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There are 4 things I learned when I was 25:

You do not have to be affectionate all the time to care for someone, in fact, caring can also mean a couple of texts or silence for a few days while you both live your lives happily and separately.

People do not care for you less when they’re busy with their own lives. It’s your reaction to them being their own person - and your ability to make yourself happy - that determines how they feel about you.

Not everyone reciprocates to your actions the same way. If you want someone to acknowledge, be interested in, or treat you a certain way for your efforts, all you have to do is let them know. They will try their personal best to accommodate that within their personal spectrum of feelings.

No one owes you 100% of them, not even after 30 years, because someone having a percentage of themselves is what keeps them sane at the end of the day and that’s okay.

ducksaysm00

These things are so important to learn.

sobeitjayt

All im saying is we both got $2 if we put it together we can get a 4 for 4 from Wendy’s and split it

markv5

Когда приехал от бабушки

dustingrayves

the caption says “when you come home from grandmas” and honestly?? y

bellygangstaboo

Dude saved her! She was bout to catch a whole lotta culture

igglooaustralia

Not all hero’s wear capes

kevinkinky

cyberho

Me as a weedman

what he says: I'm fine

what he means: Honestly the idea of men not being able to have emotions other than anger is really upsetting and an issue that needs to be addressed in our society. The hyper masculinity in our society that we teach to male children starting right as they are able to speak is an issue, we should be teaching kids that feelings are okay and that they should be able to express themselves in a healthy manner instead of bottling it up because "crying isn't manly"