Good morning, nasty kids of Tumblr. How are we doing?
This profile indulges in things that can make some individuals uncomfortable. See more under the cut or in the tags.
I do not support or take part in anything that's actually harmful. Everything is a play, fantasy of some sort, between consenting and aware individuals. I remind you to listen to your senses and analyze even slightest discomfort from the things you engage with.
I block freely and you can do so too- no hard feelings :)
Taken anons on the end of this post
With important things out of the way, once again, hello. For the time being I'm nameless, but you can call me dad, sir and other things like that. Get creative, kid.
I'm way too embarrassed to share my age, but consider me too old for you by the social norms. That's how yall like it, yeah?
Stuff I'm into: forced (but wanted deep inside) masculinization, fauxest (probably figured that one out, I'm the dad here), petplay, intox, ddlg
I mostly interact with sons and puppies, but everyone is welcome here. I'd be glad to make my daughters satisfied too. And to other dads and older guys- I'd make a great mutt ;)
Things I will not take part in: anything involving actual animals (real or fictional) or real individuals who have not clearly consented, heavy gore and torture
Anything else is a "won't write about it, but might react if you start". List will be uploaded sometimes. Ask me if you're curious for more.
This profile is very much only for "adult" themes, so I don't bother making more civil introduction. Maybe one day I will.
I will be very glad to answer asks, tell me whatever you want to. There is no such thing as too many or too weird. I'm here for you all to talk to. My profile is very open for everyone.
I won't block you or anything of that sort for direct messaging me, but I probably will not answer or will take much time to do that. I don't know how it works, but I burn out answering them really fast and I'd rather not.
In people's anons I sign off with 🐪
Take care and think about your old man from time to time.
you can leave this in your ask box if it’s too personal, but in the short time i’ve known your blog, you’ve taught me a lot.
my ex wife constantly pointed out the “tools” i didn’t have during our relationship and how i couldn’t provide her with what she wanted without surgery and even then, i couldn’t give her kids. after 2 years together, she left me immediately to get with a cis guy. i was ruined. i had sacrificed much of my identity to please her- letting her choose my clothes, style my hair, and even determining what i was and wasn’t allowed to be interested in. in short terms, after she left, i was very toxic towards the trans body. months later, i somehow found myself in a situationship veering on more of a relationship with another trans guy and thank god he’s been nothing but patient, understanding i am closeted (as gay, not trans, been out as trans long before this all) and struggling. luckily, he knew me before my marriage and that’s been a great help for us.
but to be honest, after a year, i was about to call it quits- worried i wasn’t what he needed and couldn’t show him the sexual attention he wanted. but that’s because i didn’t know how to love another trans person in terms of sex. i had only ever been with chaser cismen and ciswomen who wanted unrealistic things. your blog (and a few others but mainly yours) unlocked the words i was looking for and our lives have been so much better for it. since we’re long distance, i’ve finally been able to have fantasies with him without having to imagine myself as some cis fantasy and not feel fulfilled due to it, and ive been able to talk to him in ways that dont shy away from addressing his trans body or feminize him.
unfortunately i’m still struggling with the fact im into men. but at least im having crazy good sex with one and enjoying it in private. maybe one day i’ll have the courage to make him more than a secret.
i just wanted to let you know you’re saving masc relationships in real time.
-🦂
(also if this does end up posted: me and the aforementioned partner are both involved in fetish spaces with each others knowing. none of my interactions on this blog are done behind his back.)
hey man, how could I not reply to this? this is deeply beautiful and meaningful and extremely relatable in a lot of ways for me.
having someone that's meant to love you degrade and demean you in this way is deeply harmful. its awful to have someone that pushes us into the boxes they want for us, and even harder to pull apart that hurt when those boxes are 'meant' to be affirming. as someone that lived stealth for many years and also experienced a deeply damaging relationship, I also fell into a situationship with someone that helped me change. they're non-binary and helped me grow away from some very harmful narratives and rhetorics I'd found myself in. while we ultimately grew apart and weren't compatible beyond sex and basic friendship, I still cherish what they gifted me in expanding my frameworks of identity and gender and what it meant to love someone with a body like my own. I realised from that how deeply beautiful t4t and masc4masc interactions could be. realised how much Id harmed myself through chasing masculine validation from the types of people who could never give it to me. connecting with queer masculinity again saved my life.
here's something that might resonate with you. you can feel sexual attraction without wishing to be with someone. for me, I enjoy cis men in pornography, but sincerely do not know if I could have sex with a cis man again. this is due to my own history and hang ups. but working through that shame of 'wait, Im allowed to jerk off to this and not desire to be a part of it' healed parts of me. I did a lot of reading into asexuality and aromanticism and the spectrums of attraction and that helped me align feelings that I couldn't articulate. whilst I'm not ace, reading about ace people that were into porn but not sex, as well as other ways they felt attraction helped me find words I needed for myself. I'm basically just putting this back to you that if you're struggling with gay identity, maybe this is something to pull apart in yourself. maybe this is not something you relate to though.
this warms me deeply. very deeply. if you ever want to DM, you welcome to talk to me. promise not to hit on you if that's the line in your relationship. happy to just chat life. I feel I relate to you in many ways man. I wish you all the love and happiness in the word in this relationship and your relationship with yourself
That's right, baby. Go ahead and hump my leg like the dumb little pet you are. Maybe if you cum in your underwear again I'll touch you for real this time.
i wish i was someone's dumb naive younger brother who they molest from time to time while i just let it happen but of course god is cruel and unfair and i stay unmolested
them pinning me down. hands above my head. giving me hickeys. or making out with me. but they are holding my suction vibe to my t dick. over stimulating me till i can't take it anymore. and beyond that. and they are talking me through it the entire time. or not. "it's ok you can take it" "your being such a good boy" "come on one more orgasm" "stop fucking whining and take it like a man" "shut up"
imagine being scared of bottom growth. yeah, you're scared of a little dick? of experiencing pleasure you've never felt before?
maybe you're just scared you'll turn into a degenerate freak who can only think with his cock. is that it? you don't want to turn into a pervert like me?
well bad fucking news, fag, you already are. you just managed to hide it until now, but that's not gonna be possible anymore.
every time you're horny, your dick is gonna grow and poke out of your underwear, desperate for relief and impossible to ignore. it's gonna make you twitchy and all tensed up and everyone is gonna know what a depraved fucking faggot you really are.
now shut the fuck up and accept your dick like a man
A little brother sending his big brother photos of him while his big bro is doing other things, sending him suggestive photos and giggling to himself in his room knowing he's getting his big bro all rilled up
Vanilla sex isn't "wholesome sex"! Sex is not more pure just because it's done within the framework of a monogamous relationship and free from elements of kink!
"Person is so pure they probably don't even know what sex is." Purity isn't defined by the distance from sex! As if the more a person encounters sex in any context the less pure their soul becomes!
You🫵are not immune to propagating the beliefs and ideas of purity culture!
Hey, for everyone saying xenogenders are chronically online: Today in psych class we talked about gender dysphoria and I got to illustrate my view of gender graphically. It looked like a venn diagram with four heavily overlapping circles - one of them was xenogender.
My class was ENTIRELY receptive to it. This receptiveness included a straight, cis, white, christian male who had never heard of it before. And he was totally cool with it! We even took two minutes going on about what our gender would be if we described it in xenic terms. My teacher said he'd be the point of a mountain that intersects with clouds in the sky. Another said a ball of lint. I said the ocean. Not one of us said it was "impossible" or "cringe" or any of that xenogender-phobic shit.
If you're xenogender you're valid. The world, the real, offline world thinks so too. What's "chronically online" and "cringe" is being full of hate.
A german trans guy I follow on tiktok recently shared that he has a habit of telling people a random women's name when they ask about his deadname and one time he used a fake name when referring to his pre-transition self in a skit and to this day he still gets trolls in his comments calling him by that name thinking they're hitting a nerve, meanwhile it's just some random ass name he came up with on the spot. If anyone needs a fun strategy for messing with transphobes.
