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Updated June 2026

#about #my boundaries #faq #my klnks #my squicks #nsft blog #.sexual asexual #vixwantslicks #vixwantspets

They didn't just nuke her. They turbo-nuked her, my friend. Usually reblogs of nuked accounts are still retained. But they wiped all trace of her. Even in my blog backup files, there's now posts of mine missing. Reblogs I made of her. Her funny text post that brought me back into blogging again. Gone.

My original blog backup was run a week ago, when her account was still there. My latest blog backup I ran today. I was able to compare the files between each. And they really did take stuff out.

I had only planned on keeping one backup file at a time and just replacing it with the newest version when I back it up again. But now, I'll keep the oldest one and just replace the second one each time.

In one version, my friend still exists.

In our current version, she was never here.

#:c #ohummhi #ohummbye ;_;#vix.txt

demon-redd

#great reaction image #manga

alliekills

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until i

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#blog stuff

whatdoesthevixensay

There's no import function as far as I can tell, just the export. A one way backup just to save what you've had. If you need to start over on a new blog, you have this as reference. You can copy paste your old bio and posts you've written before. But that's about it. Mainly it's just to save a capture of everything you had.

And if you save a list of your followers (I'm just copy pasting mine into a text file), you'll have those usernames to find and follow again.

#blog stuff

whatdoesthevixensay

Have you ever backed up your blog before?

Preparing the file from the settings took an hour for my side blog and for my main blog it took TWO DAYS LOL

No followers/following lists, you gotta write those down yourself. It only backs up your posts and your DMs.

BUT it also captures all your asks. I have 40 asks showing on the notifier for my blog and I can only see 6 of them when I click. But now I can open my file and read the rest!! All the asks that tumblr ate and hid. Usually it's because a blog deleted, got terminated, or blocked you/by you since sending the ask so it becomes invisible.

ALSO

It has ever convo you've ever had with a blog that got nuked. Convo disappeared from your DMs? Hidden, it still actually existed on tumblrs side the whole time.

I'm going to enjoy reading back. My own personal archives.

whatdoesthevixensay

Here's the how-to for backing up your blog. Again, your followers/following list is not included, you need to write that down yourself.

Desktop only. Go to your blog, if you have sideblogs this has to be done separately on each one at a time. Blog settings, get to blog settings either from your blog control sidebar to settings or from the main settings and then click on blog.

Once you're in your blog's individual settings, scroll all the way down and you'll see the export button.

I already have backed up so it gives me two buttons now but if it's your first time you'll only have the export button, click that and it'll start the process of preparing your backup file.

You can come back to your settings later and tumblr system will also email you when it's ready. That's when you'll see the download backup button.

This will start downloading a zip file. Big blog will be big file.

Once your zip is downloaded (I've already renamed mine here) you extract it.

Inside the unzipped folder will be 2 folders, 3 if you have had any DMs.

Media, Posts, and Conversations. The latter 2 will be further zip files, extract those.

Now you'll have these.

Conversations is every DM in a basic html file for each, even blogs that were nuked your old convos with them are still in here. DMs are text only. Any images or gifs sent or received in DMs are part of the mixed bag folder of Media. It's not organized in that regard with the images being saved inside the convo or post but instead just loose folder of all images that crossed your blog in some way ever. Pictures you sent anyone. Pictures anyone sent you. Pictures you posted. Pictures in posts you reblogged. All of it in one folder. But every file is basically in chronological order at least.

Under posts -> html -> submissions is where your backed up asks are. Even all the invisible and hidden asks are here.

And that's my guide for tumblr blog backups. Make sure you have a lot of space on your computer if you have a big blog.

At least I only need to have one backup copy saved at a time, so even when I backup again I'll just delete the older one.

#blog stuff #backup #psa

It's the parasocial attackers mass false reporting blogs that didn't appease them with enough attention, again.

#I'm tired of this #please get a grip #log off and touch grass #you're taking down someone's outlet and diary here #for your own selfish reasons?#please #vix.vent

oh they MEANT IT meant it

they sniped every reblog I've ever had of her photos on my blog. gone.

what the fuuffgggck kk

#ohummhi #vix.txt

WHAT HAVE THEY DONE

THEY GOT MY BABY OHUMMHI

MY ANGEL MY BESTIE

NOOOOOO

#I went to check her blog like I do every day and it was gone!!!!!#our DM convo gone!!!#she was terminatedwhyyyyy #I might take a break about this dammit tumblrwhy you are out of control with these right now #vix.txt #ohummhi

angel-in-your-basement

Having a crush on someone when you have fucked up kinks is so embarrassing bc you’re just like “wow they’re so cute I want them to get off on the way I cry while they fuck me”

angel-in-your-basement

Also highly recommend looking thru the reblogs on this one cause so many people add their own versions, and the dom / sadist versions especially just fuckin tickle me. I love y’all bunch of perverts

angel-in-your-basement

You folks get me

#they're so cute I wonder how they would look holding my leash

choked2death-deactivated2026020

honey its time for ur daily depressing text post and weird porn reblogs

wispedvellichor

probably the sleep deprivation talking but it makes me kinda sad when i see posts featuring screenshots / text about platonic love and the concept of loving your friends (which does not mention anything about being aspec) be tagged with aromantic or asexual

not that im saying that that shouldn't be done, full support to everyone tagging the posts as such - the rediscovery of the joy and strength in platonic love has helped me so much in my journey as an arospec person

it's just so insane to me that it has to be rediscovered in the first place, you know?

like the fact that society as a whole has basically forgotten the importance of relationships that isn't a monogamous partner- to the point that aro and ace people are having to re-remember the concept of loving our friends is so, so sad

it feels like we're losing our sense of community; especially due to the rapid decrease in third spaces, stricter work hours, and honesty the loss of places where we can just loiter

the present day schedule means you just sort of have enough free time to have a genuine connection with just one another person - and the structures built around marriage and monogamous relationships only strengthen that

monogamous amatonormativity is profitable

if you have a community to support you, you no longer have to rely on corporations to sell that support to you (especially in the rise of ai companions but that's a whole other conversation)

and thus we have reached the point where the influence to not have space for anyone except your romantic partner has spared mostly those who are, completely or for the most part, unable to give in (by spared i mean it hasnt completely succeeded, not that it hasnt spent a hell of an effort trying)

so yeah, to everyone, regardless of your orientation, if you're actively making space for your friends in your life, im so proud of you; and for those who want platonic love but aren't/can't/are unwilling to go and seek it, there's so much love waiting out there for you.

you've got this. i love you.

wispedvellichor

YES YES YES so real

thats what i personally meant by rediscovering the joys of platonic love helped me

it was less rediscovering the love itself - ive always had it - but more finding a community of aspec people who value my platonic love for them more than those with internalised amatonormativity

i also had a period where i struggled with internalised amatonormativity myself where i tried to have romantic relationships that take up utmost priority in my life only because i was convinced that a friend could never care about me aa deeply as i care for them

but, eventually, i did find people who cared, both aroacespec as well as allo people

which is how im convinced that monogamous amatonormativity isnt an orientation thing

its marketed to us - packaged and sold in songs, movies, cards and jokes around dinner tables

and honestly? fuck that

#platonic love save me platonic love #amatonormativity

pumpkinsuggestions

i want to be your best friend. the person you tell first when you have exciting news, the one you lean on when you feel lost, the one you laugh uncontrollably with about things that aren’t even that funny, the one you’re texting when you should be sleeping, the one you trust with your deepest secrets, the one you feel free to be stupid with, the one with whom you share every inch of your soul. i want to know you like i know myself.

#this or nothing #it's all I wanted #I want to be your person like this #and that doesn't only have to be one person you can have multiple close connections like this #but I want to be one of them #I want to be one of your persons #and you mine #I want to be bonded and besties

bakwaaas

there is so much love in friendship, people forget that

romessence

whenever i miss you, i have to remind myself that you had a choice and you didn't choose me.

#repeatedly

Oh, I thought

That it was the last time

That I'd fallen for someone like you

Who don't care about all the things that I could do for you

And I know

That it's not the first time

That I've given so much away

To be left with someone who just won't stay

And I, I'm feeling so worn

Waiting to find someone who can make me feel warm

And you, I think you knew

I put my heart into us and you cracked it in two

And I saw

You losing interest

I couldn't bear to think of the thought

That you'd up and leave me to be so distraught

And I heard

You say your goodbye

But denial is my greatest skill

Bending the truth to fit wishes of will

And I, I'm feeling so worn

Waiting to find someone who can make me feel warm

And you, I think you knew

I put my heart into us and you cracked it in two

I'm sorry

To play games of blame

It can be easier to say it's your fault

Than facing our lack of gestalt

And I'm aware

That it's my own baggage

But please let me plead, I'll shut up but I just

Need you to let me have this

And I, I'm feeling so worn

Waiting to find someone who can make me feel warm

And you, I think you knew

I put my heart into us and I was the one to crack it in two

mxmtoon: blame game

#vix.mp3

taylortut

i CANNOT express how much more lovable my friends are to me at their most annoying. i'd rather hear the same story 3 times than not at all. i'd rather read a 22 message text rant about something totally inconsequential than not hear from you all day. i'd rather you tag me in the stupidest post i've ever seen than not know that it made you think of a conversation we had a month ago. BE ANNOYING AT ME. I LOVE YOU

taylortut

several people are misunderstanding this post and saying "these things aren't annoying" and like. the point of this is not "these things annoy me, do them anyway." the point of this post is "when you do things that you feel are annoying or bothersome, i am just thinking about how grateful i am for your presence in my life"

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