverage necessary to harm us. ooooo you know you want to build queer solidarity

[sa1ntg0re]

hey actually. I don't give a fuck if you think I'm privileged. we're both getting killed. what do you earn from this? what do you earn telling trans men that they're privileged? are trans men oppressing you?

besides, I think being the most targeted demographic for rape is not much better.

You are hurting our community. we are supposed to stand for each other, not one against the other. You are doing what transphobes want you to do.

[cybergirl-cathy]

"Theyfab" isn't a slur, silly! It's only a disparaging, insulting term I call a minority I don't like, irrationally blame for all my problems and make death and rape threats toward. Why would you think it's a slur?

[transfemme-shelterdog]

A reminder for those who need it

[yaoigaysexaura]

there's something so fucking sinister about a post comparing trans men to predators alike transphobic people as if we're not being trafficked and murdered and raped everyday while having those experiences erased getting a whole 3.5k notes. and this was written by a trans guy too! how can you be so unkind?