Lost password, was she-who-should-not-be-named1

[flame-tits]

New desing for bby Enji❤

[emoryinaboat]

A Theory

APH Spain died and was replaced by APH Spain who died and then was replaced by APH Spain who then died and got replaced by APH Spain

[montymolemen-blog]

The Problem With Men

There are good ones, and there are bad ones. Just like how there are good women and bad women. Just like there’s a feminist who wants to “kill all men” and one who wants to have equal rights. There’s a cereal that you like and a cereal that you hate.

But you don’t want to kill all cereal, now do you? And if you don’t like cereal? Well, there’s other options. Put you would probably respect your friends decision to eat cereal, wouldn’t you? 

One dog attacks their owner. Do we kill all dogs? No. They’re still good dogs, like there are bad dogs. Bad people make bad dogs. Similar to how bad people shape bad people. It can be both the parents faults, the moms or the dads. It can even be a brother or a sister. It can be the people that surround them at schools.

The thing is, you can come up with all sorts of analogies and metaphors for why we should kill men, but you don’t have sound evidence and proof that all men think the way you say they do.

If all men are rapists, what does that make all women? Does it make us all superior? But I thought we were all equal? But, wait, can’t women rape too? What a concept! Women can be bad people too! 

Miyuki Ishikawa was a midwife in 1948 Japan. She was convicted for the murder of five infants. So does her murdering spree make all women baby killers? No. 

“But the majority of mass murders in society were men!” Yeah, you’re right. But remember when women legit had no rights and couldn’t make their rise to power? There’s women out there who agreed with what Hitler did. They didn’t order it. They didn’t have the power to at the time.

There are plenty of good male and female role models. They are all on equal playing fields. A little girl can look up to Black Widow just as much as a little boy is going to look up to Captain America. They look up to the opposite gender, too. A little boy can look up to Black Widow and a little girl can look up to Captain America.

The problem with men is that people are making them seem like a problem when they aren’t. 

[webtoonloverandoverallfangirl]

I want to add to this; if you say all men are evil, you are implying that all women are victims. When you say something so hafeful, it usually affects everyone.

[montymolemen-blog]

The Problem With Men

There are good ones, and there are bad ones. Just like how there are good women and bad women. Just like there’s a feminist who wants to “kill all men” and one who wants to have equal rights. There’s a cereal that you like and a cereal that you hate.

But you don’t want to kill all cereal, now do you? And if you don’t like cereal? Well, there’s other options. Put you would probably respect your friends decision to eat cereal, wouldn’t you? 

One dog attacks their owner. Do we kill all dogs? No. They’re still good dogs, like there are bad dogs. Bad people make bad dogs. Similar to how bad people shape bad people. It can be both the parents faults, the moms or the dads. It can even be a brother or a sister. It can be the people that surround them at schools.

The thing is, you can come up with all sorts of analogies and metaphors for why we should kill men, but you don’t have sound evidence and proof that all men think the way you say they do.

If all men are rapists, what does that make all women? Does it make us all superior? But I thought we were all equal? But, wait, can’t women rape too? What a concept! Women can be bad people too! 

Miyuki Ishikawa was a midwife in 1948 Japan. She was convicted for the murder of five infants. So does her murdering spree make all women baby killers? No. 

“But the majority of mass murders in society were men!” Yeah, you’re right. But remember when women legit had no rights and couldn’t make their rise to power? There’s women out there who agreed with what Hitler did. They didn’t order it. They didn’t have the power to at the time.

There are plenty of good male and female role models. They are all on equal playing fields. A little girl can look up to Black Widow just as much as a little boy is going to look up to Captain America. They look up to the opposite gender, too. A little boy can look up to Black Widow and a little girl can look up to Captain America.

The problem with men is that people are making them seem like a problem when they aren’t. 

[lozfunposts]

Debunking some modern feminism beliefs.

I posted this on my personal a while ago, but figured it could go here as well.

A man is not oppressing you, raping you, assaulting you, or harassing you by being within 15 feet of you.

Wrongly accusing a man of rape doesn’t dismantle the patriarchy, it makes you look like a horrible person for ruining someone’s life.

Catcalling is pretty bad, but it’s not the end of the world. Unless he’s actively harassing or approaching you, don’t call the cops every time a dude shouts at you from his car.

A girl who has a lot of guy friends probably doesn’t hate women, they just have a lot of similar interests. 

If you’ll gladly raise a female child but express disdain, horror, or disgust towards the possibility of having a male child, you do not need to be a parent. Period.

Your ‘male tears’ mug just makes you look like a tool. 

You claim men are oversensitive, but the fact that you’re willing to garrote the next male who so much as asks you what time it is from across the room while poking at his dead phone or broken watch really doesn’t say a lot for your emotional stability. 

Quit fucking trivializing actual rape victims’ experiences by saying every man’s born a rapist. 

Freebleeding is hazardous. I don’t care what you do with it, but don’t get it all over places where people sit. Your period’s another waste mechanism for your body. If your own body doesn’t want it, what makes you think the rest of us do?

Stop glorifying female on male abuse. It’s not funny, it’s not cute, it’s not “fighting the patriarchy”. It’s abuse, plain and simple, and the reason why you don’t hear about it often is not because men are the only ones who do it to women - it’s because society has taught men to essentially grin and bear it. And you’re an irredeemable piece of shit if you think that men can’t be raped or abused.

For the love of God, shut up with the food analogies. 

No one is saying it’s bad to be wary of some guy walking around at 2am in the alleyway on a Friday night. But instead of going out of your way to antagonize him because he might be dangerous, just cross to the other side of the road, take a different route, turn around, detour, whatever. If he follows, then you can act accordingly. This goes for any person of any gender - mugging, rape, kidnappings, and murder can happen to anyone.

Guy touches you inappropriately in a club? Yes, that’s bad and you should take precautions/defensive measures. Guy approaches you and talks to you in a non threatening, conversational manner? Not dangerous. Stop threatening to shank anything with a penis that dares talk to you in a social environment. 

Tumblr feminism is teaching young women that all men are demons and all women are angels. Which isn’t the case at all.

Men are not naturally predisposed to hate and kill women on sight. If this were the case, there would be no women. Stop acting like we live in some weird version of Sin City.

Modern feminism implies that women should be fragile little flowers that need to be wary of everything a man does, and that they can never recover from rape or sexual assault. It tells women that they’ll be safe as long as they trust only other women and act vicious towards men to keep them away. It accepts crippling paranoia as normal and even encourages it in an effort to keep women ‘safe’. 

This isn’t healthy in any sense of the word, and feminism needs to start refocusing on equality rather than fear and hate.

[ladyinfierno-art]

We stan Tuxedo England in this house

(shout out to @amalysstuff for Magical Strike France)

[thedisappointedidealist12]

this is hilarious

[flame-tits]

⚫Yoshino Todoroki (Enji's dad)⚫

and

⚪Natsuo Todoroki (Enji's son)⚪

[flame-tits]

Yoshino and Enji Todoroki: father and son

[flame-tits]

im here just dreaming about todoroki flying like superman with his fire

[flame-tits]

TODOROKI’S HOT SUPERMAN FLYING HAS BECOME CANON Y'ALL

I can’t breathe!!!❤🔥❤🔥 also fuck physics!

[sad-bih]

I have been laughing at this for 10 minutes straight

[flame-tits]

😭😭😭😭👌👌🤣🤣🤣🤣

[webtoonloverandoverallfangirl]

Dear twitter, If your are mad about James Charles pretending to be pregnant, you are no better than the boomers who were offended over Harry Styles wearing a dress.

[webtoonloverandoverallfangirl]

Do not tell me you're all for breaking gender roles until it's a man pretending to be pregnant in order to understand a fraction of what women go through to have a baby. The try Guys did this and nobody gave a shit, why are people triggered now?

[webtoonloverandoverallfangirl]

Dear twitter, If your are mad about James Charles pretending to be pregnant, you are no better than the boomers who were offended over Harry Styles wearing a dress.

[emilywithopinion]

People are super mad at James Charles for making a pregnancy video with a pregnancy photoshoot and all. And I’m just like, who the fuck cares?? 

I’d say there are way worse things happening to women than some random dude deciding to try out a cramp device and photoshopping a pregnancy belly on as a dare from one of his friends. Like, for example, autogynephiles literally claiming to be actual women.. THOSE are the men we should focus on, not James Charles. At least he doesn’t claim to know what womanhood is better than actual women. 

Idk what do ya’ll think?

[graduallywatermellon]

Hey so “all men are trash” posts help terfs

I’ll explain if one of you want

[graduallywatermellon]

Know what fuck it explaining as soon as I get off mobile this is important and I’m pissed and I need you people to hear it

[graduallywatermellon]

so i’m trans and i have been spoon feed this shit for years

There are more, but you get the idea. If you’ve been on this website, or any website really, you’ll know just how much of everywhere this is. You can not escape it. Men are Trash and Pigs and all that good stuff.  Recently, I found “Where’d you go?” a comic by Jason Porath, the man behind the Rejected Princesses book about a nightmare he’s been having since 2016 that seems, at least a little, connected to the “All men are trash” thing. Reading this kind of made me realize something about myself; all these All men are trash posts have given me internalized transphobia. I Actively hate myself for not being cis. For giving up womanhood to join the side of evil. And it’s not like i hate any other trans people, yall are great, it’s just me, and it’s my first time really realizing what internalized transphobia feels like or means. What makes it worse is this is something TERFs what. For those (lucky) few who have avoided TERFs, they are Trans Exclusionary Radical Feminists.   They hate Trans Men for betraying woman by becoming part of the problem and they hate Trans Woman for being Men “pretending” to be woman to hurt them. They’re the kind of people making all the “If we let trans woman use the right bathroom they’ll assault cis woman!!!” stuff. Trashy people who think trashy things that only hurt people. But they made me have their ideology.  So, how many people in the above screenshots are TERFs or Radfem? 3. And those are only the ones who say it on their blogs. 3 out of 5 of the screenshots are from TREFs or Redfem and these are just the first few post i saw when I searched up “All Men are Trash.” This shit is everywhere I feel awful I hate myself They won I hope you all are happy

[graduallywatermellon]

a bonus:

note is in response to this 

[graduallywatermellon]

Listen. Please share this. There are already trans guys in the notes saying this is important. Listen to us.

[graduallywatermellon]

Hate to make a long post longer but here are some important takes from the notes

[ms-demeanor]

I have a friend who is constantly racked with guilt about being attracted to women since he started transitioning because posts like this have taught him that men’s attention to women is always predatory. I have friends who are cis dudes who feel the same way. I have a transfemme friend who constantly questions whether they are actually just fetishizing women because being “socialized male” means they can never unlearn the predatory nature of their AGAB.

This sort of thinking also trains straight and bi women to expect to get treated like shit by their partners instead of believing that men are compassionate, kind, generous people who should be expected to treat their partners well.

And, not to get all “what about cis people” on this but there are young teen boys on this blogging platform who are learning that they are “trash” simply for looking at or being attracted to women and there are adult men on this platform who are  trying to turn themselves inside out to try to “make up” for their maleness and framing men as terrible, unsafe, selfish, bad people is the exact kind of gender essentialist bullshit that says all women are compassionate and good communicators and naturally maternal caregivers.

It’s crap! It’s garbage!

You can write off all cops as bad because they all looked at an abusive, corrupt system and went “I want to be a part of that.”

If you write off “men,” the type category, fifty fucking percentish of the goddamned species, as trash you’re looking at a little boy or a black father or an autistic teen or a gay pensioner or even just a totally run of the mill cis straight white dude and saying “you were born wrong.”

And you know what, for fucking YEARS I’ve been saying “feminism benefits men too” and “feminism helps everyone” and there has been this loud minority of utter fucking assholes saying that men are trash and there’s no such thing as misandry and I’ve been trying to say “yeah, okay, those people are assholes but they’re not really a huge part of the movement” and but now it seems like their shitty ideas about purity culture have crossed over to the mainstream and their shitty sex negativity has crossed over to the mainstream, and radical feminism in general and TERFs in particular are brimming with misandry that is an exact fucking mirror to the misogyny of blackpilled incels and we are very calmly letting it infect our discourse and discredit our philosophy.

ALSO all of this bullshit broadcasts and spreads the idea that women must always be protected from men (which is exactly how JK Rowling justifies her transmisogyny) which does NOTHING to accomplish the equality that feminism is nominally about.

“Men are trash” and “kill all men lol” is a memeified, gender-swapped version of Mike Fucking Pence refusing to meet with women unsupervised because they might contaminate or tempt him. 

And it *also* paves over the shitty, rapey, abusive, power imbalanced, oppressive things that women do. “If men are trash and women aren’t then clearly the abuse or sexual assault I’m suffering from my female partner must be *different* in some way because she’s not harming me through patriarchy or oppression.”

[scults-archive]

The “men are trash” posts are exactly how many boys/men get sucked into supremacy groups.

When young boys see those posts everywhere and start to get (rightfully) upset, the most “understanding” groups seem to be ones that are proud of being men. They’re told that they’re special or superior in some way and after such a blow to their confidence, they want to believe it. They’re told to read books written by women exposing how “manipulative” women are. It becomes an obsession and that pride becomes rampant misogyny.

You are helping to create the problem. You are kicking a dog and yelling “I told you so!” when it bites.

[krakkenchaos]

Also, this isn’t something you can just log off and escape from. It’s just as pervasive in person as on the internet.

[juicylights]

THANK YOU for having this discussion. I’ve felt a general unwelcome within modern progressive feminist circles, but I couldn’t quite place it. Glad to hear men aren’t absolutely abhorred in most circles, just some.

[adhbabey]

I check ppl who reblog my posts all the time, I wanna see their tags! But I’ll often scroll down and find other posts.

And if I find a post like this, like “men suck” or whatever, you bet your ass I’m worried, that I’m scared. That I’m cautious and afraid you’re a terf because that behavior is harmful.

I’m a feminist, but sometimes I see posts about people ranting about women getting hurt and it leaves a bad taste in my mouth. Because that sounds like what terfs say all the time. They act like women are the victim of everything. When they’re not. They still have autonomy and still can hurt others.

So if you post stuff like this, I’m cautious of you. Because I know that mentality hurts so much. It causes so much pain.

So just a forewarning, just as a friendly reminder, men are not your enemy, trans people are not your enemy, oppressors and abusers are.

[december-rains]

My mother has outright and repetitively told me that my being transmasc was betraying women and betraying feminism and that I couldn’t call myself a feminist or anything like that unless I gave up my own identity. She tells me still that my very existence is sexist. So yeah, this shit fucking hurts people.

[lilydvoratrelundar]

I know this probably won’t mesh well with trans-inclusive people who are happy to accept trans women as women no question, but this shit affects us in a huge way too. The main people TERFs are targeting when they say “all men are trash” isn’t people who are men, but the people they perceive as men. They claim all men are predatory, are rapists, etc, and they use this to harass and target trans women because they see us as men, not women. This is what gets us called crossdressers, and harassed in toilets, and accused of pretending to be women just so that we can get to cis women in toilets and rape them. And this gets internalised too! If you hear that you’re “just pretending” and “fetishising lesbians” enough that shit burrows right into your head to the point where I honestly really struggle to actually see myself actually in a relationship at all.

[cripplywobblytimeywimey]

“All men are trash” is why I tried to convince myself for 4 years that I was nonbinary instead of a man, because I didn’t want to be part of the view of men I’d been fed, which was that they are ignorant, sexist, misogynistic and abusers/rapists. “All men are trash” has caused so much self hate over the years. I thought I was repulsive and disgusting since I came out as a man because if I wasn’t a woman or nonbinary, I was a nauseating oppressor.

Screw the “all men are trash” people. I’m only just starting to love myself properly as a trans man and I’m not gonna let it go for people who just love to generalise.

[cripplywobblytimeywimey]

Also I forgot to mention this but there’s even more transphobia and a touch of ableism scattered into the “all men are trash” sentiment and spreading of it too-

There will always be the people who say “all men are trash” but when you confront them as a trans man they’ll say “not trans men!!!!”. In this, people are saying that trans men are not truly men, or that they are inherently different in some way to cis men just because they weren’t amab. This is transphobic and not acceptable.

Then we also have the people who say “all men are trash” but when anyone confronts them it’s all “no I didn’t mean all men, I actually mean all the rapists and abusers who are men! You should KNOW that I only mean them!”. The first time I had this off of someone, I didn’t know I was neurodivergent. But I had (and still have) the most difficult time figuring out if people were being serious or sarcastic. I need people to say what they mean a lot of the time. It didn’t help that I’ve also had a history of that inability to discern sarcasm from seriousness be exploited by my bullies in highschool, where people would say something in complete seriousness and say they were joking or vice versa, just to mess with me. However, my sarcasm and seriousness discernment (however poor) is built on a case-by-case basis. So if one person says “I don’t ACTUALLY mean all men” and the next person says “all men are trash”, I’m still gonna take them seriously a lot of the time, because I know there are people out there who say it with 100% seriousness. Which brings me around to this point.

Saying “all men are trash” when that’s not at all what you mean is damaging to men, transphobic, and ableist to a range of neurodivergent individuals who you think should “just be smart enough” to tell when you’re joking or not.

[intersexelphie]

This is exactly why I cannot bring myself to back the “kill all men” movement.

As much as I love feminism and I understand, as someone who has been abused and harrassed by men and boys myself, why you might feel anger, when you generalise them this way, you are doing exactly what TERFs want.

That trauma that is making you say these things? That’s exactly how TERFs suck you in. That is what they will take advantage of.

I’m so glad I never encountered TERFs when I was an angry young teenager struggling with my identity and trauma, bc then I could well have been one of these 14, 15 year old TERFs that you see on this hellsite. These things don’t just radicalise men and boys, they radicalise women and girls as well.

And not to mention the racism, ableism, homophobia, etc. that goes on when you group all men together in that way, as the above comments have mentioned.

[agirlinsearchof]

Saying “all men are trash” and then saying it’s a joke or “I don’t mean all men, just the ones that suck” or “I mean the patriarchal system, not individual men” is starting to sound these days more and more like people who say racist/sexist/homophobic/transphobic/ableist things, only to say “it’s just a joke” when called on it. It’s not funny, it’s not cute, it’s toxic. If people were saying all this about women and people who were AFAB, we’d be (rightly) calling it sexist and transphobic a lot sooner. Sexism hurts everyone, no matter who the target is and who purportedly “benefits” from it.

[redshiftsinger]

And regardless of power structures etc etc all the things people like to use as excuses for why “you can’t be sexist against men” or “you can’t be racist against white people” (which, maybe technically true, per strict interpretation of the word in the sense of “using a societally-ingrained power structure to hurt those who have less power than you”, that’s not the point here) and then using that to jump off to “therefore it’s ok to be mean to men and white people just because they’re men and/or white”.  Bullying is bullying no matter if power structures back it, no matter if it’s an “ism” or not. And bullying is always wrong. 

[dashaibo]

Men do not deserve to be called trash even if they’re cis, white and abled

Men do not deserve to be called trash period

For fucks sake people, it’s not only bad when it affects trans men or black men, it’s just bad.

[shattered-angel198]

the fact that the needle has to constantly be moved shows how utterly pointless it is. If you have to constantly play the sjw game just to win a argument then you’re already conceding to the sjw hierarchy of privilege. 

[seriousfic]

iT’S crazy that even the ‘nice’ feminists on this hellsite start off any proposal to stop saying “kill all men” with “don’t be a TERF! you could be insulting drag queens!”

Which is a bit like saying the reason you shouldn’t go “kill all darkies” is that any Greeks who hear you might be insulted. sure……. that’s one reason…………….

And here I always thought that the reason not to be an asshole was… not to be an asshole

[webtoonloverandoverallfangirl]

The fact that so many people haven't learned that generalizations hurt everyone is concerning. You are not evil for being born Male. You're not evil for being born cis. You are not evil for being born white.

[thehondasiblings]

How cute were all four of you as children? And who would you say was the cutest?

//Well, what do you think, anon? hahaha

Ask submissions are open again! ^_^

[stormcallart]

Finally brave enough to post InkoMight because I love them so much and love the idea of them being sweet on each other at school until Yagi went to hero training. No matter how long he’s been in training, Yagi is still a shaky mess running into her again~ 

[stormcallart]

Sunshine boy!