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@transsexualsmatter
Trans men cannot be lesbians because they are MEN. If you think trans men can be lesbians, you are transphobic because you are calling them women.
Shut the fuck up you transphobic piece of shit. You don't give a shit about trans men
WOW! talk about projection 🙄
not so friendly reminder that the transgender community was very literally built on alienating transsexuals and demonizing medical transition.
If you don't have dysphoria, you might be "trans" by the community's standards, but you are NOT trans in any way that matters.
who the fuck are you to say which ways matter? you are not that important lil bro. acting like you're the authority on all trans people instead of some basement virgin
good news! i don't get to decide. it's just my opinion. one you are free to ignore. there's no need to resort to insults.
I can say whatever I want actually. get used to it. also I fucked your dad.
I think it's intresting how popular of an opinion "You are unemployed and a bad child to your parents because you disagree with me" is.
Thinking that one should have some noticable struggle with their sex to be diagnosed as transexual is a rather grounded opinion imo, especially since a large part of transmed activacy is ensuring dysphorics get prioritized for insurance and medical treatment over people just getting srs and hrt for fun.
Tucutes, on the other hand, claim that the only way forward is convincing 8 billion people that gender-- a large part of their identity, how they were raised, a crucial facet of thousands of cultures-- is simply made up nonsense that does not serve them. They tell dysphorics that attempting to assimilate into society as their real gender and form communities over a struggle with sex dysphoria is unreasonable and bigioted. This, to my eyes at least, seems a lot less realistic and in touch.
"who the fuck are you to say which ways matter?" A trans person. That user is a real trans person, with stake in the health of his or her communtiy.
I don't think its "basement virgin" behavior to advocate for a group you are apart of online.
"I can say whatever I want actually." Well yes, you can type whatever you want with your own two hands. That doesn't make your words kind, nor reasonable, nor dignified, nor intellegent.
you guys realize radical feminism is bad because of the gender essentialism, right?
its not just that when they say hateful things towards “men” they also mean trans women? you cant just say the same shit as them but change whos included in the “men” and “women” catagories. thats still the same gender essentialism. just like, wokely.
If you don't have dysphoria, you might be "trans" by the community's standards, but you are NOT trans in any way that matters.
who the fuck are you to say which ways matter? you are not that important lil bro. acting like you're the authority on all trans people instead of some basement virgin
good news! i don't get to decide. it's just my opinion. one you are free to ignore. there's no need to resort to insults.
a vicious cycle
Fear mongering trans men into believing that they won’t pass with dyed hair, piercings or an alternative style is transandrophobia but I don’t think people are ready for that conversation
the fact is, dressing alt does not help you pass.
that doesn't mean alt trans men can't pass; it just means that if you can't pass while you're not dressing alt, you won't pass while you are.
it's unfortunate but it's true, sometimes trans men just have to choose between dresses alt and passing.
I HATEEE when I see a cool ass person here but their bio says "dni transmed" 😒😒😒
Hot take: I believe you need gender dysphoria to be trans, if you don’t have that then why would you WANT to go through transitioning, experiencing transphobia, ect when you would be happy presenting as your biological gender because it brings you no discomfort.
Now I’m not talking about “you can’t be a femboy, you can’t be alt, you need to pass” ect because I understand that sometimes you simply can’t pass with those styles until you’re on T sadly, but IF you DONT feel dysphoria I genuinely don’t see the point in putting yourself through that.
(I’m very open to discussion, this is in no way meant to attack people I’m just sharing my thoughts.)
i’m also like not to swing right at a hornet’s nest but i’m frustrated with how many people analyze sexuality to a point of fracturing it into so many pieces that it starts to feel nebulous because it lost its shape and it’s almost always to skirt around bisexuality like are we ever going to take bisexuality and biphobia seriously while respecting the line of upholding people’s right to self-determination
What do you think? Do you think seeking and following gender "euphoria" is in-line with addictive traits and high-chasing? People want more and more, and then it wears off, people get bored and realize it wasn't for them.
it can definitely be, at least in my opinion. i know for a fact many non-dysphorics only do it for clout. they're attention seeking, they're addicted to attention. and once that attention gets taken away what do they have left? a body that doesn't feel like their own anymore.
Do you think the tucute craze will eventually die down? If so, when? The past few years have been disheartening and while I know transphobia will continue to be around, seeing so many people appropriate the condition only makes it worse.
i think things will really have to hit rock bottom before the tucute craze dies down (if ever). like, trans being illegal type shit. tucutes and non-dysphorics will only stop this madness once it's dangerous for them to continue.
If you look at nearly every study quantifying social oppression- rates of suicidal thoughts or attempts, rates of being subjected to conversion therapy, rates of rape and domestic violence, rates of avoidance of medical care due to discrimination, I could go on- trans men are among the worst off in the entire queer community.
But unfortunately, one study that failed to prove statistical significance suggested that trans men who are employed full-time might make a whopping ten cents an hour more than trans women who are employed full-time, so you see, my hands are tied and I have no choice but to declare trans men a privileged class within the LGBT community. What do you expect me to do? Acknowledge the flaws within that one study on full-time wages? Acknowledge that even without flaws, the study would still be only one measure of social oppression experienced within the queer community and thus it might be worth looking at other ways transmascs are disadvantaged? That's crazy talk! This one study in front of me is the only one that matters!
Because testosterone is already a controlled substance and thus the posession of it as DIY HRT is already illegal. Trans men and transmascs have been talking about this for literal years. This is such a bizarre kneejerk, because instead of simply talking about how horrible the attempt to criminalize DIY estrogen is OP here immedeatly decides to make this about trans men and transmascs being less opressed.
excluding people from the trans community is important actually
No, it is not. Excluding people from the trans community is transphobic.
Even if it’s people who you disagree with, people who are factually wrong about something or even people who are straight-up evil, you don’t get to decide who is and who isn’t trans. It’s nobody’s decision. They’re still trans. Just probably don’t have many other trans friends. Republican trans people are still trans, they’re just also either not very smart or knowingly supporting hate against their own community.
Also, this is a reminder to not belittle the experiences of other people just because they differ from you, and a reminder to never ever misgender someone, even if you dislike them.
I really do understand where op is coming from, but exclusion won’t solve anything. Other trans people are not the cause for any of the struggles of the community. Transphobia is.
I'm not talking about excluding trans people. I'm talking about excluding people who claim the trans identity without actually having any experiences or needs that align with transsexualism.
A community is built on shared lived experiences and needs. When the boundaries of a community become too broad, the core bond that unites its members can get diluted. For marginalized groups like transsexuals, our community is meant to address specific needs (like assimilation and medical recognition). When people who do not share those specific needs and the vulnerabilities we face enter our space, the focus shifts, and actual transsexuals often end up losing our dedicated support system.
For transsexuals, getting medical recognition and maintaining access to gender affirming care is a matter of life or death. literally. The push for demedicalization that comes from non-dysphorics and the larger modern trans community actually validates the arguments of insurance companies and lawmakers who want to categorize gender-affirming care as cosmetic/elective, rather than medically necessary. This goes directly against the best interest of transsexuals.
Historically, the main goal of the trans rights movement was to blend into society safely and live normal lives without constant scrutiny. When the community's focus shifts toward hypervisibility or redefining gender as a social identity, it draws intense political and legal backlash. This backlash falls hardest on binary trans individuals who just want to transition and exist quietly.
so yes, excluding people who aren't transsexual from the trans community is incredibly important if we want any chance to be taken seriously and gain our legal protections and rights back.
Fear mongering trans men into believing that they won’t pass with dyed hair, piercings or an alternative style is transandrophobia but I don’t think people are ready for that conversation
if you want to pass while dressing alt, you need to be able to pass while NOT dressing alt. in other words, dressing alt won't help you pass.
It is genuinely so infuriating that Wikipedia's official policy is to misgender anyone who uses neopronouns
good lmao
