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bout2headout

dutchster

when it’s november 1st

crazyaboutlefandoms

Songs with the same bpm but played over different than original video tracks give me life

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Mark: You played me like a fiddle!

Haechan: No, fiddles are actually pretty difficult to play. I played you like the cheap kazoo you are.

3peachyoon3

oooh daddy….

qvestchen

Jaemin when his 6th venti sized iced americano with no water and 4 shots of espresso finally kicks in

johntenny96

Chenle: Hey jisungie do you wanna go get food

Jisung: yeah sure where are we going

Chenle:

💯👌😏 Flavortown 😏👌💯

Jisung: yes my Flavortown Prince I shall retrieve your steed at once

*comes back riding a hoverboard*

Jisung: *bends down a lil* hop on

Chensung: *hoverboard to the kitchen together*

Kun: wtf is this mess

markdaes

me bopping to drippin knowing full well what the english translation is, and not giving a single fuck

lostyukhei-deactivated20181117

nct dream is the superior unit like damn

phantom-butterfly

loubuggins

YOU’RE FREAKING WELCOME TEEN TITANS FANDOM

rosemaryandthymeart

ARE U JOKING

incorrectnct

Kun: [changes the toilet roll]

Kun: I am the backbone of this household.

IT HAPPENED

THE LEGO MOVIE BECAME REALITY

nicoleartist

I like the guy standing in the bg watching like WUUUUUUT

closet-keys

I hate Freud. His whole weird theory about penis envy and children being sexually attracted to their parents and secret desires and all that shit actually came straight out of an attempt to ally himself with wealthy and influential rapists and was a direct form of victim blaming.

He had started the research looking into “hysteria” which at the time was really usually referring to women’s symptoms of PTSD. It turned out that the reason so many woman had these symptoms is because so many of them had experienced sexual violence– especially CSA and incest at the hands of their fathers.

At first he was making real progress, and it was through working with these women that he discovered that talk therapy could be used to treat trauma. The symptoms of PTSD were lessened when women were able to safely speak about their experiences out loud and be believed.

But it wasn’t the women who paid for the therapy. It was their fathers, husbands, the same men who were perpetuating the violence in the first place. And Freud didn’t want to validate his patients (the women) if it meant making his clients (the men) unhappy.

So he came up with a new idea. These symptoms weren’t from trauma. The memories weren’t real. These women were just sexual beings as children and had penis envy and it made them lust for their fathers and fantasize about the rape that they had reported to him. That’s where the shittiest parts of Freud’s theories emerged. Another part of it besides just the monetary aspect, though, was that there was a feminist movement on the fringes starting up at the time and by publishing work about women’s CSA he would be aligning himself with it and therefore losing support, respect, funding, prestige from his male peers and from the psychological community at large. He literally made that gross victim blaming shit up to keep his own reputation with these fucks and to make sure he still got publication and fame.

By coming up with fake theory about little girls fantasizing about incest he not only fucked over generations of women, the feminist movement that was arising, and the entire psychology field for years to come, but he also completely swept away any progress made in understanding trauma and so we didn’t have any clue why men coming back from war had “hysteria” like women during WWI.

And our research on PTSD and trauma is still lacking to this day, especially because of the stigma that maybe traumatized people deserved it or wanted it or imagined it. People don’t want to believe it’s real. Perpetrators of traumatic violence want everyone to forget about it, not acknowledge it, or trivialize it.

And they have Freud’s cultural legacy to help them.

vetivervelvetviolet

Can you provide academic citations for this? This is really neat.

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http://journals.sagepub.com/doi/abs/10.1177/0959353596062015

http://journals.sagepub.com/doi/pdf/10.1177/0959353596062015

If you don’t have access bc paywall, here’s a decent summary on Wikipedia:

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Freudian_Coverup

Some vague proof:’

http://www.nytimes.com/1984/01/24/science/freud-secret-documents-reveal-years-of-strife.html?pagewanted=all&mcubz=0

An essay on the topic:

http://socialistreview.org.uk/404/whats-wrong-sigmund-freud

If you want some more, just google, “Sigmund Freud Seduction Theory Problematic.” There’s lots of academic and non-academic discussion on the topic, but TLDR Sigmund Freud is basically disregarded in almost all aspects of psychology by anyone who actually cares about their patients, so fuck that guy for holding psychology back.

thewesterwoman

Words cannot express how much I hate Freud. His theories have been entirely disproven by current psychological research, but using him to interpret works of literature is still a widely accepted technique in the field of literary studies today.

English departments across the country will not bat an eye at tenured professors bringing Freud into lectures and citing him in scholarly articles and books. Doing a “Freudian reading” of a literary character or theme is regarded as a valid means of understanding and drawing meaning from works by authors as diverse as William Shakespeare, James Joyce, and C.S. Lewis. And it is based entirely on this guy’s unbelievably sexist, flat-out fraudulent, and thoroughly disproven research. It’s insane.

yournewfriendshouse

it’s the same in art. even while I was studying I was like ‘why are we paying you to tell us about this outdated bullshit?’ It’s because they still love that shit