Foreplay isn't "let me get you wet enough to stick it in you", it's "let me get you so worked up and horny you're practically begging me to stick it in". Big. Big. Difference.
On a related note, dominance isnât âIâm gonna yell at you and bully you until you give me controlâ, itâs âI want to make you feel so safe that you feel comfortable handing over control to me for a bitâ.












