Always Wanting Headpats
About Me
Updated June 2026
This is super long I know! You can come back to it you don't have to read it all at once, but if you're wanting to get deeper connected with me I do recommend it. And there might be a little treat if you make it through x3
Formerly vixwantslicks I changed my username to vixwantspets cause I realized I love headpats and petting even more!! ฅ^>⩊<^ ฅ
Nicknames: Vixey, Vix, or Vixen
Favorite petnames: Sweetheart, darling, good girl, foxy, sweet girl
Age: I am in my 30s, my preferred age range to interact is 20s-40s
LGBTQIA friendly. I am asexual sapiosexual and bisexual. I am a cis woman and gender non-conforming would describe me but I don't use it as an identity. I believe that the default state of a woman is no shaving required. That's her choice what to do with her hair, not society's. If you think women need to shave their armpits, legs, or pubes to be attractive, then you need to examine why you don't find women attractive the way they already come.
My tag #girls with their natural fur is for my appreciation of those who do.
Boundaries: This is an 18+ blog, adults only. This is also a side blog so I can't follow from this account. Likes and follows will be from my main blog w*****************y so if you want to be mutuals you can follow me back there. I also prefer to keep DMs to this blog and not my main. I don't really hide my interactions from main I do freely follow and like so it's more like an open secret. Sideblog followers can know my main but I would rather not my main followers to automatically know about my sideblog, you know?
But I will interact in post comments and reblogs! DMs are also okay but I may not respond. Think of it as leaving me a nice note ^^
I am a naturally kind person and I don't judge, I'm really chill to hang out with. Be respectful and courteous and you will get the same energy back from me. I have a lot of love to give friends <3
There is no DNI for my blog only WNI (Will not Interact-I got this term from here): I will not interact with you if you are sexist, crude, disrespectful. if you are transphobic, biphobic, acephobic. if you are treating blogs as porn and not people. if the majority of your blog is reblogged porn clips that are stolen content spam accounts. if you are only interested in visuals and not text. if you are impatient. if you're trying to collect a harem playing a numbers game of messaging every cutie who will listen. guess what we do talk to each other and share notes!
I am a cis woman but I will block "men dni" blogs, see here.
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Note: I do post some cnc content it will be tagged 'cnc tag' so if you already have cnc in your blocklist filter it should hide it.
Squicks: My biggest turnoff is daddy dom stuff so please do not ask me to call you daddy or refer to yourself as daddy to me. If you are however open to substituting daddy for another term that still works for you, I can probably handle it. There are some aspects of the daddy dom that do appeal to me but just not the daddy part of it. Also I don't have any problem with daddy dom blogs! My filter might just hide a lot of your dad/daddy type posts for me XD
My Kinks and Likes:
#1 Praise
#2 Petplay: ears, tail, collar, cute behavior, headpats, nuzzling. No humiliation type stuff nor master/owner role language. Would prefer the other person's role more akin to tamer or guardian/protector.
#3 Soft CNC with praise and forced orgasms
#4 Cunnilingus
Body worship
Being cooked for or just any way of providing the meals and I will be so happy. I find it very attractive when people can cook. I don't wanna see your dick but I could be interested in seeing your dish!
Breeding (no pregante)
Dubcon "just the tip"
Condescension (praiseful degradation), faux sympathy
Throat training and gentle verrry gentle deepthroating. These are hot to me in my head, likely wouldn't actually be able to do in reality though.
discovering more as I go! :3
Hard No's List:
Daddy kink/DDLG
Mommy kink
Age play
Race play
Full degradation
Owner or master
Pain
Blood
Knife play
Gun play
Violence
Watersports/scat
Face slapping
Spanking
Pregnancy
Choking
No doing things outside I may be dirty but I don't want to get dirty lol
I Have Some Asexual Limitations:
In addition to the above list of my hard no's and dislikes, I am asexual with certain stuff icks me and/or avoid for sensory reasons.
No handjobs or blowjobs really in general :/ most you might get out of me is a limited light stroke or kiss as a show of affection (I don't mind HJs and BJs in fiction though. Idk it makes sense to me might not make sense to anyone else lol). Also I am open to using toys to substitute if you don't mind me getting you off with that kind of indirect touch.
No fingering (giving) or cunnil (giving) - as with the above I am open to using toys to interact with you there without my mouth or hands
Kissing directly after going down on me - I am okay if you reach my lips after kissing some other skin along the way first
French kissing - I always think it looks/sounds appealing but in practice it just does...nothing for me, I don't enjoy it. My ONE exception is if either of us were drinking something yummy like a cocktail or my fav wine, then kissing with tongue for me isn't so bad. It may have to do something with needing something that distracts from the texture/sensation?
I do not want to receive explicit photos or videos and will not send any. Written smut, h-manga, h-anime, eroge, etc okay and enjoyed
Tag Directory:
praise klnk: that's a lowercase L I use instead of the letter i in the word.kink, tumblr is weird about using adult words in searchable tags-see my post here
.petplay: for petplay posts, usually of the canine variety. yes the period is necessary due to the aforementioned tag censoring BOOO woof
collar: any posts about or featuring a collar, and I do tend to tag most collaring as petplay too just because it is as both for my headspace. but I know you can collar without being a pet. and I like collars for the doms as well no one is immune to collaring!! get collared idiot
cunnil klnk: cunnilingus posts. get pussydrunk
deep throating: mostly gentle/praise based getting your throat lovingly filled stuff. a few harder posts are in there but are marked as such. deepthroating is out of bounds fantasy for me realistically I would probably NOT kiss the cock but I can sometimes enjoy the fantasy!
cooking klnk: yeah I WILL kiss the chef
body worship
breeding klnk: posts or images about being bred and filled with cum but without pregnancy being any consequence or at least not mentioned or addressed. my motto is only breeding no pregante!
breeding pet: posts that make me feel especially like a pet getting filled
mating press: posts about the position. I also have a tag for prone bone. meanwhile I looove missionary but I don't really tag for it
hand holding <3: we got hand holding posts though!
intimacy: also this
aftercare is my klnk: aftercare is required not optional. yes for all participants. yes for online sexting too. discussion posts about it as well as scenarios enjoying it
cnc + praise = melt: for cnc with praise kink that combo reeeally hits my buttons
cnc tag: for the more general variety of cnc type posts
cnc talk tag: a separate tag for the more discussion type posts so I don't scroll around those while I'm trying to jerk off to the scenario ones XD
.forced breeding: for the 'no don't cum in me' type posts, basically cnc breeding or consensual turned dubcon/noncon about not pulling out
dubcon tag: you didn't think you wanted to go all the way but you got it anyway. 'just the tip' and coercion play.
.squirting: your thirst quenching posts. the me juice. get drenched
manga: posts with manga images, often h-manga. I don't really tag differentiate between the hentai ones and sfw because it got confusing to search as well as not knowing if it's a sfw scene from a nsfw manga ya know don't want to label it wrong so I just gave up trying lol. so you will get romance or sad scenes and also full on boobs and bush in this tag.
girls with their natural fur: the bush. the legs. the armpits. you love it. and if you don't, get well soon<3
vix.jpg: my pics tag, pictures of me or that remind me of me
vix.txt: my text posts horny or personal posts
vix.life: stuff irl kinda
vix.vent: venting tag, my sad lonely angy stuffs
.sexual asexual: posts about or that I relate to as someone who is on the asexual spectrum but also enjoys sex. or about being horny in an ace kinda way.
pillow princess: posts in discussion of or about enjoying receiving touches and pleasures with no expectations of return. the receiving IS the giving.
silly: the silly. get sillyposted
sillyposting: for the silly posts I wrote myself or added to. I'm hilarious
fav: the ones I keep coming back to. oh are these the one that are her go-tos for getting off? no lol it's mostly the meme posts that get stuck in my head that get this tag. and yeah some of the horny too.
lemon: fanfic smut. mostly I keep fandom stuff to my main blog but a few I'll put over here too if I really liked or think this blog's audience would like too.
vixey writes: my original smut. my fav is this cunnil one I want to be the dessert
hornyposting: less story and more just fun or random thoughts of this pervert brain
helpful
psa
bdsmresources: info posts and guides about bdsm topics. my favorite blog for more of these are awellreadkitten
FAQ
You like having sex but you are asexual that doesn't make sense?: Asexuality is actually a big spectrum and can include having and enjoying sex! At its core, asexuality specifically has to do with a lack of sexual *attraction* to people's flesh and bodies or interest in sexual contact with them. Attraction, desire, and libido are totally different things even if they may all line up for a lot of people. For me, I don't see a good looking stranger and think I want to jump their bones. My mouth doesn't water when someone removes their underwear. I can still have other types of attraction like romantic, sensual, aesthetic. I can still be horny and get aroused, those are totally separate things from sexual attraction. I do enjoy receiving pleasure and orgasms!
I wrote a bit more about my asexuality journey you can read about in this post.
Dom/Sub/Switch?: I'm purely a sub even if I have some switchy moments especially in flirting or teasing but not in action. I will always revert right back to being subby. I want to be praised and rewarded as a good girl.
Pillow Princess:
This is also due to my asexuality, as I am turned off by what is between anyone's legs (all genders) and will not really want to have my hands or mouth there. It is not a prudeness thing (it took a long time for me to understand it and I did get called prude by people who couldn't get what they "wanted" out of me.) I have no issue with everyone having the parts they have or our parts touching each other or your hands/mouth touching mine. I welcome that even! Just gotta be able to work around the way that I'm more limited. My way of giving is receiving <3
I would love to find a stone top, service top, or pleasure dom. I think that kind of person would be the ideal match for someone like me. :)
And here's a treat if you made it this far!
What I look like undressed: Basically this ;)




















