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@unbakehisbeans
it's useless and self victimising when americans whine about being dragged into a war between iran and israel. you know your country is backing israel in everything it does right? your country has never been dragged into any war it's forced itself into every single corner of the world to the point that it's inescapable. and the worst part is that americans will be absolutely fine. that doesn't happen to real people
Something something nuance and two things can be true at once ☝️🤓
they're putting me on the cover of times magazine and also putting a cup over me and there's even talk of taking me outside
I'm a bisexual girl with a boyfriend and I am doing it for attention and I'm out to get you, I'm exxxxxxxxactly like your narcissistic mother/high school girlfriend and I'm gonna get you 😈
After her public disgrace, Kamala Harris should have to compete in Dancing with the Stars like a common Bachelor/Bachelorette or shill vitamins on Instagram.
I've literally always been right, there's no such thing as a neurotypical person. Some of y'all take concepts meant to be liberating and turn them into new ways to reenforce oppressive structures 🙄
Hey, oomfies! This Eid, let’s spread some more love to Gaza. Grassroots orgs there are doing incredible work despite the many limitations...getting food, meds, and shelter to families who’ve lost everything. Even a few bucks can make a real difference. Donate the cost of a coffee!
We are Dahnoun Mutual Aid, a group of grassroots organizers working to provide life-sustaining aid in Gaza.
**Tent prices have come down slightly and thanks to eveyone's contributions we are able to take advantage of this decrease in order to purch
Translating Falasteen (Palestine), in collaboration with The Sameer Project, launched a fundraising campaign to support families in Gaza fac
The Sameer Project, a grassroots aid organization led by four Palestinians in the diaspora, is proud to announce our first tent encampment p
Is the youths negative perception of Israel due to antisemitism or is it because israeli soldiers posted themselves on tiktok wearing palestinian women's lingerie 🤔
Is it antisemitism or is it the mangled bodies of palestinian children? Is it antisemitism or videos of soldiers making light of blowing up a school or mosque? Is it watching their government approve weapons transfers to Israel to attack a strip of land full of people with no capability to defend themselves? Is it antisemitism or the articles coming out that israeli soldiers admit running their tanks over people, using palestinian captives as human shields in buildings, or admitting they killed children? It's a tough call honestly
Is it antisemitism or is it simply recognizing that Palestinian lives (Arab lives and people of color lives in general) are human lives and being able to have empathy for them?
Is it antisemitism or is it recognizing settler colonialism and its violence against indigenous people, seeing ourselves and so many other people in the Palestinian struggle for liberation?
‼️We still need your help... We want to live and stay in this life🫂‼️
Hello, I'm Lama from Gaza, I'm 24 years old, and my husband Mohammed is 30 years old, we got married in 2022 in a beautiful, warm and quiet
Hello, I'm Lama from Gaza. As you know, we lost everything we owned...our house, our work, our car, and members of my family, and we are trying to survive. 💔😭
Our memories, our home, our lives, everything no longer exists, nothing remains as it was, and now we need your help again. My gofundme campaign has been cancelled, and now I have created a campaign on chuffed to continue and to fight in this difficult life. 😭🥶
With your presence, we will complete our lives and continue.🙏🫂🫂
This was our home before, and now we are in a worn-out tent. Help us ... Our lives have become homelessness, displacement, hunger and destruction.🙏🫂😔
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Donate & share my campaign, I need you...🙏🙏🙏
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The Short Report With Sabrina Carpenter | Vogue
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Who the fuck is that thing tolling for
Also it kills me that even the worst people around are suddenly super progressive and concerned about disability, neurodivergence, and addiction when they get to use those to villify a woman and exonerate a man as a part of whatever the latest DARVO campaign is.
Or suddenly everybody is talking about Emmett Till and the role of white women in white supremacy...... to justify why you think a white woman you dislike is actually bad and evil for accusing an equally white man of wrongdoing.
And we have to pretend like only white women are subjected to these misogynistic smear campaigns and that it's only white women who care about any of this.... as though Meghan Markle and Megan Thee Stallion weren't publicly and horrifically smeared very recently, as though J Lo wasn't just gleefully smeared for being "so unlikeable" in the lead up to the news about Diddy and as though it didn't take video footage of Diddy abusing Cassie Ventura plastered publicly for everybody to see in order for people to believe her, and as though this doesn't actually happen all the time that WOC are painted to be duplicitous, irrational, angry, gold digging, "asking for it," nagging, attention seeking, you name it.
And if you're going to say "I believe this woman" or "there's a misogynistic DARVO smear campaign against this woman" then you have to include a whole preamble about how "there are valid reasons to criticize her" or how "I'm not a fan of her." Because God forbid we ever talk about the abuse and harassment of a woman without first going over entirely irrelevant details of why we don't actually like her. And God knows the only reason you'd believe and defend a woman is if you stan her or if she's a perfect angel against whom you can levy no criticism.
I've been reviewing some of the public reaction to the Depp V Heard trial, and I've settled my opinion on "enabling" once and for all. I think that talking about "enabling" is a way to blame women for their men partners' behavior, it's a DARVO tactic to blur the lines between who is the abuser and who is the victim, and of course substance abuse creates the perfect opportunity for an abuser to have very convenient gaps in their memory (real or not).
I saw people express that Amber enabled Johnny's addiction which makes her an abuser, also that she shamed Johnny for his addiction because she wanted him to get clean which makes her an abuser, that leaving him (both temporarily during the relationship and finally in the divorce) was abusive because he was vulnerable because of his addiction (even though staying is also enabling).
So many details of the relationship are made out to be a he-said-she-said solely because she remembers what happened and he conveniently can't remember or couldn't remember because of his substance abuse....
And i actually don't doubt that there are many things he straight up doesn't remember. And I believe that he may have felt that Amber was being abusive or crazy and irrational because he can't remember what he did to cause her to react that way. And i also don't doubt that Johnny Depp believes that Amber Heard abused him too, but i suspect that most of why he feels that way is because she treated him like he's an abuser... because he is, but then also because it became at all public which he clearly saw as her dragging him through the mud.
I’m sure that's the case with my ex too, she thinks I enabled her and that I'm manipulative, she thought I was a crazed nagging harpy and she'd get so hurt and offended when I was visibly afraid of her. And she either genuinely didn't remember what she had done that would cause me to behave that way, or she could gaslight me by claiming not to remember (therefore maybe it didn't really happen and I'm just crazy). And she also called me an enabler! She called me an enabler because I didn't stop her from drinking (I didn't know how much she was drinking but I had suggested several times that she should lay off the alcohol) and because I would also buy alcohol (not for her, just for myself). And you could also say i "enabled" her because I would wake her up for work and took care of her dog and did all the domestic and emotional labor. And you could say that i "shamed" her for her addiction because I would get upset when she drank too much and shirked her responsibilities or behaved badly or just ruined my night or whatever. You could say that i "manipulated" her because I would try to nudge her into changing her behavior and I'd drop hints and beat around the bush instead of expressing my frustrations directly (because she would blow up on me or DARVO me or gaslight me if I addressed anything directly), and i actually did guilt trip her after a point because whenever I took the high road it felt like she wouldn't realize how much she was hurting me and I thought if she could see that she was really hurting me and feel bad about it then maybe she'd apologize and change her behavior.
I also saw people saying that Amber is abusive because she stayed and covered for Johnny Depp and she thought she could "fix" him and get him sober. But also i saw people saying that it was so wrong of her to leave him because he was vulnerable and his mom just died, and saying that she's contributing to the dehumanization of addicts because don't you know addicts are people too and not abusive monsters and they deserve love and care (but only if it's from women who are their romantic partners, not from their communities and healthcare professionals).
And this is the same kind of thing that kept me in that relationship and still haunts me now and that she was holding over my head as recently as the last time we spoke. I stayed because she could convince me that she didn't mean to behave badly, she could convince me that she's only acting that way because of her past trauma and because of her nebulous convenient disability and later because of her addiction. And because I care deeply about social justice and communities of care, she could use all of that against me. I also stayed because I was terrified that she would get hurt or get into a bad situation without me, and i stayed because i felt really guilty about even wanting to leave when she needed care. But romantic partners are not obligated to be caretakers, and i think its probably better if they're not because the boundaries are too blurry and there's too much potential for abuse.
