Save this to your phones or computer and post it on other websites like twitter too!
Why would you NOT reblog this?
I’d like to add that, “I don’t know,” means no. Even if she/he ‘secretly wants it’, it’s best to assume she/he secretly DOESN’T want it. This isn’t the kind of situation where it’s ever a good thing to assume your partner means anything other than no.
“It hurts,” is also another way of saying no.
“I’m not in the mood,” means no.
“I’m still sore from last time,” means no.
“Not right now,” means no. Don’t pressure you’re partner about when’s a good time. Your partner will tell you.
Your partner has the right to say no at any given time. It is never okay to ignore your partner when he/she says no.
It doesn’t matter if your partner is a virgin or not.
It doesn’t matter if your partner has had sex with you before or not.
It doesn’t matter if you’ve already initiated foreplay or not.
It doesn’t matter if they “said yes at first.”
It doesn’t matter if they “got you horny.”
It doesn’t matter what they’re wearing.
It doesn’t matter how much they love you.
It is never okay to force sex on your partner.
Sex is a very big thing in a relationship. It is an act of love, trust, and passion. Depending on how it is initiated, and the circumstance, it can make or break your relationship.
