Don’t let these men call you their girlfriend
Something that’s been sitting on my heart for a minute now (thank you current sponsor for that discussion and who just doesn’t fucking get it). Men in this lifestyle are so quick to call us girlfriend, say we’re in a relationship, introduce us (or want to be introduced themselves) to family. It actually really ticks me off cause there needs to be a lot done before then for me to be able to agree to all that. These men will take you on dates, love to be with you, and expect sex, but won’t invest a lot in you. I expect equality of the sexes.
Let me be clear: if we are together and are at two different tax brackets, you’re not my man.
Period.
If you are eating $500 meals three times a day and I still have to budget my groceries, you’re not my man.
If you just bought your sixth home and I’m late on rent AGAIN, you’re not my man.
If your garage is filled with foreign cars and I’m still paying a car note, you’re not my man.
If you want to go on luxury vacations and get upset with me because I have to work two jobs to make ends meet and can’t get or afford the time off, you’re not my man.
The only way you become my man is either by lowering yourself to my quality of life or elevating me to yours. Thassit. No way in hell am I introducing you to my family, being in love, doing all that girlfriend shit for a man who sees me struggle, is comfortably in a position to make sure I never struggle again, and just...doesn’t. You are my sponsor, my client, my almost-friend (cause even a friend will do something for you) until you elevate me to your tax bracket, cause let’s be real, these men are not lowering themselves for women.
It honestly baffles the entire shit out of me when men and even sometimes women don’t understand this. How would the relationship work? If we get married and have kids and whatnot, will you be living the high life while I struggle? No! Will you be vacationing in 5 star hotels while I’m just renting out the cheapest Airbnb? No! It’s equality in a relationship. Not saying we have to have the exact same income or the exact same wealth, but definitely we should have at least similar quality of life. If not, you’re not my man ✌️
@f0reignluxe I feel like this came out of your diary
