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I’m honestly so hardened by trauma and bullshit in my life that I expect the absolute worse situation just so I’m able to cope with it. I’m so tough it’s ridiculous, I’ve learned that’s the way to be to survive.
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10 Questions to Ask a Pot, BEFORE Starting an Arrangement:
Its more common than we admit, that when we first begin to communicate with a “rich and generous” Pot, that we tend to tread lightly as we don’t want to (or are scared to) rock the boat. In my opinion, thats just bullshit. If I’m putting my time, my body, safety, energy, goals and dreams, plus my physical and mental health on the line, you better believe I want some answers first before crossing any lines and agreeing to any arrangement.
It’s important to ask thought provoking questions (not just the make-us-look-cute-small-talk kinda questions) and to really pay attention to their responses. Are they sincere, well thought out and organized answers or are they taking pick-up lines straight out of a book that could possibly be called “How To Get Laid For Free”
If I was talking to a Pot (or any man or woman at any stage) and they were offended/outraged or even hesitant to answer any of the questions listed below…that would give me something to think about. After-all, its not like I would be asking them to start a formal judicial hearing…I just want to know what I’d be getting myself into. Plain and simple.
1) Why are you looking for a Sugar Baby, and not a girlfriend (boyfriend)?
* Maybe he doesn’t fully realize what a Sugar Baby is, and just thinks you’ll be a girlfriend that he has to pay for all your dinners together and get the popcorn while you’re out at the movies? It’s happened before. This is a simple way to put it out there, that there is going to be a definite difference between you and a girlfriend.
2) So far, (because its still new) what is your favourite aspect about me?
* This is important. If he is blunt and says “its your intelligence”, then go get some current news articles, or popular and classic books and stay informed my friend! If he says “its your athletic ability”, take him out to play beach volleyball on a nice day, or go to the gym together for a date. If he says “its your chest”…well then, that’s up to you to either play it up or smack him. In my opinion, I would do whatever I felt worked to keep him hooked…but without affecting my self esteem or self worth. His role is to help lift you up in life, not hold you down.
3) What are 3 passions that you used to enjoy and what are some new ones that you currently do?
* This will give you an opportunity to enliven some of your dates by sharing his past passions with him, and by making sure that even if you don’t enjoy his current ones…that you make the effort to either watch or participate in them for him. He will feel valued and it’ll help strengthen your bond if you can connect with things that he enjoys. Who knows, maybe he has given up on certain passions in life because his wife or current girlfriend hates them. It’s an easy and fun “in” for you.
4) What goals are you working towards now?
* A man without a goal(s) is a scary thing. There is not one person in this world who can honestly say that they have completed all of their life’s goals and can now sit on their butt, twiddling their thumbs for the rest of their life. Goals do not need to glamorous, extensive or expensive. They can be the very smallest of things, but to me, a person without a goal has no drive, lacks motivation and doesn’t have that “gusto” in life that I’m looking for. PLUS, if someone has no goals or lacks the desire to create one…how can I expect them to be understanding of, and to support me in achieving mine?
5) If we were ever seen out in public together, how would you want me to handle the situation. What could I expect from you?
* I have had this talk before with my SD, and thankfully so! There have been times where we have been out together and we have run into (or close to it) someone that we knew. Thankfully we don’t play in the same social circles, so it helps to limit our chances. One of our easiest “cover stories” is manageable because I am his daughters age. If someone comes up to us, I politely say something like this “Oh, I’ve kept you long enough. Please tell Tina that I said hi, and it was nice running into you!” And then I politely make my way somewhere else and just send him a text of where I am or whatever it is that I’ll be doing to keep me busy until he is in the clear. And I wait patiently. I do not send 20 texts and carry on a conversation with him. At this point in the game of privacy…I no longer exist, right ladies?
6) If we were to have a “sleep over”, would you be ok with me taking some time to myself? What do you feel would be an appropriate amount of time to ourselves before coming back together?
* Trust me, if you’re like me, you’ll want your own space so that you have time to relax, unwind, clean up, catch up on texts/messages, have a nap, enjoy a tea etc. He may be the type of person who doesn’t want or need to have time apart, but that doesn’t mean that you should hide/ignore your need for some space. If you do not have some sort of understanding beforehand, it could get ugly if you begin to get annoyed at or with him. I most definitely need my “me” time and I’m very upfront about it. Its simply easier to have the conversation and expectations agreed to BEFORE you decide to spend 24 hours together.
7) When we text, are there certain words/language/innuendos that you’d prefer to avoid?
* If he is the “nervous first time SD” or if he has a curious wife/spouse, you may need to help him feel at ease, by stating that you respect this part of your arrangement and that you want to work with him to keep any suspicions to a minimum. It could help to relax you and him, if you both know what the rules and expectations are when communicating. You don’t want to be saying things like “Ok sweetie, I’ll see you tomorrow and I’ll wear the red dress you bought me. XO”…and his wife has access to his phone. That could back fire on you both, not just him. It’s simple and easy to create code words/sentences. For example: if you want to say “Thinking of you, good night”, you could say something like “I’ll see what Jackson says tomorrow”. And you’ll both know what it really means, and if anyone happens to pick up his phone and read it, its harmless and safer to cover/explain.
Remember not to take it personal that you are a hidden aspect to his life, that sometimes you’re simply not allowed to exist, that you are a “secret”…because you are. Do you want him as an SD or not? There are just some things that we need to put our pride aside for and do to keep their lives running smoothly, so that our lives do as well.
8) If I ever needed extra financial help, for whatever reason, and I felt that I wanted/needed to ask you for your assistance, how would you prefer me to ask? Subtly or straight to the point?
* Some men are turned off by feeling like a bank machine, while others get turned on by it. It’s important to know which kind of response you could expect from him by asking for extra help. This way, you’ll have a better idea of how best to use your allowance when you get it. If he’s not the easy going-extra-help-kinda-guy, there is nothing wrong with that at all…it simply means that you need to prioritize your wants over needs and use your allowance, or money that he does give to you, responsibly.
Some arrangements have more wiggle room for “extras” while others are based on strict numbers and rules. If you do feel that you are going to ask for extra support…start small and assess his responses/reactions to you. You’ll get a feel of whether you should push the boundaries or simply enjoy the benefits of what you already share with him. “Don’t throw away a dime in search of 10 pennies”.
9) What is the safest way for you to give me my allowance, so that you don’t feel stressed each month in trying to hide it from your wife/girlfriend?
* If he doesn’t know what’s the safest way, he may be a ping-pong ball while he uses/tries different methods and amounts, until he can get it all figured out. This actually does take some time to plan safely and effectively, and most new SD’s don’t give it the due planning that it requires. Are you going to be patient and understanding with him? Or are you going to start heckling him and demanding quicker transactions? Either way, it’s best to have a conversation about it, and get it all sorted out before your allowance day arrives, and you have 3 bills to pay…while you’re waiting for him to do a google search on “email transfers”.
10) I recently watched a documentary on the Sex Industry and I’d like to hear your thoughts and opinions on both those who offer their services and on those who seek them?
* This is an easy opener to get the ball rolling for more questions on this topic. It will also give you some insight into his biases, narcissism and his general opinion on where you stand in your “arrangement” with him. Is he negative towards the Sex Industry or is he a whatever floats your boat kinda guy?
So…that about sums it up for today!
Of course, I realize that there are a ton of other questions that you could ask a Pot/SD etc, that all relate to things like allowance amount, allowance frequency, sexual expectations, gifts or no gifts, sexual health history, previous Sugar arrangements, any marital issues that he is seeking your comfort/assistance for etc etc, but at some point I need to stop today lol. I’m actually missing one of my favourite shows to write this. So, I hope that this list helps in some teeny-tiny way, and if anything, it gets your mind thinking of other possible scenarios that you may want to consider before agreeing to an arrangement with anyone.
SB/SD Sites
seekingarrangement.com
sugardaddie.com
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ashleymadison.com
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millionairesponsors.com
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Take care of yourself
How to feel like you’re taking care of yourself and accomplished.
Wash your hair & bathe
Put on a face mask
While that’s drying, go start making dinner
Or do the dishes
Take the mask off
Get some water
Make your bed
Eat dinner
Listen to a nice piano song
Cry if you need to. I’m tired of people saying don’t cry. Cry baby girl it’s okay!!
Now go watch your favorite Disney movie
Scribble away your stress, lay down, and
Go to bed at a reasonable time. It gets better.
Before you pass out though tell yourself that you love you.
Sugar baby profile writing tips
Hello Y’all, Had a good day today (shopping!) so I decided to give you some tips on profile writing.
English is not my first language, hence I will not give you much ‘technical’ tips, but I’ll focus more on the content of your profile.
The obvious
1. On SA there is a section “about me” and “what I’m looking for” -or something along those lines. Make sure that what you write under those headings is relevant. I see way too many saying under ‘what I’m looking for” ; ‘see the above’… there is a reason why SA has two headings.
2. Write coherent and with correct grammar (no slang). If English is not your first language, check it multiple times and maybe just sleep and re-read it the day after. Using correct and appropriate language directly sets a more intelligent tone.
Although I first didn’t want to include the above point, until I saw this profile: I’m fabulous…I’m an incredible dresser, I’ve got buckets of sexiness, I’m a hoot and a half and I got a killer……… lol I love to laugh & smile, A sassy socialista well known for her silver tongue. Oh & the genius behind, I’m a Straight Talkin’, Fun Lovin’, Ass Kickin’, Inspirin’ COACHin’ Chic, Conductin the 2 Thumbs Up POSSIBILITY Band! LIFE OF THIS PARTY…and yh, the obvious….. i love “it”!..YOU KNOW WHAT INNIT?. I’m really a giant cupcake. Afraid of roller coasters and dry ice. enough about me there!
(sorry if you are on tumblr, again these are just my opinions)
3. Write more than a paragraph. It is not inviting to say: If you want to find out more about me; just send an e-mail :). I saw this waaay to many times. Firstly if you don’t take time to write a decent profile, why should a guy bother to e-mail you? And secondly why would the guy e-mail you if he has no idea what you are all about?
4. Don’t use the same word over and over again. Try to use specific vocabulary. Inspired by this profile:
I am a very educated and very beautiful ebony princess.i have a very fit body and boundless energy.love fine dining,dancing,movies.i have some very unique ideas on how to have a great relationship with my daddie
very very nice, not?
5. DON’T, absolute don’t use words such as ‘spoiling’ and ‘princess’ etc. it’s just a huge turn-off.
My tips on writing a good profile
1. Be specific about yourself. I see way too many profiles saying “I love fine dining, shopping, travelling, cooking, masturbating, excersising”. OK, the masturbation was a joke, but you get what I mean right? A lot of girls put what they like without elaborating on it. A small explanation will better convey your personality than listing. It’s better to write about one thing in detail, than listing 10 things.
Example. Travelling has always been a huge passion and a natural part of my life. When I was younger I developed a great interest in learning about people’s habits and language, since it’s truly fascinating to learn about other cultures. My favorite country is Thailand, I fell in love with the perfect beaches and the friendly people.. and would of course love to return some time ;)
A profile should be about YOU, not what you want to do with your sugar daddy, or what you have on your shopping list. Write what you like, what you like to do what your future plan is.
Topics to write about
Education. Ladies, if you are studying; mention what you study and why you have chosen it/why you like it.
Travel. Be specific, what countries do you like, or what countries would you like to visit.
Music/Art/Drama. A lot of wealthy men love the arts. Do you dance? Great! Mention what style. Do you paint/draw/etc? Awesome! Write what art genre you love, and what your inspirations are.
Future. What are your ambitions? SD’s love passionate Sugar babbies. Tell about your role models/inspirations as well.
Any other hobby/important event in your life that reflects who you are.
BE UNIQUE!
2. Write three paragraphs on three different subjects each. Don’t put one big chunk of text, this doesn’t invite someone to read it. Mine is structured as; background, education, traveling.
3. Don’t say anything negative about yourself. Not even if you want to make a joke that you are not such a good cook. You never now how a potential sugar daddy may intepret this, nor do you know if he gets the joke.
4. Don’t be afraid to show your personality. Don’t think that you will attract more men by keeping your profile generic. You can never make EVERYONE like you. Therefore there will always be men who will like your profile and men who won’t like you.
On ‘what I’m looking for’
1. Be honest. Say what you are looking for in a subtle manner. However exclude saying things such as; I’m a virgin or I’m looking for X $ a month. Don’t talk sex, don’t talk money. Just honestly say how you would imagine a perfect arrangement.
Again be specific. Don’t list!
Don’t: We could go together for dinner, cinema, spa, holiday, cooking, clubbing
Do: In a perfect arrangement we would do things together that we both enjoy. I love to go fine dining, and am a huge fan of the Italian cuisine, while at the same time I really like to explore local restaurants as well. For some change I always enjoy going to the beach and having an early lunch near the sea.
2. Don’t be too demanding, and don’t be negative. Know what to include and exclude
I know you are looking for a men that will respect your time/body/ whatever, but what is the use of mentioning that? Unrespectful men will not be scared away by that. Similarly don’t begin with “Only wealthy men please!” this has the same effect as when men say “Only attractive people please!” it’s really inappropriate. Just don’t say any negative conditions. However you can say that for example you are only looking for an SD under 50 (if you definitely have an age limit). Just make it subtle.
3. Use correct pronouns
Don’t; I would love to go with my SD on short trips during the weekend
Do: I would love to go with you on short trips during the weekend
I think that was it for now. I’ll probably edit it or post a part two, since I have so many more tips! But now I’m tired from typing ;)
THESE ARE MY VIEWS! THIS IS NOT OBJECTIVE FACTUAL INFORMATION. Take from it what you like :)
Good luck!
Random hoe tips (pt. 2)
Vitamin E can help alleviate period symptoms. It’s in avocados, almonds, broccoli, etc.
Take 1 banana and a tablespoon of honey and mix together to make a nice face mask.
Avoid wearing cotton panties before and after sex because cotton panties trap lint in the crevices of your thighs.
Take a detox bath. Mix 1 cup of ground-up oatmeal, 1 cup of epsom salts, and 2 teaspoons of lavender bud and put 2-3 spoonfuls of the mixture in your bathwater.
Shave your vag downward or diagonally.
To hide a hickey, apply green concealer all over and top with foundation and powder. Bam. Hickey-be-gone.
Avoid feminine washes such as Summer’s Eve. They’ll throw off the natural pH of your vag. Mild soap works just fine.
An amazing product is Anastasia Dipbrow Pomade. You’re welcome.
If you use hair removal creams on your vag, you’re more prone to a yeast infection.
Need a natural facial toner? Dilute 1 teaspoon of apple cider vinegar in a cup of water.
Yoni oil makes your vag extremely soft.
Foods with Vitamin B6 will help relieve bloating. It’s found in bananas, oatmeal, potatoes, etc.
Rimmel Stay Matte foundation is only $6, is great for full coverage, and feels absolutely weightless.
When you bleed onto your panties during your period, put your stained panties into a mixture of ¾ ice cold water and ¼ peroxide. Mix the liquid and give it 2-3 hours before letting your blood-free panties dry.
Vaseline cocoa butter or Johnson’s baby lotion does wonders for your legs after you shave.
Coconut oil and brown sugar make the perfect body exfoliator.
Maybelline Pumped Up Mascara is tear-proof.
Honey and white sugar make the perfect lip scrub.
If you don’t exactly know how to shave your vag: exfoliate, rub the area with baby oil to soften the hair, shave with a 4-blade razor (they do a better job shaving) and apply unscented deodorant liberally to avoid razor bumps.
Drinking cranberry juice helps prevent UTIs.
Cranberries and pineapples help improve the natural scent of your vag.
Men’s razors are cheaper than women’s razors and they also shave a lot better.
If you have sensitive skin, use witch hazel, rose water, or mud masks.
Do NOT douche. Douching can cause STIs and yeast infections.
Soak your feet in lemon juice; hot water will dry out your skin.
THIS IS HEAVAN
my POT accepted my allowance request
I met with him twice earlier last month and on our last dinner date I had told him that it probably wouldn’t work out because of the distance and $200 for dinner dates wasn’t cutting it for me. So if he wanted this to continue then we would actually have to start an arrangement. I asked him for 4k a month, which is more than what I really need but I wanted to set the bar in case he tried to talk me down from that. We only talked twice and that in a brief exchange while I was on vacation and had not heard from him since. So I was thinking that maybe he thought that what I was asking for was too high and he had moved on (so had I so I wasn’t tripping). BUT he texted me this morning and he told me he couldn’t stop thinking about me and that my allowance request was doable. So now we’re meeting for dinner tomorrow and this little lady has her self a new SD. Mind you, if you’re still reading this, I was able to do this without being sexual with him. No making out, no sex, no nude photos or explicit text. All he got from me was a peck on the cheek and my attention. As I get older and more experienced with meeting with men and doing research, I’ve learned that you don’t have to be overtly sexual when meeting these men to get what you want. Reading books on how to talk to men (or people in general) has helped me out in sugar dating and in my vanilla life. I’m not settling for anything less than I deserve.
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Finalized a 10k allowance today with a Portuguese POT I met on tinder. Wire transfer coming today. Putting this here for good measure 🤑