walk like thunder

adina - 23 - feminist - queer

[olearypoetry]

[officialaudreykitching-deactiva]

‪Notice where your energy is going recently. If you are over-giving and it’s not being appreciated, stop. If you are exhausted all the time because you are people pleasing and ignoring yourself, stop. The days of self sacrifice are coming to a massive end. Be there for yourself.‬

[michellepsychologist]

Alison Malee

[loversuggestion]

The lesson is to love yourself. To forgive yourself. To stop giving more than you have. To stop expecting too much from people. To find a way to live in light of your mistakes and preconceptions of love. To be open to what the future presents. To allow things to flow and fall. To break, crash, crumble. To rebuild. The lesson is to never undervalue the importance of self love. And, until you have mastered that, at least in part, to stay away from the things that damage you. I think I have finally understood where some of my pain has come from. I’m ready to move on. I’m ready for my next lesson.

[scissortailedsaint]

this problem isn’t that men “misread” signals (and even verbal statements), it’s that men are unwilling to accept what’s being communicated, because it’d mean they won’t get what they want–and they value getting what they want more than they value their partner’s comfort, safety, and desires. this is a matter of will and values masquerading as a matter of knowledge and communication. men’s “confusion” is their justification for continuing with what they want to do (and society will accept it too!), so there’s always a motivation to be “confused.” that’s the problem.

[mellifexfarm]

taken literally 1 minute apart

[pularia]

Ah, the ‘ol scream and sleep.

[isthislivingg]

Daily reminder: If they wanna talk to you, they will. If they wanna be with you, they will. If they wanna make things work, they will. Don’t let things be one sided. It’s not healthy, and it’s not fair to you.

[softest-archive-deactivated2023]

I’m ok. I’m gonna be ok. I’m gonna live a beautiful life and I’ll get to know beautiful people. I will create things of beauty and be surrounded by flowers. And I’ll love myself, and I’ll be soft, I’ll be kind. And I’ll be ok.

[tullipsink]

dreaming about you

[fruitsaladchewits-deactivated20]

[babyybarbie]

Im a slut for validation!! Tell me you’re proud!!! Tell me I did good!!!!

[destroymylife]

[island-delver-go]

(Source)

[alittlebitridiculous]

TAKE TO THE WOODS

[4got2reply]

How do I tell a guy he's the coolest and I wanna kiss him

first remember that men are the root of all evil. then reconsider.

[aidashakur]

S/O to myself fr because this year wasn’t easy at all.

[captivatesme]

“In order to move on, you must understand why you felt what you did and why you no longer need to feel it.”

— Mitch Albom

[river-road-thoughts]

Not to sound cocky as shit but I’m a fucking good person with a big heart and I deserve a lot more than the shitty hand that life has dealt me this far