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Drinking Coffee and Pleasantly Surprised...
June 8, 2026
...to see this little cutie hiding out under the foliage.
Settling Into Summer
June 7, 2026
I've entered that phase where I'm tired of staring at the remaining plants occupying the deck table and front step. The last grow bags and landscape spaces are calling, and all that's left are the zinnias and cosmos, an extra okra, three Malabar spinach plants, and a few marigolds.
I spent the afternoon outdoors today, mostly getting the marigolds and vinca settled into the front beds. We're expecting thunderstorms tonight, which should make for a good watering and help everything settle in nicely.
My container vegetables have been bringing me so much joy. When the mornings aren't too hot, I like to sit outside with my coffee and watch which insects stop by to inspect the garden. I still haven't added the twine to any of the bamboo trellises. I figure I'll wait until the plants actually ask for it and then string everything up where it's needed.
As it stands, the Malabar spinach is the only thing still waiting for a grow bag. My daughter has been helping with that project, and we expect to have it finished sometime next week.
I've been harvesting a few strawberries here and there, usually with breakfast, and I'm really enjoying that balance of sweet and tart. It's already made me excited to expand the patch next summer.
Now that summer has truly arrived, I'm feeling that familiar pull to slow down and simply enjoy the work of the last few months. Watching the tomatoes slowly climb their poles and branch out, seeing the calendula bloom, and spotting the tiny bell pepper flowers beginning to form—it feels good to let the garden do what it was always going to do and simply be there to watch it grow.
One of Those Moments
May 24, 2026
...because that's exactly what this is. The kind that's easily overlooked while living, but later you realize it held an entire season of life inside of it.
Convergence of Seasons
May 23, 2026
The end of this month finds you in a space of observation. Fertility surrounds you, but not the path forward yet. You may notice an unusual convergence of what you both condemn and condone, and as a result, decisiveness may feel difficult to grasp.
An adjustment is necessary now. Things that lay dormant now progress in a way that creates tension or conflict. Circumstances may feel ill-fated for those around you but appearances are deceptive. Allow time to anchor itself in your moment, and its blessing will eventually become visible.
A number of seasonal cycles come together now, creating a very different picture than what was once imagined or perceived.
Foundations of Change
May 23, 2026
Structures put in place for projects related to home, health, and business bring satisfaction and fulfillment of material wishes. Ailments that have plagued give rise to new conditions. Extensive conversations will emerge about change.
Settling Into Garden Season
May 14, 2026
Wow, this has been an interesting spring. We were finally able to really get outside this week and begin filling grow bags and arranging plants. So far we’ve planted three tomatoes — Early Girl, Super Sweet 100, and Cherokee Purple. I’m companion planting with marigolds, sweet alyssum, and basil, although the basil won’t go out until the weather warms a bit more, hopefully sometime next week. I planted Sweet Bell and Serrano Chili peppers last week and staked them with 4 ft. bamboo poles. This was my first time growing peppers and watching them grow was amazing! They were started in January.
I was especially excited to begin putting together our bamboo teepee trellises. We’ll be using them for tomatoes, yard long beans, and Malabar spinach. I’m also growing Red Burgundy and Emerald Green okra, which should finally head outdoors next week once the temperatures settle into the 90s. In the meantime, we’ve stayed busy filling their 7-gallon grow bags and shifting things around for what feels like the hundredth time.
Most of the plants are outdoors now — no more carrying trays in and out of the house because of cool evenings. The only plants still indoors are the basil, spinach, and okra. The deck is currently filled with trays of dwarf zinnias, Gazebo cosmos, calendula, marigolds, sweet alyssum, and several varieties of Swiss chard, kale, and collards. I decided to grow all greens beneath insect netting this year and will more than likely cover the tomatoes as well. I’m simply trying to minimize critter damage this summer, along with the constant BT spraying.
The strawberries have begun setting fruit, and the blueberry bareroots are doing well building roots. I also picked up a blackberry bareroot a few weeks ago and recently potted that up too. These are my long-term plant food investments, so I don’t mind the wait.
Among the herbs are several peppermint and spearmint plants, borage, and cilantro. I also plan to seed purslane around the edges of the okra grow bags once everything is fully settled in. Any other herbs will eventually be purchased from the nursery.
For now, everything is still young and getting established, but the garden is waking up more each day. Before long, the hot summer evenings will be here, and with them bowls of tomatoes on the counter, herbs clipped for dinner, and my children snacking on berries straight from the plants before they make it indoors.
Caterpillars and Contrast
May 2, 2026
In the spirit of spring, we’ve begun a short study of Monarch butterflies. It’s interesting, because as much as the pupa phase gives me the creeping crawlies — all pupae, really — I can still appreciate their place in the cycle of life and teach my children to hold space for the role they play.
We read Home Is Calling: The Journey of the Monarch Butterfly by Katherine Pryor, taking a closer look at their migration patterns and the importance of wildflowers — especially milkweed, their host plant — in sustaining them.
On a more humorous note, the past few weeks have also had us face-to-face with boxwood moth caterpillars — the larval stage of an invasive moth that’s been steadily decimating boxwoods across the country. I attempted to enlist the children in removing a few shrubs on the property, and after one snip at the base, my soon-to-be 13-year-old declared he would need a hazmat suit to continue. I didn’t argue — in fact, I found myself giving instructions safely from the neighbor’s front yard. After my 16-year-old made a valiant attempt, we collectively decided this was a task best left to the lawn professional.
So, it’s been quite the caterpillar month for us.
And in its own way, it’s been a lesson. Not all creatures move through the world in the same way. Some, like the Monarch, belong to a rhythm — tied to the land, to specific plants, to a cycle that supports life beyond itself. Others, when removed from their natural place, can quickly disrupt what was once balanced.
The difference is subtle when you first look — just another caterpillar, just another winged thing — but the impact tells a different story.
We’re learning to tell the difference… though I still reserve the right to observe certain species from a very safe distance.
An Unexpected Saturday
April 16, 2026
She had this planned — and I simply joined her.🙃 Between balancing poses and curious goats, we laughed the entire time.
Notes from March — Garden Beginnings, Ancestral Conversations, Spring Rhythms
April 15, 2026
I lay down this evening, quietly delighted by the budding red maple just outside my window. I find myself dreaming of berries this year. Even if the bare root blueberries give little to no fruit, I’m content knowing that something long-term is taking root. The strawberry plants are in, herbs have been potted, and there have been frequent trips to the garden center—gathering what’s needed for the grow bags and what’s to come.
The trees have had their light pruning, and I found myself needing to purchase horticultural oil to tend to a few crape myrtles that succumbed to scale last summer. Small acts of care, steady and necessary.
This month carried an interesting twist — the old and the new rising together. There were deep, earthy conversations within the family around life, hardship, trust, and the anchoring force of our ancestral past. My oldest daughter began reading Jambalaya: The Natural Woman’s Book of Personal Charms and Practical Rituals by Luisah Teish. I’ve long appreciated her presence, but had never read her work. It felt right to enter it this way, with my daughter leading. From it came rich conversations — about womanhood, our roots, and the body as the whole and sacred vessel of connection to spirit.
With the arrival of the spring equinox, our homeschooling days shifted gently. We found ourselves returning to poetry and artwork that reflect the season, while also taking a closer look at the movement of the equinoxes and solstices — how they meet, turn, and are reflected in everything.
Two of my sons are currently in physical therapy, each for very different reasons. Even so, these sessions have become life skills in their own right — teaching them how to care for their bodies, how to listen, how to tend to themselves with awareness. In my own life, I’ve seen how often that awareness is lost or overlooked in men, and it deepens my commitment to root it early in my sons.
The weather is warming now, and with it comes a quiet anticipation. I find myself envisioning simple things — visits to the beach, wandering through nearby woods, growing and harvesting our food, reading, and resting more fully in the sun.
March has felt like a threshold — where care, memory, and new growth meet in the same space. Nothing rushed, nothing forced. Just the steady unfolding of what is ready to come forward.
Seasonal Arc Wisdom: Spring — 2026
March 29, 2026
Card drawn: The Lovers — Vice Versa Tarot
Where the soil appears lifeless, and growth emerges as some distant presence within the mind, a unification of worlds quietly unfolds.
Your inner landscape births the outer realm; what dies away, nourishes new forms. The transformation of seemingly opposing forces deepens awareness and reveals unseen patterns.
Allow what burns to dissolve itself. Healing in partnerships, the restoration of family, community, and shared work — these emerge now.
Preparing for the Growing Season
March 15, 2026
It’s that time of year when the houseplants get their full rinse and watering in the kitchen sink, and the stink of fish emulsion fertilizer fills the air. Spring is nearly here, and the plant-filled corners of my days have been spent in garden preparation — tidying, refreshing, rearranging, and feeding the indoor plants.
This small seasonal ritual always feels like the true beginning of spring for me — rinsing away the winter dust, giving everyone a good drink and a bit of food, and setting the houseplants up for the brighter days ahead.
Made for Me
March 3, 2026
A late morning coffee. An afternoon steak my son made just for me. Two feel good moments.
Cactus Blooms
February 24, 2026
A real winter treat for me — this one has been in bloom for about two weeks now.
Mammillaria elongata, (Copper King)
Notes from January & February — Snowfall, Stories, and Garden Preparation
February 21, 2026
We’re soon to say farewell to the first two months of 2026, and it has been an interesting beginning to the year. Our first major snowfall came nearly a month ago, and as if on cue, we now brace for another within the next few hours.
During the last storm, I tried the liner method — covering the front walk and driveway with tarps, anticipating the simple pleasure of pulling them back to watch the snow slide cleanly to the sides. I spent most of that morning with coffee in hand, watching the snow fall and enjoying the deep quiet that only snowfall brings. But, by the time I stepped outside, the snow was far too deep for the effortless reveal I had imagined. We shoveled and snow-blowed instead. Still, not having to scrape van windows or pry open frozen doors felt like a small win. I’ll take it.
The youngest boys made full use of it — hiking their way around the house, skating down snow drifts, building a snowman in crooked triumph — and my oldest daughter, of course, couldn’t resist scooping up fresh snow to eat. I grew up in New York City and knew blizzards that buried our porches and front walks so deeply we had to shovel our way out. My mother would set a large bowl on the back steps to collect clean snow, then drizzle it with honey once it was full. We’d stand there eating it, cold and sweet.
The quiet of the month also carried me back into books. I recently finished Mama Day by Gloria Naylor and have just begun Praisesong for the Widow by Paule Marshall. These stories return me to my early years in the Carolinas — where I was mostly afraid of strange insects and unfamiliar smells, sometimes begging my mother to let me wait in the car because I wanted to go “home” for bread. That's one memory she still chuckles about. I longed for stability then; summer journeys south did not feel like it.
And yet memory softens things. I can still recall the iron-thick scent of heat in the air, the winding roads that seemed to stretch without end, and my father motioning me to the steering wheel — seating me on his lap to “drive” while he guided it with his long legs. I feel now what I could not name then: the quiet pull of ancestral mothers, steady and patient, waiting for me to grow into understanding.
While the snow falls, the garden plans move forward. Pepper seeds were started mid-January, followed by collards, kale, chard, and tomatoes in recent weeks. Marigolds and sweet alyssum went in this weekend. Two blueberry bare roots are temporarily potted indoors, keeping company with our strawberry starts. There are still supplies to gather, spacing to map out, decisions to make — but planning is its own kind of cultivation. Even in winter, something is always underway.
Tree pruning season is approaching as well. The crape myrtles and two hibiscus shrubs will soon need shaping and thinning before spring presses forward. There is something deeply rewarding about this work — cutting back in order to strengthen what is coming. It feels like a fitting task for this threshold between months.
January and February have held snow, memory, books, seeds, and the steady rhythm of tending what is mine to care for. Winter is never only stillness; it is preparation, reflection, and quiet work beneath the surface. As we step into what comes next, I carry both the hush of snowfall and the promise of green things rising.
The year has begun in its own deliberate way — and so have we.
Just Arrived
February 7, 2026
A small book haul and a very happy mood. Three new companions arrived this week, with a fourth — Praisesong for the Widow — delayed but on the way! It feels good to be expanding my personal library with books that honor the stories of our mothers, whisper the wisdom of the land, and carry the weight of ancestral hands.
The Entwiner: Full Moon in Cancer (Ashlesha)
February 8, 2020
February’s Full Moon takes place in the constellation of Ashlesha, the final section of Cancer. This region of the sky spans from 16:40 to 29:59 degrees, is ruled by Mercury, and is symbolized by a wheel. The ruling deity is Nagas or Sarpa, the serpent.
Cancer in general embodies the energy of the Mother — nurturing, nourishing, and deeply emotional. Ashlesha, however, blends this unconditional maternal love with the currents of desire and attachment. Here, the serpentine energy can either heal through kundalini medicine, or overwhelm and poison if misdirected.
When we understand the nature of a mother’s unconditional love, we also recognize that this love moves through natural phases of development, guided by the needs and awareness of the child. In a general sense, as children grow, the mother’s involvement lessens, allowing the child to cultivate autonomy and individuality. The love itself does not change — only the degree of entanglement with the child’s needs shifts. This is sattvic, pure love, originating not from desire or passion, but from the essence of care itself.
Challenges arise when we take this pure, unconditional love and allow it to become entangled with desire — clinging to people, situations, or outcomes in expectation of personal benefit. Here, the serpentine power of Ashlesha may poison what was once pure, turning devotion into manipulation or attachment.
A fullness presents itself now, manifesting through the circumstances of our daily lives. We are called either to continue along the path of healing — holding firmly to that which purifies and making the necessary adjustments — or to examine where love has been misused as a tool for control or gain. This will be most evident in areas of life marked by pain, possessiveness, or confusion.
This Full Moon offers us the power to heal and transform through pure, unconditional love. Have a blessed and powerful Full Moon!
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The images and illustrations shared here serve as guides for reflection and inspiration, illuminating the themes and energies discussed. Sources are acknowledged where known; otherwise, they are offered as visual companions to the words and wisdom within.
I thought it fitting to reshare a Cancer Full Moon post from 2020. Tomorrow, February 1st, we meet another Full Moon in Ashlesha, opposing several planets gathered in Capricorn. Themes of protection rise clearly under this Moon, especially as long-standing structures continue to destabilize and reveal their weaknesses.
Stay committed to what nourishes and protects your inner world. From that place, a gradual stabilization of the outer world can unfold — particularly in matters of livelihood, resources, and the strengthening of partnerships.
When the Goddess Is Not a Metaphor
January 31, 2026
"The words of the goddess, those written on her belly. First they were spoken by the elders in the old tongue, and now they are echoed by all. Eat of my deep earth, drink of my living streams, for I am your Mother. Your heart is my wild drum, your breath my eternal song. If you would live, dance with me! Somewhat obscure in meaning, but I'm told that's an accurate translation. These people expected us tonight. Our arrival was foretold down to the exact hour."
— Cybele's Secret, Juliet Marilier I finished the book this morning and was quite pleased. Cybele’s Secret is the sequel to Wildwood Dancing.
What stayed with me most is how easily life reroutes us. A journey chosen for one reason opens into something entirely different — and somehow more necessary. We set out thinking we know what we want, what will be useful, what makes sense. And then the road offers something else: a reckoning, courage we didn’t plan for, or a truth we didn’t know we were missing. The story feels like a quiet reminder that what arrives unexpectedly is often not a detour at all, but the very thing we were meant to meet.
I tend toward novels that honor maternal nature, ancestral ties to land, and the keeping of traditional folklore, and I find that Juliet Marillier weaves these threads together beautifully.