somebody: so what do u like to do for fun? :)
me, very used to being mocked for my interests: ha ha, i dunno, i donât do anything. Ever

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somebody: so what do u like to do for fun? :)
me, very used to being mocked for my interests: ha ha, i dunno, i donât do anything. Ever
Personality: I DONâT GIVE A FUCK
Anxiety: I do
No post has ever described my life as accurately as this one
Toi kalaton vaihtoehto vois olla ihan jees đ
ihan kauhee :D
TĂ€ytepitko ja marjakimara
end my suffewing
Trist
my name backwards spells âdisappointment and skin problemsâ
nice to meet you, Smelborp Niks Dna Tnemtnioppasid
You really shouldnât put your full name on the internet, itâs not safe.
Iâm done
Smelborp for president
Stam1na?
Issa band?
âI have sex with u a lot in my head.â
Therapists are justâŠ. Common sense filters
Me: yeah so I just donât have the energy to get up and make myself a sandwich or wait for something to cook so I just. Donât
Her: why donât you just eat the sandwich components without putting them together
Me:
Her: you can just eat a handful of cheese and some sandwich meat. You donât have to make a sandwich.
Me:
Me: what
Therapists finding loopholes for mental illness things is one of my favorite things about dealing with mental illness because it really helps me understand that just because a reaction is Common doesnât mean itâs Right. Does doing dishes stress you out a lot? Buy paper plates. Do your obsessive thoughts make you worry about leaving your curling iron on so you drive home from work to check? Just put the curling iron in your purse and bring it to work with you while we work on tackling where this worry comes from. Symptom management doesnât have to look like drudgery.
i used to go days without showering because seeing my body was so upsetting that i would end up spiraling and then i realized i could simply turn the lights out. it took some getting used to but iâve been showering with the lights off for years and itâs now one of my favorite parts of my day.
do whatever you want nothing is real and thereâs no need to inflict unnecessary suffering on yourself just to try to seem ânormalâ
I love this post
Hmmm
These kinds of loopholes make life so. Much. Better.
One of my favorite stories is this lady had extremely bad OCD. Every day sheâd be late to work because she was convinced that her hair dryer was going to burn down the house so would always have to turn around and check it. Multiple times a day even. A bunch of doctors tied to âfixâ her of that fear, until one day she got a doctor that suggested she bring the hair dryer with her. Other doctors were annoyed, saying that wasnât a the correct way to help, but she gave it a go. When she had that fear, sheâd look over and see the hair dryer unplugged in the seat next to her and was able to carry on. I think itâs such a perfect example of actually helping someone instead of forcing them into a neurotypical standard.
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Voitaisko pitÀÀ hetken hiljaisuus sille, ettÀ lapsena mulla oli kaks miesbarbia joiden nimet oli Kikkeli-Kalle ja Jari SillanpÀÀ.
Voidaan.
Btw mun nukkejen(??) nimet oli Lassi ja Esko et
en voi olla ainut joka nÀkee tÀssÀ peniksen
minÀ: *hÀmmentÀÀ kattilaa ja jÀttÀÀ lieden sitten vahtimatta 15 sekunniksi kÀydÀkseen toisessa huoneessa*
ruoka: no NIIN pojat, tÀmÀ kattila on Vesuvius, minÀ olen laavaa ja koko vitun hella on Pompeiji vuonna 79
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I hate Freud. His whole weird theory about penis envy and children being sexually attracted to their parents and secret desires and all that shit actually came straight out of an attempt to ally himself with wealthy and influential rapists and was a direct form of victim blaming.
He had started the research looking into âhysteriaâ which at the time was really usually referring to womenâs symptoms of PTSD. It turned out that the reason so many woman had these symptoms is because so many of them had experienced sexual violenceâ especially CSA and incest at the hands of their fathers.Â
At first he was making real progress, and it was through working with these women that he discovered that talk therapy could be used to treat trauma. The symptoms of PTSD were lessened when women were able to safely speak about their experiences out loud and be believed.Â
But it wasnât the women who paid for the therapy. It was their fathers, husbands, the same men who were perpetuating the violence in the first place. And Freud didnât want to validate his patients (the women) if it meant making his clients (the men) unhappy.
So he came up with a new idea. These symptoms werenât from trauma. The memories werenât real. These women were just sexual beings as children and had penis envy and it made them lust for their fathers and fantasize about the rape that they had reported to him. Thatâs where the shittiest parts of Freudâs theories emerged. Another part of it besides just the monetary aspect, though, was that there was a feminist movement on the fringes starting up at the time and by publishing work about womenâs CSA he would be aligning himself with it and therefore losing support, respect, funding, prestige from his male peers and from the psychological community at large. He literally made that gross victim blaming shit up to keep his own reputation with these fucks and to make sure he still got publication and fame.
By coming up with fake theory about little girls fantasizing about incest he not only fucked over generations of women, the feminist movement that was arising, and the entire psychology field for years to come, but he also completely swept away any progress made in understanding trauma and so we didnât have any clue why men coming back from war had âhysteriaâ like women during WWI.
And our research on PTSD and trauma is still lacking to this day, especially because of the stigma that maybe traumatized people deserved it or wanted it or imagined it. People donât want to believe itâs real. Perpetrators of traumatic violence want everyone to forget about it, not acknowledge it, or trivialize it.
And they have Freudâs cultural legacy to help them.
Can you provide academic citations for this? This is really neat.
http://journals.sagepub.com/doi/abs/10.1177/0959353596062015
http://journals.sagepub.com/doi/pdf/10.1177/0959353596062015
If you donât have access bc paywall, hereâs a decent summary on Wikipedia:
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Freudian_Coverup
Some vague proof:â
http://www.nytimes.com/1984/01/24/science/freud-secret-documents-reveal-years-of-strife.html?pagewanted=all&mcubz=0
An essay on the topic:
http://socialistreview.org.uk/404/whats-wrong-sigmund-freud
If you want some more, just google, âSigmund Freud Seduction Theory Problematic.â Thereâs lots of academic and non-academic discussion on the topic, but TLDR Sigmund Freud is basically disregarded in almost all aspects of psychology by anyone who actually cares about their patients, so fuck that guy for holding psychology back.
Words cannot express how much I hate Freud. His theories have been entirely disproven by current psychological research, but using him to interpret literary texts is still a widely accepted technique in the field of literary study today.
English departments across the country will not bat an eye at tenured professors bringing Freud into lectures and citing him in scholarly articles and books. Doing a âFreudian readingâ of a literary character or theme is regarded as a valid means of understanding and drawing meaning from works by authors as diverse as William Shakespeare, James Joyce, and C.S. Lewis. And it is based entirely on this guyâs unbelievably sexist, flat-out fraudulent, and thoroughly disproven research. Itâs insane.
Just so everyone on my dash is aware that Freudâs theories are pseudoscience.
I too hate Freud and everything he stands for. I just wish people knew why I hate him so much.
No joke, in EVERY SINGLE ONE of my university courses, Freud was mentioned and âFreudian Readingsâ were used and every single time Iâm just
People: Freud
Me, a psychologist and an intellectual:
No but seriously, Iâm in a Masterâs program for psychology. Itâs pretty much unanimous amongst both Psych Students and Professors that Freud was full of shit
The day they invent a time machine is the day I kill freud
Niin ihmeellistÀ et edelleen koulussa opetetaan et Freudin teoriat on ihan varteenotettavaa materiaalia
Iâm like my teeth: not straight
MinÀ ku mun hampaiden oikominen lopetettii kesken
"TÀssÀ voi kÀydÀ hyvin... (pieni tauko) tai huonosti"
- Matikan opettaja ennen kun aloitti laskemaan hankalaa laskua