"Teenagers are moody like that. It's hormones."
Is the same thing as "hysteria".
No they're just genuinely unhappy cause you're treating them like shit.
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"Teenagers are moody like that. It's hormones."
Is the same thing as "hysteria".
No they're just genuinely unhappy cause you're treating them like shit.
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People: NOW THIS IS SUBVERSIONâąïž
Honestly i can't live in world of rape, pedo, sex, het and birth!!! I cant do it anymore...
I want to live in a world, create a world, in which we can look at a child and be sure they're not being abused at home, school, church or anywhere. Where children are never forced to unlearn how to make their feelings known and to act on it. Where it is allowed and ENCOURAGED for children to refuse to go to people and places they don't feel comfortable with. I don't care if that's school or home, family or religious leaders.
I don't want a single child ever to be forced or groomed into a situation they are unsafe in. I don't want a single child ever to be stripped of their voice and their objections. To have to learn that they aren't allowed to be afraid of certain people. To have to learn that they can't avoid certain people or situations anyway, so why bother protesting? To have to learn that making their feelings known will get them in trouble. To be expected to explain their feelings or give proof before adults (or even other children) take them seriously.
I don't want a single parent, guardian or whoever the fuck else to ever again get away with threatening a child "You'll be sent to a home!" I want the child to know that when their current guardians fail them, they'll be taken good care of and their community will keep them safe. That the alternative to abusive parents, guardians and others would not be some scary, even worse, place.
That it's ok for a child of any age to divorce their parents when they want to.
Because children are not property. They're precious and a society that doesn't move mountains to protect them isn't worth shit!
hey remember when people said we gotta keep talking about this and then two days passed and it just went quiet. anyways
it's not enough. I'm still seeing incest posts.
almost this entire list is daughters being imprisoned and sexually tortured by their fathers but we cannot talk about the patriarchal family and women are as bad as men
Patriarchal family? You mean the family headed by hetero couples right? We also must not excuse heterosexual and bisexual mothers that enable these situations or participate in them.
These men are not homosexual. At the same time the women who make it possible for them to do these atrocities are not homosexual either. So the common theme here is the non homosexuality of these daughter abusers, not their maleness.
If we hide the heterosexual part, we end up with radfems advocating for an idealized world of anti-gay eugenics with no bio kids born to homosexual people, but still imagining there can be a future with reformed heterosexual couples as heads of families.
People be posting things like this and still make the choice to reproduce đ
what i love about sabrina carpenter is how innovative her work is. i just feel like you never see women shake their asses in music videos and i think itâs so unique and brave to create softcore porn as a female artist
as a historian, one of the hidden geniuses of her art is that she presents herself as a âsex objectâ but subverts your expectation by hating men. some of you might not know about this but there was this ancient philosophy back in the day called âpop feminism,â where some of the greatest minds of the decade (such as buzzfeed and miley cyrus) would pole dance and wear eyeliner strong enough to kill a man
What abusers believe.
If youâve ever had to deal with an abusive person in your life - like an abusive parent or partner - youâve probably wondered what made them treat you that way. If you understand why abuse is happening, the thinking goes, you might be able to figure out how to make it stop.Â
So why do abusers do what they do? Do they have anger issues? Drinking problems? Past trauma? Personality disorders? Do they just need to get in touch with their feelings and learn how to communicate better?
Nope.Â
Abusive behaviours come from abusive beliefs. Abusers - whether consciously or unconsciously - hold specific beliefs about relationships that drive their behaviour and allow them to justify the horrible things they do. Even if your abuser has never put their beliefs into words, youâll probably recognize a lot of these abusive beliefs:
You are responsible for my emotions. It is never my responsibility to reflect on my emotional reactions or learn better coping skills - itâs your responsibility to stop doing things that make me angry or upset.
I must act on my emotions. If I am angry, I am going to lash out. You have no right to criticize me for that, and itâs not my responsibility to learn to manage my  emotions - you have to stop making me lash out at you. Asking me not to act on my emotions is controlling and wrong.
You will always be responsible for my emotions. Even if the relationship ends, you will continue to be responsible for my emotions, and I will expect you to continue to prioritize my feelings.
If I have feelings about something, itâs my business. If something you do or think causes an emotional reaction in me, then I have a right to get involved or tell you what to do. My feelings must be the priority. You donât have the right to tell me that itâs none of my business.Â
You must judge me on my intentions, not my actions. If I didnât mean to hurt you or scare you, then you donât have the right to be hurt or scared. No one has the right to try to hold me accountable unless I meant to hurt someone.
I get to decide what your intentions were. If you hurt me, you meant to hurt me. If you make me jealous, you meant to make me jealous. Nothing you do is ever accidental or unintended - everything you do is intentional and malicious, even if it was a response to something I did.
My feelings are genuine; your feelings are manipulation. If Iâm upset, my feelings are real and important. If you are upset, you have an ulterior motive - youâre just trying to be manipulative and get attention or sympathy for yourself.
You have freedoms because I allow you to. Every freedom you have in your life - like wearing what you want - itâs because I generously allow it. I expect you to be grateful to me for that. I have the right to take those freedoms away whenever I want, and I expect you to obey.
If you set boundaries with me, you are mistreating me. If you really loved me, you wouldnât set boundaries with me. You are doing this to intentionally hurt me, which means I donât have to respect those boundaries.
You holding me accountable for hurting you is worse than me hurting you. My pain at being called out is worse than your pain at being mistreated. If I feel bad about something I did, I have already been punished enough. You trying to discuss the issue or hold me accountable is just your way of abusing me.
If I apologized for something, you have to forgive me. If the relationship has ended, you have to reconcile with me. You donât get to ask for more time apart or more discussion of the issue - once Iâve apologized, the matter is closed for good.
The relationship is not over until I say it is over. So long as I want a relationship with you, you must have a relationship with me. Your feelings are irrelevant. Even if we have broken up, you must remain available to me so we can get back together in the future. Not wanting a relationship with me means you are mistreating me or being immature.Â
I am the authority in this relationship. I am smarter and more perceptive than you. I know what is best for both of us. My version of events is always the correct one. I have superior judgement, taste and opinions. If you question me or disagree with me after Iâve given you the correct answer, you are disrespecting and mistreating me, or you are simply immature and incapable of knowing whatâs good for you.
I have the right to control you. It is my absolute right to decide what you do and who you associate with. You have no right to disobey me. I am owed obedience and control; if you donât give me those things, you are wronging me and cheating me out of the relationship I deserve.Â
If you resist my control, I am allowed to do whatever I think is necessary to get it back. Once youâve resisted me, I am justified in whatever I do to regain control of you. I am not responsible for my actions when you resist my control; you forced me to do it, and itâs your own fault.Â
I should be your main focus. Everything else in your life comes secondary to me. When you make decisions, my feelings should be your first consideration. You are expected to make sacrifices for me and put me at the center of your life; I am not obligated to do the same for you.Â
If I spend money on you or do something for you, you are in debt to me. You spending money on me or doing things for me does not erase your debt to me, and I am never in debt to you. You are indebted to me for as long as I decide. I may decide that your belongings and earnings also belong to me, since I allow you to have them. I may also decide at any time that you owe me for gifts I gave you, even if they were meant to be gifts.
I am not abusive, and you are not allowed to tell me otherwise. I know what abuse is, and real abusers are significantly worse than me. If our relationship has ever had any good times or positive moments, it canât possibly be abusive. If you accuse me of being abusive, you are the one abusing me, or you have been led astray by bad influences.Â
Relationships should be effortless (for me). I am owed a relationship that is peaceful and requires no real effort from me. It is your job to make sure we have that kind of relationship. If there is any tension or conflict in the relationship, it is your fault, and you are depriving me of the relationship I deserve to have.Â
Abusers and victims alike often buy into the narrative that abuse is rooted in anger issues - after all, abusers are frequently angry, and anger is an issue that can be treated. But this narrative just isnât true. Abusers arenât abusive because they are angry. Abusers are angry because they are abusive.Â
A non-abusive partner is not someone who has learned how to control their rage whenever you spend time with your friends or get home 15 minutes late from work. A non-abusive partner just doesnât feel any rage in those situations. An abuserâs rage is firmly rooted in their beliefs about relationships - they feel entitled to a relationship that meets their impossible expectations, and when they inevitably donât get it, they bubble over with fury. Whether they know it or not, they have firmly entrenched beliefs about how relationships should be, and those beliefs are at the heart of their abuse.Â
Can abusers stop believing these things? Maybe. If they can acknowledge that they have these beliefs, accept that these beliefs are dangerous and unreasonable and let go of these beliefs, maybe itâs possible for them to no longer be abusive in the future. Maybe. But itâs not your job to hang around and find out. If youâre in an abusive relationship of any kind, you deserve better. There are many people in this world who donât hold abusive views of relationships, and you deserve to find happiness with them.Â
deep down you know june is actually going to feel like this. put down the poem excerpts
[ID TEXT: A photograph collage of mostly gender non conforming women and a yellow font with black outline that reads "Lesbian: Female Homosexual" then a smaller text on the right which reads "That's it, nothing else. No rules, no certain behaviours, attitudes, hobbies or apperances" END ID]
also gender-non-conformity is cool and normal and doesn't require hormones or surgery or a pronoun or name change but I didn't really have room to put all that lol
great comments guys, thanks for the input.
âsince seeing an uptick in supposed lesbians express attraction to men, I just wanted to go out of my way to say happy pride to lesbians who are actually fully homosexual!â
âAND happy pride to the ones who arenât, and wanna fuck dudes âđ»âđ»âđ»đ„șđ„șđ„șđ„șâ
oh okay. youâre the reason the post exists, you are in the majority as a woman attracted to men, your biggest issue is not being seen as âqueer enoughâ because you never shut up about whatever male celebrity you wanna fuck, we donât need your opinions during pride month. youâre basically being subtweeted in the post, no need to make yourself known in the comments too
tired of roleplaying as a normal girl and tolerating everyone
Not only am I wlw
I'm also whw
Masc brina save me
She looks like ass
Full face of fluorescent reflecting makeup+a fit that's meant for dimly lit bars is like trying to mix oil and water.
Fuck you sabrina