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[ilookextremelygood-deactivated2]

just a heads up, if i ever weird you out on any level, too friendly, too flirty, anything at all, i encourage you to be very vocal towards me about it to make sure i dont continue to make you uncomfortable. i dont want anyone feeling like im not someone they can trust and be comfortable around.

[awfullydull-deactivated20170619]

Normalize vocalizing discomfort.

Last weekend, a guy that at that point I’d known for about 24 hours called me “darling“. I could tell he didn’t mean anything by it, but I (politely) asked that he not do that because I don’t like it. He looked surprised and got a little defensive - “oh, I call all my friends that!“ “Okay, well I’d still rather you didn’t“ “oh well harumph harumph sorry”

whereas the exchange should have gone

“blah blah blah, darling“

“oh please don’t call me that, I don’t care for that“

“oh I’m sorry, I won’t do that“ CONTINUE CONVERSATION

Normalize vocalizing discomfort.

[pathosohso]

Yep yep yep. I’ve literally had people give me weird looks because I correct them when they try to shorten my name. My own family members don’t call me by any nickname.

[notthe-latte-hottay]

I use pet names constantly. If you don’t like it, Please Please tell me!

[izzycle]

Please! I’m a friendly person and use lovely, poppet, darling, etc frequently and I never want to make people uncomfortable!

[marshmallowmischief]

if i make you uncomfortable, for pete’s sake tell me!!

so many of my followers are minors, and i use pet names such as “kiddo, sweetheart, sweet pea, darling, honey, etc” all the time

it is my responsibility to make you feel welcome and safe on my blog, and if anything i do comes off as making you uncomf, then  t e l l  m e

[incel-moved-deactivated20210803]

[n0identity]

[communistbussy]

[thotticusmaxximus]

true allies 

[santijpg-gone-deactivated202303]

Reblog if you are in one of these fandoms

-mcdonalds

-charge my phone

-twerk

-eat hot chip and lie

[ruinedchildhood]

The Totally Spies live action movie looks great

[feministism]

[pasha-hasid]

[toastbutteregg]

[leagueoflesbianism-deactivated2]

Help support an autistic trans woman and her cats

I’m between jobs, constantly looking for work, and beginning to run out of my rainy day savings.

I don’t like having to do this, but my cats are at stake as well as me. If you are able to help please reblog, and/or donate here

Thank you

[thebootydiaries]

me: I'm going to bed early tonight.

me:

me: is that the sun

[emmhauer]

[walkin-in-the-cosmos]

floating loafs on several degrees of squish

[memescomedy]

[perspectiv8]

matching icons for u and ur crew

[agoldthatactuallystays]

I don’t know what you’re claiming or manifesting this spring but here’s a sage dance for your worries. ✨✨✨✨✨✨✨✨

[kaliniijii]

I don’t understand people like her.

Like why???? Do you even understand what sage is used for??? It’s definitely not a solution to your “worries”

So fucking offensive. Bunch of ignrorants that reblog this talking about how fine she is, that has nothing to do with sage.

I wonder how many cultures actually uses sage and understood what it’s for??? Otherwise that shit don’t belong to you.

Smh

[lady-of-flowers]

Nah ah be quiet. Sage has been used by black slaves and their descendants since they came over to America. Slaves used herbs, roots, sticks, stones, bones, etc., in their practices and those practices exists within the African diaspora today. This girl is more than likely, a black spiritualist or a practitioners of hoodoo, palo santo, Santeria, voodoo, etc.

Like, this girl isn’t smudging, she is cleansing. Cleansing with sage with the use of music is important in a lot of African diasporic religions and practices. But you don’t know anything about that because society has quite literally damned black practices to the point that y’all only think shit like voodoo dolls exist.

Black practitioners of diaposirc religions use and cultivate white sage because when they were stolen from their homes and taken to America, sage is some of the only stuff they had. So before you go assuming that she’s offensive and letting your antiblackness show by calling us ignorants,  learn to educate yourself on African practices. I’m so tired of black women  being called racist, and being attacked by non-black people for using practices that our important to us. She may not understand sage the way you do, but why should she?? She’s not native American. She’s black and is using it as black people do.

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[a-cosmic-raccoon-deactivated202]

Oh god, imagine being the person who created that page.

[somewhereinthedetails217]

She promised an ex who had belittled her dreams that one day he wouldn’t be able to order a coffee with out hearing one of her songs. She deserves all the good she’s worked for.

[filipfatalattractionrblog]

I suddenly have much more respect for lady Gaga than I had before.

[imalreadydashingthroughtheno]

[intensional]

On GOD we gon get you some will to live bro