Ashley ‘AJ’ James

Trans guy. Pre T. He/Him Queer, Creative, Asthmatic Weirdo.

[sow-ay]

[yaoihands]

Guys please reply to this with what your url means or references I’m really curious

[murdocniccalspiccals]

oop- well uhhhhh… if you know you know… ( it’s gross 🤢 )

[deepfried-dildos]

A bit my friends and I did once

[rip-paramour]

Wanted a bagel, recieved a bagel

[trainbowrocketmoved-deactivated]

team rocket. not much more I can say

[trans-n-wheezy]

I’m a trans guy and I gots severe allergic asthma...

[trans-n-wheezy]

Liquid morphine is fine and all but

I need a cat

[trans-n-wheezy]

You’d think, as my username suggests, that I’d be in hospital for something transgender or asthma related...

Oh how wrong are we...

Ya boy is in with intracranial hypertension (fluid pressure on brain) and now has to have a lumbar punch (spinal tap) to have the pressure relived so he can function as “normal” again.

Keep tuned for the progress and results!!

[trans-n-wheezy]

This is Jinkx; my beautiful girl 🐾

[dankmemeuniversity]

[nvmtee]

Mind your business

[sushinfood]

there’s a simple explanation to this, though!

when you are planning to do something, you are taking responsibility. you are maintaining agency in your own life.

the moment someone else says “hey pick up your shit” then it becomes their command and your response to them. No longer do you get told “hey wow you picked up nice!” you get told “why did it take you so long to do what i asked”

Naturally, hearing that enough times creates a pattern of “rebellion” whereupon ANY request to do ANYTHING you’ve been planning to do immediately sours it

because it’s not yours anymore

[trans-n-wheezy]

This really, really, REALLY grinds my gears for sure

[sexceptionul]

I’ve seen a lot of posts on my dash tonight about users who are threatening suicide, with other Tumblr members posting in effort to try to get ahold of them. I think you all should see this:

IF THERE IS EVER A TUMBLR USER WHO HAS POSTED A GOOD-BYE MESSAGE, SUICIDE NOTE, VIDEO, OR ANYTHING OF THE SORT, PLEASE FOLLOW THIS POST.

1. Scroll to the top of your dashboard.

2. See the circular question mark icon at the top? It’s the third one over from your home symbol. Click on that, and a screen similar to the one in the picture will come up.

3. Where you can type in questions, the box with the magnifying glass at the top, type in the word “suicide.”

4. Click on the first link that shows up. It should say, “Pass the URL of the blog on to us.”

5. Type in the user’s URL and tell Tumblr admin that the user is contemplating suicide and has posted a message indicating that they are going through with it or will be attempting. Hit send! Tumblr administration will perform a number of actions to contact the user and take the necessary steps to prevent the suicide.

TUMBLR: THIS COULD SAVE A USER’S LIFE. PLEASE DO NOT IGNORE SUICIDE THREATS.

Reblog this to keep other users aware. Suicide isn’t a joke, and neither is someone’s life. If you didn’t know this, someone else may not, either. Pass it on.

[thedanliest]

why on earth doesn’t this have more notes

[outtelligent]

I actually had to do this once. She lived.

[faeirytale]

if you scroll past this on your dash you are absolutely heartless.

[natalie-as-herself]

Reblog this!! This can save somebody’s life!

[aika-chan01]

reblog.

help.

do not scroll down.

[nonextistentttttt-deactivated20]

I SWEAR TO GOD IF ANYONE SCROLLS PAST THIS WITHOUT REBLOGGING I WILL LITTERALLY FIND THEM AND GIVE THEM A LECTURE

[danqueray-deactivated20200703]

may I just update this?

see the little thing that says help?

[josephdreemuur-moved]

Don’t ever scroll past this post. FUCKING NEVER SCROLL PAST!!!

[xcassidy]

🌸🌸🌸

[undiagnosed-autism-things]

Anyone know where it is on mobile ???

[i-am-a-moron-deactivated2020051]

You report the user, choose “something else”, scroll down and choose “suicide or self harm”

[femur-theif]

DO NOT SCROLL DOWN

REBLOG TO LITERALLY SAVE A LIVE

[im-just-trying-to-survive-man]

PLEASE REBLOG

[tastingmellow]

Please don’t scroll past this post, you could save someone’s life.

[trans-n-wheezy]

Repost to save a life guys...

[funnypicsdept]

Funny Pics & Memes

[vansfriend]

[themounts]

Types of matter

[yulinkuang]

This explains plasma better than my high school science textbooks.

[timothydelaghetto-deactivated20]

Cooool

[trans-n-wheezy]

Knowledge is wow 😯

[trans-n-wheezy]

No binder: sad

First day wearing my first ever binder: ecstatic

PS... mask is for DIY not for the crazy shit going on 👍🏻

[bigtransmoods]

Do you ever just eat food when you’re drunk and you’re like this is the best thing I’ve ever eaten in my whole existence?

[trans-n-wheezy]

And it’s literally just a slice of bread. No butter, no flavours added, not even toasted... just bread. 🤤

[midnighttrain247]

Breakfast Across the Globe

[supgina]

BY FAR THE SEXIEST POST ON THIS SITE

[thesickestsinner]

and the most important one…Jamaican Breakfast

[queenstravelingfoodie]

Followed by a Haitian breakfast

[lilhabesha]

Ethiopian breakfast 💚💛❤

[okayysophia]

Nigeria breakfast 🇳🇬

[ireallydontcare5]

The one post that everyone can agree on….that food is sexy.

[molothoo]

Lovely additions

[honeydew-bee-deactivated20260202]

Puerto Rican breakfast…

[trans-n-wheezy]

I want breakfast for every meal... amazing

[sanesparza]

👌

[jewishicequeen]

This is most important to remember nowdays!

[solarpunkcast]

Doing this may sound fake but honest to fuck, rearranging how I thought to appreciate the small or mundane really did help alleviate the hopeless rut my depression had me in.

I obviously didn't get rid of that motherfucker but! I now want to die a lot less and I smile a lot more.

[hannuhhunt]

Keith Haring x Vincent Van Gogh

[trans-n-wheezy]

Two of my favourite artists combined, yes!

[carrot-gallery]

Reasons LGBT cafes should exist

Non-sexualized spaces

Inclusive so u don’t have to out urself

No alcohol so younger ppl have full access

I fukkin love chai lattes

No pressure to find hook-ups, lookin at you my aro/ace pals

No need to socialize u can literally sit at a table and be gay all by ur self

Please make these a thing

[mischeviousfaeriedragon]

Adding to the list that autistic LGBT people would appreciate having this kind of space because clubs are such a sensory nightmare.

[profeminist]

Great point!

[adamcansuckme]

Not to mention genderfluid/trans people could give their chosen names to the person behind the counter and not get ugly looks

[tenitchyfingers]

wow, a version of this post that doesn’t have queerphobic comments attached to it? Color me surprised.

[monstrous-ideas]

Find me ten years in the future, playing D&D in my own Queer Cafe

[tooper21]

think of all the LGBTQA+ singers that would perform there 

[musewhipped]

good place to host activities, too, like D'n’D as stated above, LGBTQA+ book clubs, open mic nights, movie nights, etc

[fangirl-rage]

A trigger-free space for those of us who have a trigger related to alcohol, myself included

[thatone3mokid-deactivated202006]

Hell yeah! I’m so for this idea

[trans-n-wheezy]

AND... no dirty looks from anyone when you walk into the bathrooms... especially if you’re not out yet or just testing the waters

[animatedtext]

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