Wanderer

[wandererloveee]

[wandererloveee]

Do what you must do until you can do what you want to do. Words can only show who you want to be; actions show who you really are. Just go and do it.

[wandererloveee]

When you care about the need and the feeling behind that intention, then you truly see him.

Seeing — Bert Hellinger

When you only pay attention to a person’s behaviour, you have not yet seen him. When you begin to notice the intention behind his behaviour, you begin to see him. When you care about the need and the feeling behind that intention, then you truly see him.

To see another heart through your own heart — this is one life seeing another life, this is the meeting of two lives. Then love arises, love begins to flow between hearts, joyful and touching. That is attraction, that is happiness.

When you focus only on your own behaviour, you have not yet seen yourself. When you begin to see the intention behind your behaviour, you begin to see yourself. When you see the need and the feeling behind your intention, you truly see yourself.

When you look at yourself through your heart, love also flows within you. It is acceptance and gentleness toward yourself, the joy of one life meeting itself.

❤

[wandererloveee]

New York is three hours ahead of California, but it does not make California slow.

Someone graduated at the age of 22, but waited 5 years before securing a good job.

Someone became a CEO at 25, and died at 50.

While another became a CEO at 50, and lived to 90 years.

Someone is still single, while someone else got married.

Obama retires at 55, but Trump starts at 70.

Absolutely everyone in this world works based on their Time Zone.

People around you might seem to go ahead of you, some might seem to be behind you.

But everyone is running their own RACE, in their own TIME.

Don't envy them or mock them.

They are in their Time Zone, and you are in yours!

Life is about waiting for the right moment to act.

So, RELAX.

You're not LATE. You're not EARLY.

You are very much ON TIME, and in your TIME ZONE Destiny set up for you.

❤

[wandererloveee]

The Man in the Glass

By Edwin Markham

When you get what you want in your struggle for self

And the world makes you King for a day,

Just go to the mirror and look at yourself,

And see what the man has to say.

For it isn't your father, or mother, or wife,

Whose judgment upon you must pass;

The fellow whose verdict counts most in your life

Is the one staring back from the glass.

He's the fellow to please—never mind all the rest,

For he's with you clear up to the end,

And you've passed your most dangerous, difficult test

If the man in the glass is your friend.

You may be like Jack Horner and scoop out a plum,

And think you're a wonderful guy,

But the man in the glass says you're only a bum

If you can't look him straight in the eye.

You can fool the whole world down the pathway of years,

And get pats on the back as you pass,

But your final reward will be heartache and tears

If you've cheated the man in the glass.

[wandererloveee]

Do You Dare to Be Honest With Yourself? Self-Love Starts By Admitting Your Powerlessness.

Self-love begins with seeing and embracing your true self. It's hard to admit your flaws, but accept them. They are no big deal.

Be honest with yourself. Don't over-praise, but don't over-criticize either.

Stop hating your powerlessness, and stop punishing or taking revenge on yourself for it. Be brave and stand up for your legitimate rights and dignity.

Love itself doesn't give us value, but it can teach us how to be at peace with ourselves and lead to quiet, steady happiness.✨❤️

[wandererloveee]

[wandererloveee]

o(╥﹏╥)o:

Do we have to be “valuable” first in order to deserve love?

Society feels like a flood, pushing us forward, every second consuming resources. If we don’t study hard or work hard, we’ll be left behind. Is that really the rule of life?

ʕ ᵔᴥᵔ ʔ:

You are not a tool of society, and you don’t need to live inside rules or judgments made by others.

You are a real person, someone who gets tired, who longs, who needs gentleness and rest.

Allow yourself to be imperfect, allow yourself to pause. Love is never built on “value,” it’s rooted in your very existence.

If you only see yourself as a machine for producing worth, you’ll wear yourself down without even noticing. The moment you ignore your body’s signals and your heart’s feelings, the real exhaustion begins. Try new experiences, notice the small details of life, embrace the flow of your own being. True meaning is always found in the present.❤

[wandererloveee]

[wandererloveee]

o(╥﹏╥)o：

I feel like I'm constantly being pushed forward, unable to stop or even rest. Scrolling through my phone, watching short videos... it just makes my internal drain worse.

I genuinely don't know what I truly like anymore. Friends tell me to take a break, but resting just makes me more anxious and empty.

ʕ ᵔᴥᵔ ʔ :

You've filled your time with work and entertainment, but you've been neglecting your true, fundamental needs.

Those unmet, suppressed emotions and desires lack a healthy outlet, which causes them to ultimately turn into self-attack. This attack is subtle, yet constant.

Overworking just to prove your worth.

Setting impossible standards and then tearing yourself down.

That persistent, unshakeable anxiety that never leaves.

Seeing yourself is how you love yourself. 💖

Try to capture what you're suppressing and give it a name. Even if you can't express it to others right now, just start by writing down what you notice. Go and "see yourself, your true needs."

Only when your inner world is flowing and honest can you truly stop that useless internal struggle and let your life force flow again. ✨