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16 || radfem || lesbian || separatist

[venusgrl]

Intro post!! ^w^

hii i’m salem!! :3

i’m a lesbian radfem separatist

anti porn, anti religion, anti beauty, gender critical

proud detransitioner :3

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list of stuff i enjoy:

reading, making zines, noise and punk music, hyper obsessing over bands with less than 100 listeners and only one album, gardening, and painting

fav movies

i won’t only talk about radical feminism on this account, i’ll also post about the punk scene, movies, and gardening!! ^w^ that being said, i’ll talk a lot about being detrans and a fucking dyke LMFAOO

maybe one day i’ll tell the story of how tras almost got me addicted to ketamine 💀

[venusgrl]

tras are back at it again with proving that they’re just mras in a different font. their collective response to defend neil gaiman, accuse the victims of lying because they’re “evil terfs”, cry about how their favorite show is ruined, and their complete lack of empathy toward the victims really shows where their priorities are. i’ve seen tras say that they “support all victims” but turn around spew so much rape apologist rhetoric for the past few days. they’re always willing to bend over backwards for men instead of showing actual compassion and respect toward women.

[honeyriot]

Cis women are doing this too. You just have a hair trigger to find anything to shout "the TRAs are ruining everything!" When chances are that you support and defend literal fascists.

[venusgrl]

you’re literally misinterpreting my point (but what else can you expect from a obvious “radfem” larp account 💀) i never said that females aren’t also defending neil gaiman, that’s because i wasn’t talking about them. the point of my post was to point out that tras had such a visceral response to the allegations and either denied or excused them because the people who got the allegations out were “terfs” this isn’t a one time thing either, tras almost always resort to calling someone a “terf” to silence any critical thinking. obviously i’m not denying that women have also been defending neil, but again my original post wasn’t talking about them. it’s not having a hair trigger when you notice a pattern.

(also i literally saw you deny my negative experiences with tras in my intro post and calling me a fascist, that tells me all i need to know about you as a person. stop larping as a radfem LMFAOO)

[catalogueoftunglrimages]

[venusgrl]

here’s a list of some of my favorite female lead punk + rock bands!! :3 (nobody asked for this LMFAOO)

- bikini kill

- pinkshift

- big joanie

- skinny girl diet

- excuse 17

- daisy chainsaw

- x ray spex

- emily’s sassy lime

- the slits

- angelfish

- bratmobile

- veruca salt

- instant girl

- spitboy

- babes in toyland

- the gits

- heavens to betsy

- skinned teen

- slant 6

- red aunts

- 7 year bitch

- partyline

[venusgrl]

I like your account and your profile, Lain is awesome

thanks!! :DD

[venusgrl]

tras are back at it again with proving that they’re just mras in a different font. their collective response to defend neil gaiman, accuse the victims of lying because they’re “evil terfs”, cry about how their favorite show is ruined, and their complete lack of empathy toward the victims really shows where their priorities are. i’ve seen tras say that they “support all victims” but turn around spew so much rape apologist rhetoric for the past few days. they’re always willing to bend over backwards for men instead of showing actual compassion and respect toward women.

[venusgrl]

i’m just saying there’s a reason why we don’t see tif’s post about “gay breaking” and why we don’t see them post about wanting to rape and violate gay men or people who don’t agree with their ideology in general. there’s a reason why they don’t claim that gay men all secretly like vaginas.

[she-is-ovarit]

It doesn't matter how many oppressor groups she belongs to. It does not matter how privileged she is on the axis of class, race, nationality, ability, etc. It doesn't matter what her politics are or how much of a horrible human being she is.

She still doesn't deserve rape. Rape is still not an act of liberation, justice, or self-defense. If you think any woman deserves rape, you are a rape apologist. If you think there are any exceptions to sexual violence towards any individual or group of female human beings, there's a disturbance with your core sense of morality and you are not safe to be around.

[venusgrl]

radfem: hey so just as a reminder guys, feminism isn’t about individual choice it’s about women’s liberation. feminism should only focus on issues that women face so we should stop censoring ourselves to make men comfortable and stop pretending that our choices exist in a vacuum and aren’t influenced by patriarchy

some random: ermmm…. this is kinda terfy!! why are you attacking women for liking feminine things?? ur literally a pick me :///

[terfsaregroomers]

Your blog honestly disgusts me.

I've been legitimately groomed. My nudes sell online for hundreds of dollars, and they're 'leaked' on twitter quite often. I can't view anything sexual without having flashbacks. There was a good chance I could have gotten pregnant. At age 12. Just because I was groomed. But I'm sure you don't mind, because you probably get off to that, and the other fake stories you get sent on anon.

Older women discussing feminist theory with younger women is not grooming. You're making a mockery of the idea of grooming.

Radfem and even "TERFs posting Ls" blogs show all sorts of behaviour. Why can't you do this? Why are you so determined to show examples of grooming specificially? It seems like a poorly disguised fetish.

Do you know what does qualify as grooming? When I was told, because I hated my body as a 13 year old rape victim, that I was transgender. I was taught how to buy 'binders' that constrict my chest when I have a disorder that makes it very hard to breathe when even wearing a normal bra. I even knew how to get HRT from the normal web.

Radical feminism is what saved me. I have no friends in the radfem community. No one groomed me. I read theory myself.

your willingness to lie just to hurt transsexual children is repulsive. youre a broken individual.

if you can be brainwashed to the point of lying about shit this serious JUST to kill a couple more transgender people you were never a decent person. you know that and thats why you groom kids. theyre the only ones who cant see you for what you are.

[venusgrl]

you know calling a grooming victim a “broken individual” and saying that they’re the ones grooming other children when all they did was talk about their trauma to tell you why you’re making a mockery of actual grooming isn’t very “inclusive and accepting” of you. hope this helps!!

[edonee]

Things typically made for women (ex. high heels, bikinis, mini skirts) are designed to be impractical and humiliating btw. I don't think most people realize how demeaning they look, because we are so used to seeing them on women. We are so used to seeing women in the tiny micro thongs at the beach, having to be careful not to move around too much so that they don't accidentally flash everyone. All while men get to wear the comfortable, covering shorts, that allow them to move as much as they want, climb up rocks, and run without having to double-check whether their fucking balls are hanging out. The comparison looks ridiculous. Just another example of women having to perform in every aspect of their life, even when doing activities as innocent as swimming.

[sakflebzo]

Ok this one is for real just being jealous. Some women ENJOY wearing those for THEMSELVES. If you don't want to no one gives a fuck but stop hating girl

[cordycepsfem]

Why would women enjoy wearing things that are uncomfortable? Do you deny that there are any social pressures on women to wear certain things? Why do you think men don’t want to wear bikinis or heels for themselves? Surely if these are garments worth wearing for women, some men might also find them personally empowering, right?

Also I have never been nor will I ever be jealous of someone wobbling around on chopstick-heeled shoes trying not to let their underwear show in a miniskirt or unable to enjoy a swim at the beach because their suit is a series of strings and small flaps of cloth not made for activity. None of those situations are appealing.

[sakflebzo]

Who's forcing anyone to do any of those things lmaooo

[cordycepsfem]

Did I say anyone was being forced lmaoooo

Get some reading comprehension lollllll

[sakflebzo]

Ok then why would women wear them if they're so uncomfortable

[venusgrl]

dude you can’t just call every feminist argument that you don’t like “pick me behavior” lmao. choice/liberal feminism brain rot is real

[sakflebzo]

"choice/liberal feminism"???? Telling women they can be who they are and do what.they want us brain rot LMAOOOO

[venusgrl]

damn that’s crazy. anyways what do you guys think of my cd collection :33

[sakflebzo]

Oh you're 16 that's why you're an idiot

[venusgrl]

i’m not the person who keeps saying shit without knowing that what they actually mean. anyways i hope you fuck with radiohead

(you’re getting this blurry ass picture because i don’t respect you as a human being LMFAOO)

[venusgrl]

words fail to describe the second hand embarrassment i feel in my body when i see a feminist criticize something like sex work, makeup, cosmetic surgery, etc and someone comes up and says “isn’t feminism supposed to be about women’s choices :((” or something adjacent to that, and then we have to remind everyone that no, feminism is about FEMALE LIBERATION and not what makes YOU feel comfortable as an individual. with the rise of liberal feminism we’ve forgotten that feminism is a political movement and it’s not meant to be fun. it’s supposed to question and tear apart what’s seen as the status quo for women. if you can’t handle even the smallest criticism of things that you as a woman enjoy and take part in then feminism simply isn’t for you

[sakflebzo]

Why you hating on women wtf

[sakflebzo]

This just screams "I'm jealous" about women who are conventional attractive/like dressing up/mothers. Stay mad

[venusgrl]

ah yes! the classic “if i disagree with a woman she just be some ugly bitch who’s jealous of conventionally attractive and feminine women!!” do you people ever get tired?? genuine question.

[sakflebzo]

If you hate on women who wear stuff they like youre a pickme to radfems not men

[venusgrl]

if seeing a feminist criticize something like the beauty industry or just saying that they personally don’t engage with femininity is jealousy or “pick me behavior” reeks of insecurity. i never once said that women who wear makeup are inferior to women who are gnc. however what i DID say was that feminism isn’t something that’s meant to make someone feel good or happy, political movements aren’t meant to make people feel good all the time. i said it once and i’ll say it again: if you can’t handle the smallest criticism of something you enjoy, then feminism is most likely not for you. PLEASE learn critical thinking.

[sakflebzo]

"if you can’t handle the smallest criticism of something you enjoy, then feminism is most likely not for you. PLEASE learn critical thinking." Why are you just attacking women? How does that help any cause

[venusgrl]

telling you to read and use your brain isn’t attacking you lmao

[sakflebzo]

Ok please explain to me what you were saying about women wearing heals/makeup/cute clothes

[venusgrl]

literally nothing lmfaoo. all i did was tell people that feminism isn’t about choice, it’s about WOMEN’S LIBERATION FROM PATRIARCHY. please stop malding and look at my vinyls ^w^

[sakflebzo]

You know nothing about the feminist movement. Please stay in school

[venusgrl]

damn if you don’t fuck with bikini kill you should’ve said something. here’s my smashing pumpkins record

[venusgrl]

words fail to describe the second hand embarrassment i feel in my body when i see a feminist criticize something like sex work, makeup, cosmetic surgery, etc and someone comes up and says “isn’t feminism supposed to be about women’s choices :((” or something adjacent to that, and then we have to remind everyone that no, feminism is about FEMALE LIBERATION and not what makes YOU feel comfortable as an individual. with the rise of liberal feminism we’ve forgotten that feminism is a political movement and it’s not meant to be fun. it’s supposed to question and tear apart what’s seen as the status quo for women. if you can’t handle even the smallest criticism of things that you as a woman enjoy and take part in then feminism simply isn’t for you

[sakflebzo]

Why you hating on women wtf

[sakflebzo]

This just screams "I'm jealous" about women who are conventional attractive/like dressing up/mothers. Stay mad

[venusgrl]

ah yes! the classic “if i disagree with a woman she just be some ugly bitch who’s jealous of conventionally attractive and feminine women!!” do you people ever get tired?? genuine question.

[sakflebzo]

If you hate on women who wear stuff they like youre a pickme to radfems not men

[venusgrl]

if seeing a feminist criticize something like the beauty industry or just saying that they personally don’t engage with femininity is jealousy or “pick me behavior” reeks of insecurity. i never once said that women who wear makeup are inferior to women who are gnc. however what i DID say was that feminism isn’t something that’s meant to make someone feel good or happy, political movements aren’t meant to make people feel good all the time. i said it once and i’ll say it again: if you can’t handle the smallest criticism of something you enjoy, then feminism is most likely not for you. PLEASE learn critical thinking.

[sakflebzo]

"if you can’t handle the smallest criticism of something you enjoy, then feminism is most likely not for you. PLEASE learn critical thinking." Why are you just attacking women? How does that help any cause

[venusgrl]

telling you to read and use your brain isn’t attacking you lmao

[sakflebzo]

Ok please explain to me what you were saying about women wearing heals/makeup/cute clothes

[venusgrl]

literally nothing lmfaoo. all i did was tell people that feminism isn’t about choice, it’s about WOMEN’S LIBERATION FROM PATRIARCHY. please stop malding and look at my vinyls ^w^

[edonee]

Things typically made for women (ex. high heels, bikinis, mini skirts) are designed to be impractical and humiliating btw. I don't think most people realize how demeaning they look, because we are so used to seeing them on women. We are so used to seeing women in the tiny micro thongs at the beach, having to be careful not to move around too much so that they don't accidentally flash everyone. All while men get to wear the comfortable, covering shorts, that allow them to move as much as they want, climb up rocks, and run without having to double-check whether their fucking balls are hanging out. The comparison looks ridiculous. Just another example of women having to perform in every aspect of their life, even when doing activities as innocent as swimming.

[sakflebzo]

Ok this one is for real just being jealous. Some women ENJOY wearing those for THEMSELVES. If you don't want to no one gives a fuck but stop hating girl

[cordycepsfem]

Why would women enjoy wearing things that are uncomfortable? Do you deny that there are any social pressures on women to wear certain things? Why do you think men don’t want to wear bikinis or heels for themselves? Surely if these are garments worth wearing for women, some men might also find them personally empowering, right?

Also I have never been nor will I ever be jealous of someone wobbling around on chopstick-heeled shoes trying not to let their underwear show in a miniskirt or unable to enjoy a swim at the beach because their suit is a series of strings and small flaps of cloth not made for activity. None of those situations are appealing.

[sakflebzo]

Who's forcing anyone to do any of those things lmaooo

[cordycepsfem]

Did I say anyone was being forced lmaoooo

Get some reading comprehension lollllll

[sakflebzo]

Ok then why would women wear them if they're so uncomfortable

[venusgrl]

dude you can’t just call every feminist argument that you don’t like “pick me behavior” lmao. choice/liberal feminism brain rot is real

[sakflebzo]

"choice/liberal feminism"???? Telling women they can be who they are and do what.they want us brain rot LMAOOOO

[venusgrl]

damn that’s crazy. anyways what do you guys think of my cd collection :33

[venusgrl]

words fail to describe the second hand embarrassment i feel in my body when i see a feminist criticize something like sex work, makeup, cosmetic surgery, etc and someone comes up and says “isn’t feminism supposed to be about women’s choices :((” or something adjacent to that, and then we have to remind everyone that no, feminism is about FEMALE LIBERATION and not what makes YOU feel comfortable as an individual. with the rise of liberal feminism we’ve forgotten that feminism is a political movement and it’s not meant to be fun. it’s supposed to question and tear apart what’s seen as the status quo for women. if you can’t handle even the smallest criticism of things that you as a woman enjoy and take part in then feminism simply isn’t for you

[sakflebzo]

Why you hating on women wtf

[sakflebzo]

This just screams "I'm jealous" about women who are conventional attractive/like dressing up/mothers. Stay mad

[venusgrl]

ah yes! the classic “if i disagree with a woman she just be some ugly bitch who’s jealous of conventionally attractive and feminine women!!” do you people ever get tired?? genuine question.

[sakflebzo]

If you hate on women who wear stuff they like youre a pickme to radfems not men

[venusgrl]

if seeing a feminist criticize something like the beauty industry or just saying that they personally don’t engage with femininity is jealousy or “pick me behavior” reeks of insecurity. i never once said that women who wear makeup are inferior to women who are gnc. however what i DID say was that feminism isn’t something that’s meant to make someone feel good or happy, political movements aren’t meant to make people feel good all the time. i said it once and i’ll say it again: if you can’t handle the smallest criticism of something you enjoy, then feminism is most likely not for you. PLEASE learn critical thinking.

[sakflebzo]

"if you can’t handle the smallest criticism of something you enjoy, then feminism is most likely not for you. PLEASE learn critical thinking." Why are you just attacking women? How does that help any cause

[venusgrl]

telling you to read and use your brain isn’t attacking you lmao

[edonee]

Things typically made for women (ex. high heels, bikinis, mini skirts) are designed to be impractical and humiliating btw. I don't think most people realize how demeaning they look, because we are so used to seeing them on women. We are so used to seeing women in the tiny micro thongs at the beach, having to be careful not to move around too much so that they don't accidentally flash everyone. All while men get to wear the comfortable, covering shorts, that allow them to move as much as they want, climb up rocks, and run without having to double-check whether their fucking balls are hanging out. The comparison looks ridiculous. Just another example of women having to perform in every aspect of their life, even when doing activities as innocent as swimming.

[sakflebzo]

Ok this one is for real just being jealous. Some women ENJOY wearing those for THEMSELVES. If you don't want to no one gives a fuck but stop hating girl

[cordycepsfem]

Why would women enjoy wearing things that are uncomfortable? Do you deny that there are any social pressures on women to wear certain things? Why do you think men don’t want to wear bikinis or heels for themselves? Surely if these are garments worth wearing for women, some men might also find them personally empowering, right?

Also I have never been nor will I ever be jealous of someone wobbling around on chopstick-heeled shoes trying not to let their underwear show in a miniskirt or unable to enjoy a swim at the beach because their suit is a series of strings and small flaps of cloth not made for activity. None of those situations are appealing.

[sakflebzo]

Who's forcing anyone to do any of those things lmaooo

[cordycepsfem]

Did I say anyone was being forced lmaoooo

Get some reading comprehension lollllll

[sakflebzo]

Ok then why would women wear them if they're so uncomfortable

[venusgrl]

dude you can’t just call every feminist argument that you don’t like “pick me behavior” lmao. choice/liberal feminism brain rot is real

[venusgrl]

words fail to describe the second hand embarrassment i feel in my body when i see a feminist criticize something like sex work, makeup, cosmetic surgery, etc and someone comes up and says “isn’t feminism supposed to be about women’s choices :((” or something adjacent to that, and then we have to remind everyone that no, feminism is about FEMALE LIBERATION and not what makes YOU feel comfortable as an individual. with the rise of liberal feminism we’ve forgotten that feminism is a political movement and it’s not meant to be fun. it’s supposed to question and tear apart what’s seen as the status quo for women. if you can’t handle even the smallest criticism of things that you as a woman enjoy and take part in then feminism simply isn’t for you

[sakflebzo]

Why you hating on women wtf

[sakflebzo]

This just screams "I'm jealous" about women who are conventional attractive/like dressing up/mothers. Stay mad

[venusgrl]

ah yes! the classic “if i disagree with a woman she just be some ugly bitch who’s jealous of conventionally attractive and feminine women!!” do you people ever get tired?? genuine question.

[sakflebzo]

If you hate on women who wear stuff they like youre a pickme to radfems not men

[venusgrl]

if seeing a feminist criticize something like the beauty industry or just saying that they personally don’t engage with femininity is jealousy or “pick me behavior” reeks of insecurity. i never once said that women who wear makeup are inferior to women who are gnc. however what i DID say was that feminism isn’t something that’s meant to make someone feel good or happy, political movements aren’t meant to make people feel good all the time. i said it once and i’ll say it again: if you can’t handle the smallest criticism of something you enjoy, then feminism is most likely not for you. PLEASE learn critical thinking.