(noun) Denim Lesbian Whomst've Knows How to Flirt

Clarissa|27|She Her|Lesbian|Trans Girl|Woman in Stem|Plural|AutistIc|White|USAmerican|TMA

[usefuljesbian]

yes they're lesbians. yes they hate women. terfs exist.

[usefuljesbian]

I'm officially on record as being tired of Shen eggbaiting. I'm not making a moral judgement here but im past patience or caring. they can transition or not but I'm done commenting SHEN on every other comic they post. at this point engaging is either encouraging queerbaiting or giving a trans person an indirect monetary incentive to stay publicly closeted. this isn't the egg prime directive this is pushing chicks out of the nest

[usefuljesbian]

marvel rivals squirrel girl getting fawned over by mr character design analysis mcyoutube shorts man is actually making me lose my shit. like fuck man i get wanting to be happy about a so-called fat character in a big name media property. and it's better than overwatch, sure, but the only way we ever got from overwatch to this is by holding people's feet to the fire. and there is so far to go. people in real life with thighs like that just do not have thigh gaps most of the time and that's FINE. it's FINE NOT TO HAVE A FUCKING THIGH GAP.

and what's more, if you imagine her legs with the bone structure that character model implies but without much fat, it would look bow legged and weird and creepy! they've gone so far out of their way to erase a common feature of real life fat people that they've essentially created a cryptid.

before we can have equal access to a positive body image for all, we need to be able to portray characters as likeable, relatable, aspirational without them having to have certain features in common with skinny people. why can't a "ray of sunshine" have thighs that touch. why does she have to have a flat belly. why no fat on her upper chest besides her massive tits.

and you may say to me "but they've gotta make her palatable and attractive to make her marketable" for one thing i don't care. i would love if marvel and Disney went as bankrupt financially as they are creatively. for another, let them make their crass commercialist slop but can we all fucking agree that it is not good representation

stop skinnywashing fat girls

[usefuljesbian]

just finished the bible. "judas" is literally a byword for "traitor" and yet jesus still trusted him. is he stupid?

[usefuljesbian]

really there is nothing worse than not being able to find something hot anymore because it was used to lure you in by an abuser

[usefuljesbian]

I'm so pissed off actually. i liked being a freak. do you know how hard it is to jack off when your trauma is telling you that enjoying this is going to get you hurt again?

[usefuljesbian]

not even the fun kind of hurt either

[usefuljesbian]

really there is nothing worse than not being able to find something hot anymore because it was used to lure you in by an abuser

[usefuljesbian]

I'm so pissed off actually. i liked being a freak. do you know how hard it is to jack off when your trauma is telling you that enjoying this is going to get you hurt again?

[usefuljesbian]

really there is nothing worse than not being able to find something hot anymore because it was used to lure you in by an abuser

[usefuljesbian]

i think if you see someone ripping off isff you should always reply to them as if they're suggesting forcefem

[usefuljesbian]

question for girlies who think the egg prime directive is stupid: if you meet an egg who would clearly be a horrific birthday boy if he hatched, is it better just to not?

[usefuljesbian]

they're saying that I've weaponized insouciance. they're saying I'm not terribly concerned and I've made it everyone's problem

[usefuljesbian]

man that one weirdo who just had a conniption at my referencing june is gonna be real pissed when they hear whats planned for her in future installments. and has already been visually previewed.

[usefuljesbian]

I'm just so desperate to find myself again after so completely losing myself. but the spaces i found myself via last time hardly exist anymore and i don't know how I'm going to do it this time?

[usefuljesbian]

something has been dismantled but i still need it

[usefuljesbian]

I'm just so desperate to find myself again after so completely losing myself. but the spaces i found myself via last time hardly exist anymore and i don't know how I'm going to do it this time?

[pocket-deer-belly]

really feels like the amount of transfem donation posts has increased lately. please help them survive.

[eshasunrise]

would it be tacky to link my fundraiser here?

[pocket-deer-belly]

this is the perfect post to put fundraisers actually, go ahead

[spacewizardazrid]

Hi, I am a trans woman who gets very few hours at work. I live extremely paycheck to paycheck and bills are looking kinda scary this month, if any of y'all out there can chip a little in, every little bit helps me keep ahead of things like eating enough and keeping my car running.

Thanks 🫂💕

https://cash.app/$Azr1d

https://venmo.com/code?user_id=2428227926622208209&created=1784426060

[storyweavingspider]

2026 TUMBLR WHITENESS CENSUS

There are SIX questions total in reblogs, the end will be marked by large green text. If you don’t see all six, check reblogs and grab the version with the ending note.

1/6 - Do you identify as some flavor of white?

White

Non-white

Only considered white outside of imperial core

Insecure Mixed Person externalizing my family racial issues here

Voting ended onJul 22

Answers amended from the 2025 census based on feedback. If you’re mixed, choose what feels right to you I’m not here to do phrenology or paper bag test you but don’t make it my problem either. When in doubt, ask yourself: would the whites kill you too in the race war?

This census is US-centric because so is tumblr, unfortunately. This poll is also starting with a heavy Black/racialized bias due to my personal followers. The main point of this census is to see how white-dominant the site is currently compared to prior years, as well

For the purpose of this census, Imperial Core will be defined as the following: United States, Canada, Australia, Aotearoa, basically all of Western Europe, Japan, and Israel. If you want to argue about any of these designations, too bad maybe they should stop colonizing.

Reblog from question 6/6 below!

[storyweavingspider]

2/6 So is you Black or nah?

Ye

Nah

Insecure Mixed Person externalizing my family racial issues here

Not considered Black in my country, but considered Black elsewhere

Voting ended onJul 22

[storyweavingspider]

3/6 How about trans?

Transfemme

Transmasc

Non-binary/Genderfluid/related but TMA*

Non-binary/Genderfluid/related but TME*

Non-binary but don’t consider yourself trans

Agender

Two-Spirit

Otherwise cultural gender (please share I wanna know!!)

Other not listed

Cisgender

Voting ended onJul 22

Note for clarification:

*For those who don’t know, TMA means transmisogyny affected (such as trans women, some non-binary people, etc.) whereas TME means transmisogyny exempt (Cis men, cis women, transmasculine individuals, etc). If you want to ask for clarification for which applies to you for the purposes of this poll, feel free to ask and I’ll try to reply, but if you try to argue or quibble about the terms themselves, I’ll block you.

[storyweavingspider]

4/6 Are you currently inside or outside the imperial core? (Defined in first post)

Imperial core

Semiperiphery

Periphery

Immigrated to imperial core from outside of it

Other/Complicated

Voting ended onJul 22

[storyweavingspider]

5/6 How many Black people would *actually* call YOU their friend? Online counts.

I’m non-Black, 0

I’m non-Black, 1-2

I’m non-Black, 1-2 but I have <8 friends

I’m non-Black, 3-6

I’m non-Black, 7+

I’m Black, 0

I’m Black, 1-2

I’m Black, 1-2 but I have <8 friends

I’m Black, 3-6

I’m Black, 7+

I have less than 3 friends total.

Voting ended onJul 22

[storyweavingspider]

6/6! How many TMA* (Transfemme, some non-binary, etc.) people would *actually* call YOU their friend?

I’m TME, 0

I’m TME, 1-2

I’m TME, 1-2 but I have <8 friends

I’m TME, 3-6

I’m TME, 7+

I’m TMA, 0

I’m TMA, 1-2

I’m TMA, 1-2 but I have <8 friends

I’m TMA, 3-6

I’m TMA, 7+

I have less than 3 friends total

Voting ended onJul 22

*For those who don’t know, TMA means transmisogyny affected (such as trans women, some non-binary people, etc.) whereas TME means transmisogyny exempt (Cis men, cis women, transmasculine individuals, etc). If you want to ask for clarification for which applies to you for the purposes of this poll, feel free to ask and I’ll try to reply, but if you try to argue or quibble about the terms themselves, I’ll block you.

THIS IS THE END! Please reblog for bigger sample pool 💖🙏🏽

[usefuljesbian]

oh god oh fuck oh no oh fuck oh god

ARARE NO

[usefuljesbian]

i need the next chapter to involve that middle schooler killing herself

[usefuljesbian]

oh god oh fuck oh no oh fuck oh god

ARARE NO