i love you silly

recovery era 😱

[despazito]

[recomvery]

I heard so many people talk about romanticizing your life and at first it was annoying but then I was eating an apple and it was red and sweet and I was making an effort to conciously and slowly enjoy my apple because that's what my therapist told me to try to be more in the moment and it was the best apple I ever ate. I ate it slow and really payed attention to the sweetness and the sourness and I was sitting outside under some trees and there was a breeze and I thought: This is a perfect moment, and one day I will wish I had the opportunity to sit here and conciously eat this apple and be happy. Anyways. Try making a big deal out of small things.

[anniespositivity]

Life is so damn short - so this is your reminder to invest your time in the things that fill your heart with joy; to wear whatever you feel most confident in; to do your hair the way you feel the prettiest with; to surround yourself with people who radiate kindness; to dance and sing to music that touches your soul; to take breaks whenever you need to; to prioritise yourself; to romanticise the littlest things and to finally stop caring about what other people think. It is time to experience the wonderful life you are meant to live, my love.

[healing-is-cool]

— Bianca Sparacino, The Strength in Our Scars (2017)

[wholeheartedsuggestions]

practice forgiving yourself as often as possible. it does wonders once you really learn to move past things you dislike about your past actions that cannot be redone.

[thepeacefulgarden]

Remember: Beating yourself up doesn't help whoever you wronged, and it doesn't help *you*.

[euesworld]

"I am infinitely beautiful. I am utterly amazing. I am attracting good things into my life, my soul, and my heart. Good vibes are surrounding me. My thoughts are in a good place. The universe can feel my effort and is bringing me things to help me heal. I am successful. I am intelligent. I am fun. I have a good sense of humor. I am attracting good things in abundance with ease. Without a second thought. It is in my nature to succeed. I will be happy. I will put in the effort."

Affirmations for the day - eUë

[creatinghelen]

you can have a tough night but a good morning. yesterday can be bad and today can be good. it doesn’t invalidate what you’re doing through. it doesn’t make what you felt any less real.

[smiles-advice]

Affirmations

🌸 I am important

🌸 my feelings are valid

🌸 I am kind, clever and brave

🌸 I believe I can do this

🌸 I am talented

🌸 my potential is endless

🌸 I am capable of making good decisions

[wholeheartedsuggestions]

practice forgiving yourself as often as possible. it does wonders once you really learn to move past things you dislike about your past actions that cannot be redone.

[honeymooncupid]

its okay if you have trouble fully loving yourself. and its okay to start small with attempts to love yourself. start liking yourself 5 percent first, then as you go along, it becomes easier. do what you would do for someone you love, for yourself. If you would be chocolate for your loved one, buy chocolate for yourself. If you would cook dinner for your loved one, try to cook a delicious dinner for yourself. Care for and look after yourself, be gentle and patient with yourself and the proces you're going through, all will be well.

[thoradvice]

things will not always be so dark. it'll be brighter, soon. here is a little sun for you ☀️

[honeymooncupid]

Its okay if you're afraid of what the future might bring you. It might be scary because it's so unknown, full of mysteries and filled with new things you don't know how to cope with and handle yet. But just know that you don't have to be afraid, i always think of it like this: everything i don't know yet, might be a future thing im going to love. Thinking like this might take away a lot of stress and might even make you excited when having to deal with new experiences and future. Things like meeting new people, going to new places and learning new things.

Just know, that you're going to do great in the future.

[thoradvice]

not everything has to be productive. you are allowed to be a little silly and goofy. you are allowed to rest. take some time for yourself today. there is so much more to life than work, and you deserve to experience it. feel the sun on your face, stretch your body, call a friend, have a little fun. your work will not suffer for it & will be there when you’ve had some time.

[daily-lifeprotips]

People rarely notice your flaws that you worry about, because they’re too busy worrying that you’ll notice theirs. Remember this if you feel self conscious or embarrassed

[akindplace]

2023:

Even the smallest joy matters, even if it doesn’t last. Life is supposed to be enjoyed and it is not morally reprehensible to do so.

Your health matters more than any material thing you sacrifice it for.

Life is not supposed to be made of sacrifices.

Your dreams are not too big “for someone like you”. You are not too small to dream big.

Everything is temporary. Use the time you have to love and be loved, to enjoy this life a little, to create the relationships you seek, the safe home you need.

Community is what kept us evolving. The human thing is to ask for help.

Perfectionism is the enemy if you want to get things done. Progression above perfection, always. You don’t have to be so anxious to prove your worth, you are already enough. You can do this.

Guilt and shame are common emotions to us all, but they should not dictate your whole life.

[smiles-advice]

there is no such thing as being "behind in life" but it's okay to recognise that you missed out on some things whilst you were busy surviving

[healing-is-cool]

There's out there a place for you. A place to be yourself, a place where you belong. A place where you'll feel wanted, where you are welcome. A place that will make you feel safe, at home.

And I know you'll find it soon.