lover of epilogues and situationships

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[hagiomoto]

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[hagiomoto]

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[epicsause-official]

r/DetailCraft is a subreddit to share tips and tricks on making detailed builds in minecraft, and the source of occasional banger posts like these

[girlfailure-poetics]

I have kind of a niche political view on tumblr, which is that I think misogyny is bad even when it’s just hurting women

[girlfailure-poetics]

and I don’t even think it needs to have a singular benefit for men for feminism and the abolition of patriarchy to be worthwhile

[girlfailure-poetics]

in fact the abolition of patriarchy could be a net loss for men and I would still think that feminism and the abolition of patriarchy was worth it

[girlfailure-poetics]

this is not at all me dunking on or criticizing the user who added these tags, but me using them as a jumping off point to reiterate something

Toxic masculinity is not borne out of feminist analysis. Rather, it comes out of one of the earlier men’s rights movements, the mythopoetic men’s movement. I don’t even think it’s particularly useful as feminist analysis because masculinity itself is a misogynist concept. There is no trait associated with masculinity that women who are not masculine at all cannot possess.

[annabelle--cane]

"this is an inaccurate adaptation" okay but is it good "this didn't happen in the book" does it make sense in the context of the new work though "they totally changed the plot" and is the new one good or bad "it's completely different" not what I asked "they changed all the stuff I like" then I get why you wouldn't be into it but I'm asking about its own artistic merits "this character is meant to be blonde" I couldn't give less of a fuck

[freezybean]

✨🪨🌀 𑣲₍ ᐢ. .ᐢ₎

[txttletale]

efforts towards a "positive vision of masculinity" or whatever are so funny because what these guys are trying to figure out is literally "what's a way of being a good person that's Not For Girls™"

[nastasyafilippovnas]

➳ Siena’s red dress with black lace details in Bridgerton 1.03 Art of the Swoon (requested by anonymous)

[weirdloverwilde]

reform trying to ban resources being made in languages other than english and welsh is still fucking awful even if they expanded that to include gaelic and other indigenous uk languages. because we shouldnt demonise or ban any languages, including foreign ones!

[weirdloverwilde]

i want to interact w the bridgerton fandom a lot of the time bc i think its a very interesting show with a lot to analyse and discuss but then the fandom is almost entirely three seperate fandoms posting exclusively about the couple they like and nothing else

[weirdloverwilde]

discussions of the falkland islands is the most 'i think everyone in this story should die actually' political debate of all time. territory with a legacy of being fought over by the worst governments either country has had in living memory entirely to boost public ratings on both sides and people are still talking about it years later as if its important

[weirdloverwilde]

thinking about mario. is it not super embarrassing that at most three games by my count of games in the marioverse have a female lead character. for such a huge franchise is that not embarrassing. and even in the games with a character roster the line up is still completely dominated by male characters. i feel like this should be way more of a discussion when talking about mario

[closet-keys]

idk if any teenagers follow me, but I think something you should keep in mind is that when adults are criticizing teenagers as a demographic, it's like

50% them displacing their own self-hatred and regrets about their own decisions at your age, and trying to retroactively yell at themselves by yelling at you. they aren't thinking about you as a person at all. they are thinking of you as a symbol of "youth" in the context of their own life.

50% them trying to socially reproduce adultist superiority to soothe their own ego. especially if they start falling back on things like "your brain isn't developed (and that's why I'm right and you're wrong!)." adults confronted with a young person standing up to them in any context often become reactively insecure and reach for anything that lets them feel righteous about telling you to shut up, no matter how dubious the claim. they're just bullying you to boost themselves up. they're being an asshole.

adults will act like they know you better than you know yourself. they don't. so genuinely, before you internalize any criticism an adult says, remember that most adults are primarily talking to and about themselves when they talk about teens. it is annoying. it's not your fault.

[venusswasaboy]

I quote this and laugh to myself very, very often.

[weirdloverwilde]

"minifigs have better articulation than minidolls" and they can't even sit down wearing a skirt. ok

[fanonical]

i want a full sims game that’s set in a different time period. i really like sims medieval but it’d be cool to see a game that’s just like the regular sims games, just in the fantasy 1500s or something

[weirdloverwilde]

why do people get soo mad at ai used in advertising. oh no not our glorious cultural pillar of advertising not being as good! our precious adverting that has always previous been a net good to society and has never used a single watt of energy before the dawn of ai! this is so awful

[weirdloverwilde]

wild how the fundamentally most "we'll find each other in every universe" pairing there is is.... blackadder and baldrick