[val-in-red]

provisional pinned since i'm active again:

trans male stone top and sadomasochist. some suffering, some service, some seduction, some switching, some sinning & sometimes even sex. painplay. emotional s/m. ropes. sub top specials. content tag for #blood, #needles, #intox, #cnc.

I keep it RACK. everything else is fantasy.

you won't find: incest-, detransition- or any form of supremacy kinks. no honorifics. no petnames, literal or figurative. asks okay. if we're mutuals or we interact a lot I'm also open to dms, just be respectfully horny and creatively insane. enjoy!

[hexslvt]

getting casually told to behave does something to me istg

[delicatelymorbid]

need a sub top getting really eager really quick so i have no choice but to calm them down. somewhere in the midst of them fucking me, a sense of control always gets lost. they get distracted and start to chase that high, causing nothing but my nails roughly digging down their back at an effort to snap their attention back to me. my control, not that pathetic desperation that leaves us both over worn and underfed.

"baby, you're trying too hard. i thought you wanted to make me feel good? isn't that what matters? focus on being good for me, not wanting to cum, wanting to go harder, or faster. just listen to me."

dragging that hand up their spine and to the nape of their neck, pulling at their hair to keep their eyes on mine. my other hand going around their throat, applying the smallest amount of pressure in an effort to keep them grounded with me. nodding at them with that condescending pout as i watch them try to cling onto my instructions, mumbling "i know, baby. it's so hard to listen, isn't it? poor thing, you can't even do the one thing you're meant for, huh?"

eventually pulling them down into my neck, letting those tired pants blur into needy bites and kisses while i coo in their ear. those familiar, gentle encouragements laced with a condescending tone that they know and love.

"oh, take it easy, sweetheart. you can make me feel good, can't you? i thought you wanted me to use you? if you won't let me, then i should use someone else, right? no? you don't think anyone else could be pathetic enough for me? no one can do it like you? then say it. say you're mine. that's right, baby. i know. you're so good. relax, just like that, you got it. so fucking good, that's it."

[monkbear110]

[rimonoroni2]

the christian veneration of the lamb has always been terrifying to me in ways i can’t explain

[rimonoroni2]

here’s this figure that is vulnerable and easily abused and what’s admirable about it is that it doesn’t fight back and it doesn’t try to defend itself and it’s suffering is noble because it just sits there and takes it. pain is beautiful when you surrender to pain, suffering is godly when you don’t question or try to protect yourself and survival is ugly… like it is just me or is anybody else’s fucking skin crawling rn!!

[boundorpheus]

freakmuttleather

[loserbutchblog]

ok well have you considered bottom femme with really sharp nails who loves to scratch x super masochistic butch who is fucking her and they are both just moaning “harder” back and forth???? did you even think about that??

[angel-in-your-basement]

Thinking about blowing someone who keeps hitting me to motivate me. No matter how much I try, they keep slapping me and telling me to do a better job, until I’m sobbing and choking myself stupid trying to please them. I want them to tell me they wouldn’t have to hurt me if I could just be better. I want them to slap me until I can’t see straight and then fuck my face because it’s the only thing I’m good for.

[boysofdogtown]

Nintendo Gameboy Color

[404hella-deactivated20250704]

......i need it nasty and feral for hours

[sapphling]

boring and annoying when people on this site & in other kink spaces use the term brat/bratting to refer to a sub demonstrating any real active desire or agency over their sexuality & sexual encounters. i am categorically the least bratty sub you'll never get it in with, the actions you're recognizing as "brat behavior" are also known as "having a personality," "contributing," or on occasion "being a little bit of a snide cunt"

[raspbrryfemme]

gay little rubber stamp poem

[katelyn-danger]

*girl who's got you in a headlock voice* Do you think my arms are too big? Do they make it hard to breathe?

[billie-c-harlotte]

sharp nails against a pretty boy's throat while i use him for my own pleasure, not allowing him to touch

[innumerable-voices]

Domme pro tip:

Most people take a gag as permission to be loud. Either because they take it as a challenge "try to silence me, I'll show you" or because they think it's going to muffle noise so they're free to be noisy. They'll be unintelligible of course but they will make all types of pretty noises.

On the other hand a blindfold makes most people quiet. They still want to have situational awareness, they still want to track your movements, so they focus on their hearing and stop making sounds that would make it harder to hear you.

[innumerable-voices]

Domme pro tip:

Most people use breathing to regulate emotions and manage pain. Deep consistent breaths, in through the nose and out through the mouth. You can take advantage of this by either blocking their nose or mouth or by interrupting their breathing with will timed stimuli. Suddenly your high pain tolerance sub becomes a wimp, your composed and mature sub becomes a panicky baby

[innumerable-voices]

Domme pro tip:

Like in horror movies tension is important in scenes. You might think that to make your scene really intense you have to be serious the entire time but what you'll find actually happens is you wind the tension up to a certain point and then can't get it any higher and the scene becomes stale. But if you let yourself relax, loosen up, and make a few well timed jokes breaking the tension a little you can then wind it up again and make it more tense than you could previously.

[innumerable-voices]

Domme pro tip:

Expectation is an incredibly powerful tool you can make use of. People like patterns, people like predictability, they like knowing what's going to happen. So make rules and follow them, make patterns and keep to them, be predictable and your sub will feel safe and comfortable with you, they will trust you more if they know what you're going to do and how you're going to react.

And if you know what someone is expecting you can functionally read their mind, better than that you can control their mind, you don't just know the thoughts they're having you put them their. Plus now you have all of these opportunities to create wonderfully strong emotions and reactions by going against their expectation. Don't do this too frequently or you'll ruin both their feeling of safety and the effect this has but keep it in your back pocket and use it with precision.

[innumerable-voices]

Domme pro tip:

Your sub wants to impress you, they want you to be proud of them. So when they're approaching their limit if you point that out to them ("OK darling I think that's just about all you can take") they will try to convince you they're not ("no please I can take more for you please") and if you give them an opening to do so ("are you sure?") they will jump at the chance to impress you. Follow this up with praise so they know they did a good job. This will leave them feeling satisfied and proud of themselves in a way that reaching their limit and having to tell you they've had enough won't. If you're careful you can use this to gently push their limits and comfort zone so you can both experience more intense sessions in the future

[innumerable-voices]

Now you tell me some:

[firm-hand-soft-heart]

I love the way it suffers for me | @pretty-boy-pup

[val-in-red]

I don't think I ever crave just being dropped flat on my back more than during competition prep. I'm a live wire. a few fingertips half-heartedly dug into my arm, half a minute of sitting on my dick, I'm done for. and you can technically make up for a lack of inherent ambition by learning to like the way your body aches with every flex and motion during the day, and then make it worse by pushing through it harder until you reach the point where it all simply flatlines, and your skin progressively feels more and more like the thin fragile veneer loosely laid above one single hot and twitching erogenous zone. but watch out