My Sander Sides Enlightment
You know whatâs always kinda bothered me? Those mean takes on the other sides. Like âJanus is manipulating Patton and isnât actually trying to be friends with him,â âPatton has too much moral superiority,â âRoman never learns,â So on and so forth. There is something bad to say about all the sides. No hate to anyone who's made one, you are valid and probably right in your own way. I think the only reason they bother me so much is because you can easily say the opposite. The most common phrase being âNobody listens to ____â
âNobody listens to Patton! He was trying to show the others that Virgil was good all along and only when Virgil was gone did they listen.â
âNobody listens to Logan! He gets ignored constantly and heâs getting mad because of it.â
âNobody listens to Roman! Every time he comes up with a solution, he gets shut down only to get blamed for not coming up with a solution.â
âNobody listens to Virgil! He only gets listened to when he forces Thomas to hear him, and he doesnât like doing that.â
âNobody listens to Janus! Even when he has good ideas and arguments, they get pushed to the side because he is a dark side.â
âNobody listens to Remus! That was the entire point of an episode. And all he wants is to be listened to, it doesnât matter who.â
And all of these are valid points. But at some point, you have to wonder whoâs not listening the most. Which is how I think the criticism posts of the characters came to be in the first place. But I donât think any of them are to blame. Even when this new side gets revealed, it wonât be his fault either. The fault isnât on Roman, or Logan, or Janus, or any of them.
And of course I donât mean âWriter Thomas,â I mean âCharacter Thomas.â Throughout the series, Thomas has always held himself high. You canât be perfect, but you can try to be. And every time a situation comes up, he doubts himself, wondering if heâs even any good at all.
And in comes the sides, telling him that he canât be bad and here's why. In fact, Thomas wonât let himself be bad at anything. Canât be a bad worker, canât be a bad actor or singer, and certainly canât be a bad friend. Even in situations where he wouldnât even be those things, he canât even let himself risk it.
And so, the sides follow suit.
Logan becomes the perfect person for knowledge and learning, never letting himself be anything less than right all the time.
Roman strives to be perfect physically and materialistically, coming up with creative ideas that help Thomas move up in the world or, at the very least, make himself feel better.
Patton is the perfectly moral person. Make sure everyone is alright, help whenever and wherever you can, and always keep a smile on. Wouldnât want anyone worrying for you, right? That wouldnât be good.
Virgil is the perfect alarm system. Even false alarms are taken with the utmost seriousness. Just as long as no one else knows your anxious.
Janus is a deceiver. And Thomas lies often. So he needs to be the best at putting on a face and making sure nothing goes off without a hitch. Wouldnât want people catching him in a lie. He needs to be the perfect liar.
And then there's Remus. The only one who tries not to be perfect. But that idea terrifies the others so much, Remus is left to pick up all of the imperfection slack. Maybe that's why Remus was offended when he was called âScary.â
Trying to be so many perfect things all at once, youâre going to but heads with all of the different aspects of yourself. You're going to not listen. You're going to ignore. And in some cases, your perfectionism is going to make you look like the bad guy. And as someone with perfectionism, I relate a little too hard.
