sick of the trans movement

detrans female, gender critical, religion hater

[scourgefell]

I'm gonna do something really controversial. Going to debunk the claim that JK Rowling posted an upskirt photo of a trans women.

Why? Am I defending JK Rowling? No. She still misgendered Freda and made fun of her appearance. She still sucks here and is a bigot.

I'm doing this because I believe calling this upskirting and sexual assault diminishes the meaning of both terms, because the photo posted objectively does not meet the definition.

Here is the photo JK Rowling posted of Freda.

This image comes from a live debate filmed two years ago. You can see at about 25 minutes in that this image comes from the exact same camera angle that the debate was being filmed from. It is the view that the audience would see of Freda the entire length of the debate.

[Screenshot from the debate video]

It is not an upskirt. This is simply what Freda looks like from a front view, while sitting down in the outfit she was wearing. If this is an "upskirt" and therefore sexual assault, than the entire audience and the camera crew was sexually assaulting her as well for simply viewing her from the front.

https://youtu.be/Va3i-_Fbfpo

[maira7]

[femininemystique]

child marriage is still legal in 37 US states.

in california a 90 year old can have sex with a 13 year old as long as that child’s parents give them permission to marry first.

it isn’t just the middle east, its right here. its everywhere.

[sapphos-catpanions]

more on the effects of T in females. vulvodynia and clitorodynia mean that this woman is suffering from chronic, shooting pains in her vulva and clitoris.

[sapphos-catpanions]

i could never hate trans men so much that i would want to hide the fact that T might cause them crippling genital pain, or wreck their adrenal glands.

[zyd-unhinged16]

Lmao maybe go actually talk to a trusted medical professional. where is the source for this bullshit???

[sapphos-catpanions]

“trusted medical professionals” permanently disabled this formerly healthy woman. they knew she trusted them, and they took advantage of that trust.

and even the informed consent paperwork lists atrophy as a side effect of testosterone. why would that be a painless experience? if your arm or your lungs started to “atrophy”, to become weaker and smaller, couldn’t they also start to hurt?

trans guys take testosterone for the systemic, permanent, whole-body effects, right?… and you don’t believe people when they say “this drug has systemic permanant effects, all throughout the body”?

i think you should place a little less trust in “medical professionals,” a little more on your own common sense.

[zyd-unhinged16]

Source? Statistics of this happening??

[xxturk]

@d3nt4l-d4m4g3 drop the sources queen

[d3nt4l-d4m4g3]

Here is my post on how and why this happens, using a peer-reviewed study published in the International Journal of Impotence Research.

Here and here are some reddit screenshots both from r/detrans and r/ftm.

Here is my master spreadsheet of reddit testimonials which is currently sitting at 89 entries (don't think I've been sleeping on it! And don't think I haven't started archiving the posts ;)))) they're there forever bb :)))) .

Because of the death/dox threats I recieved at original publishing date, I privated this spreadsheet—You have to DM me to access it or email me at d3nt4l-d4m4g3@gmail verifying your tumblr username with me. The entries are in order of amount of time on testosterone so you can get a sense of the timeline of destruction.

[naistensaari]

It's always "believe trans people's experiences without questioning (even online where no one obviously ever lies) uwu" until it's horrible medical conditions and adverse experiences. 🫠 Then it's "source???? statistics???"

[hugewoman]

[vintage-bentley]

Also these medical professionals really need to question the mental fitness of women who say “I’d rather die than be misgendered again” in regards to taking dangerous optional drugs. Is a woman really mentally sound if she’d rather risk all of the above side effects than not be able to feed her delusion that she’s male? If a woman said “I’d rather die than be fat” would you prescribe her ozempic or would you be concerned about her mental health? Why are medical professionals affirming the self-hatred of vulnerable mentally ill people?

[herssian]

"there is no way you're not using chatgpt for at least a few things here and there no matter your stance on it" what the FUCK are you talking about

[allykatsart]

[madwomxxn]

The tide is turning 🖤

[lurknotes]

I finally figured out how to word my thoughts on this specific issue. Radfems, a lot of you are not approaching other women as political equals who need to be equipped with knowledge and tools to help themselves or to exchange ideas with. I can probably speak the best on this issue as a recently peaked and desisted person. I know the issue of exchange is honestly a result of the “op is a terf” mentality and genuinely, I’m not trying to understate the hostility women deal with whenever they interact with any trans identifying people, even women, but I want to take a second to acknowledge what I think needs to change in approach from us when we’re playing on the offensive and initiating these interactions with other women

[lurknotes]

Most interactions I see with FTMs/nonbinary women are kind of condescending zingers. A more specific critique I have and a barrier for entry to peaking is the language. It’s not that a lot of it is incorrect per se, just that it is not effective with your target audience. When you go to a trans identifying female’s post and say, “You are not nb/a man/xyz, you are a woman”, I know that you are speaking about that person’s biological reality, and using a humanizing term, woman, for female. But to a person immersed in TRA spaces, you are telling them what their “gender identity” or how they should feel about their gender should be. You are often dealing with a person so immersed in “gendie” logic that she has equated woman with housewife, and I think this misogyny is projected back at radfems and that’s where the whole “radfems are conservatives” thing comes from. That conflation is beyond harmful and gross and it isn’t your fault, but it is going to prevent you reminding TRAs of their womanhood from hearing you out, and so it’s no longer an effective strategy. If your goal is to get some sense into, say, a nonbinary woman who is hesitant about seeking needed sexed medical care like a gynecologist visit, you have to assess priorities here. How can I help this woman right now, within her language and boundaries and needs? What sources can I provide to her to help her strengthen her knowledge, and give her tools she needs to have the information she needs now and in the future? Calling her delusional and stupid or making jokes at her expense does neither of those things. It only pushes her away.

And I’m going to be honest you need to stop using these women and their posts as scratching posts. It sucks. The position women are in right now fucking sucks, and I encourage you to call out misogyny and homophobia when you see it absolutely. But the pressure valve release from calling a random woman delusional on a post she’s making about her struggles is not something that is going to help her, and if helping women isn’t the goal of your feminism, it isn’t feminism. It’s frustrating but we need to focus on planting seeds for the long term, and on small victories. We talk often about how isolating and manipulative TRA spaces are, but that never seems to be present in how we’re interacting with women still caught up in them. In the same way you aren’t going to get someone to leave an abusive relationship with one remark, you are not going to get anybody to desist or leave the Gendie Community or whatever with one reblog, especially if it’s cruel or one that can’t be understood by the other person. It’s about letting that woman know that there is a place for her, and equipping her with knowledge that she needs to keep herself safe. By all means, make a vent post, and God damnit sometimes people need to be told straight up what they’re doing is stupid. But that approach won’t work for about 99% of people.

[sdfjnaklsjdnvlkajsdnvoiwjf]

but radfems are the misogynistic ones... right...

[doingitatmybirthdaydinner]

first of all, women with moustaches are cool and normal.

second of all, a bunch of men who want to look like women hating on women for looking like men is ridiculous. okay let's say these women actually looked like men. you fucking ARE men. so they win. "clocky" as what? getting clocked as what? ...... a man? kind of like.....what you are?

third of all, did you really need to work in retail or live in the south to take notice of what real women look like? I bet what they're actually describing is stepping out of mommy's basement and leaving their chudcave for a moment, powering down the bimbofied lesbian porn, and interacting with real humans for a few moments. yes most women don't look like supermodels. this is not a new revelation for people who leave the house on a basis

[capricorn-season]

[androc1dal]

a detrans woman’s truth will never be harmful.

[horsebacteria]

I’ve been told I’m a horrible person for even mentioning that I am detrans, never let them silence you it’s so important to make our voices heard

[sisterofrage]

The trans -> detrans -> radfem timeline is strong and they don't want people realizing it.

[alexsiple]

Jeanne

[ruuling]

i saw this post a couple days ago and i just can't stop thinking about it. i've been asking the people i'm in dialogue how it's different and nobody has an answer. so tell me how it's different.

[lesleygorgasm]

you can't have a penis and be a woman

[g1rluninterruptedd]

i saw this earlier and it rubbed me the wrong way. why do these men never adopt? and while they push for better gay parent rights, are they also advocating for the surrogates they use? i feel like people are way too casual about surrogacy and a woman literally being treated as just a vessel for someone else’s baby. do people forgot how troubling pregnancy is when it’s a slipped into these “heartwarming” stories?

[servin-terf-haha]

Anything like this that wants to make new babies (especially at the expense of women) instead of adopting the currently existing ones will never sit right with me.

I'm adopted, this hits home. It's gross.

[sickofthis666]

OP:

This is tagged with tw terfs and transphobia despite. The argument of the other person being perfectly reasonable, apart from some terms. "Mutilate" is too harsh. You can’t use that term without aneliating your target audience.( I've had my mom call it mutilation to get my tubes tied.)

"Your [female] body is [beautiful]" => your body is fine the way it is.

"Even if you're masculine" i hate being called masculine when I don't perform beauty standards. But Ig in this context it is to make a distinction. Or "even if you're not feminine" "even if you don't like feminity" "even if feminity isn’t for you"

Also OP:

TLRD:

OP: "I didn't transition to escape womanhood"

Also OP: now that I am a man, I can do all the things I couldn't as a woman, like wearing a white shirt, running, be shirtless at the beach. I became a man "after decades of being forced into a feminine archetype that don't feel right for me!"

Radfem: But you don't have to be a man to do all those things— plenty of women don't fit that archetype— feminity and masculinity are just gender stereotypes—

OP: TERF!!!!! TW TERF!!!!! TRANSPHOBE!!!

[radfemart]

the argument of the other person IS reasonable, but notice the way she's portrayed - feminine hair, what looks like a dress, literal pearl necklace. the flowery language - the use of the phrases 'young ladies', 'beautiful', 'embrace womanhood'. the implicit conflation of radfems with conservative attitudes/aesthetics, despite conservativism widely not respecting gender non-conformity or even recognizing society as being 'anti-woman'.

I recognize that!!! that's what I thought TERFs looked/sounded like before I peaked & deconditioned myself. that's the TERF strawman! and if you can't even present your argument against radical feminism without resorting to a strawman, well... 🤷‍♀️

[gendiebrainrotreceipts]

As a trans man I can confirm I feel much more natural off testosterone and I never truely felt like a man, I just liked the pinterest boy asthetic and wanted to be one so badly. I got top surgery at 16yo and started testosterone at 17.

16???

[the-land-of-women]

I hate that the actually very good notion that we should show trans people the basic respect everyone deserves and not let them be discriminated against has just completely snowballed into pretending that men can be women and that straight people can be gay

[aman1taverna]

Trans people deserve the same healthcare as everyone else and the autonomy to choose cosmetic surgery/hrt on top of that with informed consent if they are in a position to be able to receive informed consent. Trans people deserve to be treated humanely in day to day life and not be constantly asked invasive questions by strangers. Trans people deserve to be able to play sports, albeit not on teams specifically designed for the sex they do not belong to. They are people. And none of that changes the fact that you cannot change your sex which is the basis of people's sexuality. I wish more people understood that all of the above beliefs can and do and should coexist.

[bittermarching]

These tags:

[alexaminab168]

what many call 'transhealthcare' or 'trans rights' is just peak liberalism: instrumentalizing parliament for the proliferation of capital so corporative medicine benefits from transhumanism (commodification of human bodies)

rather than addressing/treating what motivated body dysmorphia, the aim is to sell marketable identities via cosmetic surgery

the places where most statistics of violent crime against them come from, namely Brazil and Mexico, are widely homophobic. In short, men kill other men because of homophobia. But that is not the root cause activism towards them seeks to resolve. Instead, homophobia/sexism/misogyny/transhumanism/capitalism take over and here we are, surrounded by the wealthy getting wealthier and authorities trying to heal a social wound with a knife

[wit-witch]

what men call “logic” is really just a lack of empathy

[sheholdsyoucaptivated]

and what they call “objectivity” is really just subjectivity lacking in self awareness

[paci-fisticuffs]

And what they call “common sense” is usually just a series of social biases that they’ve never bothered to analyze or question.

[gender-critical-butch]

why is gender dysphoria the only mental illness that’s “affirmed”?

granted i’m not a professional psychiatrist but i can’t think of any other mental illness where the unwell patient makes a statement about reality and that statement is “affirmed.” a patient with a restrictive ED states they need to be severely underweight to be worthy as a person, a patient with OCD states that if they don’t repeat same ritualistic behavior something terrible is going to happen to them, a patient with depression states that the world would be better off without them in it…all of these hypothetical patients are making statements about reality as a result of what their mental illness/disorder is telling them. but no therapist in their right mind would “affirm” any of these beliefs because they’re obviously the result of a mind that is unwell and “affirming” these individuals would just make them sicker by pushing them deeper into their unhealthy line of thinking.

the same cannot be said of gender dysphoria, where a patient states that they were born in the wrong body/they should have been the opposite sex and that belief about reality is then “affirmed” by medical professionals. in not all, but many cases it’s “affirmed” with barely any questioning/pushback at all. there are a lot of things about “gender affirming care” that i find concerning, but i think the most questionable thing of all literally comes down to it’s name.

i mean if you ever wonder why the trans community is the way it is just think about what would happen if a therapist “affirmed” their patient with social anxiety by saying they’re correct about their friends and family secretly hating them, or “affirmed” their patient with anorexia by saying they’re correct about needing to eat a dangerously low calorie diet… the individual would inevitably get sicker, pushed deeper into their disordered thinking. they might even become passionately adamant about the fact that they’re correct to be thinking the way they do to an almost unhinged degree because their doctor, an individual with power who is more educated than the average person, “affirmed” them and said that they’re right. and it feels really fucking good to be told you’re right, it can become pretty damn intoxicating…