under greis

NSFW. 18+. not actively posting. I'm a dominant woman (she/they) in my early 30s exploring kink, and this is where I collect and comment on things that I find sexy, informative, or inspirational. feel free to drop me a line in my askbox, don't be shy! all asks/mail will be published publicly unless otherwise requested. submissions welcome. be creative :)

[ophida-in-herba]

[sweet-saccharin-deactivated2021]

if this ain’t the most beautiful mermaid you’ve ever seen…

[uluhlynx-deactivated20251027]

He looks so happy

[curlicuecal]

10/10 a good mermaid

[jumpingjacktrash]

the mermaid of happiness

[nolifekat]

Reblog to have good and warm feelings

[undergreis]

Stunningly adorable :3

[justafun]

[tru2bkind]

Sweet boy. You did so well. Better than I could imagine. I know it was hard for you. I know it was painful. But I also know it was what you longed for, it was what you needed. I know you pleased me. Now, it’s over, come let me love you. That pleases me most.

[girlsrule-subsdrool]

Ok stay with me here

You know clap lights

Clap on clap off clap on etc

How about a game where

Every time I slap you you can start jerking off

But at the next slap you instantly must stop

Hoping for me to smack you again so you can touch your twitching self

And sometimes I’ll do several in a row and fuck you better keep up

And you just kinda hope you’re able to finish before I get bored or it hurts too much

And I can slap any part of you, face, ass, thighs, chest, anything

So it hurts but you’re so so so close

Torn between dreading and craving the pain

Maybe you can beg for one more slap ….

Fun

[keepdestroyrepair-deactivated20]

[undergreis]

“I just want to be useful,” you had said. “I want to be available to you for whatever you want. Because I am yours.”

Well, what an interesting proposition. I’m sure you were thinking about all the ways I could use you. I’m sure you continued thinking about that as I looped the rope around your wrists and placed the blindfold over your eyes. I even gave your cock a couple firm strokes for good measure. 

So when I led you to the closet and hooked your wrists over the clothing rod, I could feel your confusion. But I know that you meant what you said, that you were available for whatever I wanted, so I waited as you swallowed your uncertainty and settled into a comfortable position. 

“I intend to put you to good use, boy, but not right now. When I come back, I expect you to be ready for me.”

---

Later, when I go to collect you from the closet, you greet me with a dreamy smile. 

“You look happy,” I murmur softly as I lift your arms off the rod and massage feeling back into them. 

“I am, Ma’am,” you say. “I enjoyed being put away like that, like something you own, a belonging. I loved knowing you were going to come back to retrieve me.”

“I’ll always come back for you, darling.”

“I’ll always be here, waiting. I’ll always be yours.” 

[gfdomme]

tying a boy up is fun but i get butterflies in my stomach when a boy is so good that it’s not necessary. when he’s a shaking, moaning mess but does not try to reach for his cock because he knows it’s not his to do. when it gets too intense and his hand instinctively moves down but he stops himself and lets it drop back on the sheets with a soft whine. when i take his wrists and pin them up above his head, or next to his shoulders, or put his hands on my hips and there’s 0 resistance because he’s so surrendered that all he can do is glance up at me with admiration and blush

[chengerbenger-deactivated201608]

[prurire]

You can be the live entertainment at my cocktail party.

[undergreis]

When I told you I would show you off at the party, and told you not to bother with clothing, well, I know you were expecting something a little different. Maybe you thought I was going to bend you over the coffee table, hand out canes and paddles and crops and let my friends bruise you up for me; or maybe you thought I was going to make you the coffee table, tease you with pinches and strokes while you concentrated on balancing our food and glasses on your back; or maybe you thought I was going to keep you on a leash all night, devoted and alert at my feet, our every wish a command you execute flawlessly. 

You sell yourself short, darling. There are so many reasons why you make me proud to own you, and tonight I want my friends to experience the beauty of your music. I want them to see your dedication to your craft, perfection born of years of practice. I want them to see how much heart you put into your art, how much focus and care. And as for the other ways I can show you off? Well, darling, the night is still young.

[dudesindistress]

Hi! I'm not a dude looking to be distressed but a woman who wants to do the distressing. Could you possibly point me towards some good beginner resources? Especially for the shibari. This is the hottest blog I've ever come across and I'm itching to learn more. Thanks!!

We 101% recommend going to a conference, class, or con in your local community to learn ‘the ropes.’  Doing = learning, especially with rope!  Both lovely ladies learned from mentors in our community, and by spending lots of time together practicing in the company of teachers and others who were interested.  

But in the meantime, you might be itching to get started at home. Here are some general resources we recommend:

Read this great overview of safety and basics by LqqkOut

Innovative Fiber Arts (VT): Youtube for amazing video tutorials or check them out at ifavermont.blogspot.com

Crash Restraint: Youtube videos by Topologist

Overview of 100s of basic ties with videos at Rekink.com

Hitchin’ Bitches Meet-up: International group for women who love rope. Search for groups near you on FetLife.

[[shameless plug: We present at conferences frequently! We are the gift that keeps on distressing.. we’d love to teach your ourselves. Come to one of our classes at a Dark Odyssey event, or check your local calendar on Fetlife to see if we are in your neighborhood]]

[labstrakts]

[undergreis]

“Hold that for me darling while I finish getting ready. Careful not to get teeth marks on the leather though, or I shall be very annoyed.”

“Did you want to put on anything else or are you comfortable going naked? Oh silly me, you can’t respond with that in your mouth, can you? Naked it is.”

[katane01-deactivated20181222]

Sleep and Control

Watching you sleep.

You’ve turned your back on me. I can just see the outline of your body in the almost dark. I want to trail my fingers along that line. Along the side of your head, down over your neck, especially your neck, over your shoulder and down the length of your arm lying on top of the covers.

You need your sleep and I’ve had my fun, had my hands on and in you and now it’s your time to rest.

So I’ll resist touching. I won’t trace over the marks on your back, I won’t wrap my hands around your throat, won’t shove my fingers almost too far into your mouth. I’ll resist your poor swollen and tender nipples and I’ll refuse to think about the parts of you under the sheets.

I have to close my eyes now. Self control is hard.

[the--moonchild-deactivated20170]

[undergreis]

Nobody else can see it, but you can feel it, can’t you boy?

My lips on your cheek, my fingers under your chin, my teeth on your collarbone. The marks of my ownership cover your body, invisible to anyone looking, but for you they’re like brands on your skin, reminding you who you belong to. 

Wear them proudly, darling, you’re the only one I give them to. 

[undergreis]

Chivalry is dead but we never needed it anyway, paternalism masquerading as virtue, as if treating women with respect is more than just basic fucking human decency, as if men need a code to tell them that.

Chivalry is dead but you’re carrying its corpse around; I can smell it in your smug condescension, your hand at my elbow, every action taken ostensibly for my benefit just another brick in your facade, crusted together with mediocrity and spit.

Chivalry is dead because we swallowed it whole, we pulverized it and shit it out as fertilizer for our rage, as tinder for our flame. It’s what we’ve learned to do best, after all, creating matter from your garbage, building for ourselves the better life we’re going to leave you for.

[alekzmx]

[dommes-journey]

too cute.

[cmereboy]

These two are adorable. Love.

[sasukelangleysohryu-deactivated]

this is the cutest gif i have ever seen in my life but it also features a gay orgy so proceed with caution

[laughterkey]

AS ADVERTISED.

[ofthemoonandsea-deactivated2019]

[undergreis]

Look at that smile, darling. Look at how good you look underneath me, how soft you can be, how vulnerable and open. You are beautiful to me in so many ways but this is my favorite, your unhurried devotion and strong, gentle hands lifting me up and holding me close.

[raealexxander]

Guys I’m in desperate need of help. Joe @masterofbirds is in critical care with his heart failing due to a tumor on this adrenal gland. We were in the middle of a move and have to be out in the next couple of weeks. On top of it all my job cut me from the schedule as punishment for missing work. I desperately need help. Please consider donating and sharing.

[lovemysub-deactivated20250527]

Hey followers!

This is a longtime follower of mine who has been incredibly sweet and encouraging for almost as long as I’ve been writing this blog. Her husband, and by extension her family, is in a bad spot right now and they need some help.

Guys, if you are in a position to do so, please click the link above and donate. If not, please reblog and help get this in front of as many people as possible.

Followers, you guys are amazing. You’ve come together to help people in the past and I know you will this time as well. Do what you do and let’s make a difference.

-LMS

[lovemysub-deactivated20250527]

I just donated. It took maybe 2 minutes, tops. Folks, if you’re in a position to donate, please take a minute to do so, and if not, please share this to help spread the word. If you reblog this post from me, I will follow your blog, because I always want to follow folks who want to help people in this world.

-LMS

[mymodernmet]

Bearded Man Playfully Poses for Pin-Up Calendar to Raise Money for Children’s Charity

[plumbat]

I keep looking at these and thinking “this one is my favorite… no, THIS one is my favorite…”

[undergreis]

*sobs* Flowers in beard!!!

[gifsploitation-deactivated20181]

[musingsofsuadela]

the excitement in his eyes when he looks up at her

[cmereboy]

Enthusiastic, can’t-go-on-living-unless-my-mouth-is-between-your-thighs-right-right-RIGHT-now oral makes the whole fucking world go round.