˖⁺‧₊˚♡˚₊‧⁺˖ welcome to my blog! please read below cut for info!
♥︎ hiii I’m whimsy this is my agere blog :]
★ I’m not in any particular community of agere but you’re welcome here if you are, so long as you don’t sexualize regression or post nsfw
♥︎ she/her, feminine terms please! irl teenager, I regress to likkkeee 6ish probably?
★ I’d consider myself a flip and can be a cg :] willing to be a small friend or a babysitter. the latter with the connotation of your cool teenaged babysitter who gives you snacks and teaches you how to make bracelets :3!!
♥︎ in terms of cging I’m not fully comfy being called any parental titles but just whimsy or miss whimsy is cool! also open to any nicknames and pet names… I love them…
★ since I both babysit and just have lil friends, I have a system to my inbox if you’d like to clarify if you’d prefer me to respond when big or small. in parentheses at the start of your ask you can add ( - ) this symbol if you want me to respond while regressed, ( + ) this one if you’d prefer I respond while big and reply with cging in mind, or no symbol at all if you don’t mind either way!
Little nonverbal/semiverbal one, drawing on a little whiteboard.
Taking a while to tap buttons on a text to speech app, asking for juice or cuddles.
Watching cg or friends and just laying over laps and feeling content.
Rambling with markers on paper, babbling with spirals between sentences and cg reading over your shoulder and answering.
Pointing and making noises! Whining or meowing or going babababa or doing the throat raspy thing.
Making little secret gestures with friends or cg so you can communicate easily across rooms or in crowded places.
Stimming by repeatedly tapping the same symbol on text to speech app - meow meow meow meow
Borderline doing pantomimw when not understood immediately and your people slowly getting better and better at knowing what you mean.
People reading to you and you listen and tap things in the book .
Playing videogames with someone and them being okay with you using ingame chat or not talking or pausing the game so you can type or sign or write etc.
Quiet parallel play dates, maybe listening to cds together while doing stuff!
sometimes the consumerism in age regression communities makes me stress out! When I was an actual little we were poor… I couldn’t get a jellycat stuffie or an American girl doll, or hundreds of different personalized pacis and gear. Me being small was just me blowing homemade bubbles, drawing with chalk, making mud pies, coloring, and watching cheap cable! Being little is looking at cool bugs, making arts out of construction paper, homemade playdoh, or just resting and doing nothing at all.
I guess what I’m trying to say is- you don’t have to buy a bunch of things to “be an age regressor” or to regress. Nah, you just need yourself, your imagination, and a lil magic and heart. You can be little without anything!!!
His regression age is 1-6. He mostly if not always vent regresses...
I think his need for acceptance comes from being neglected as a child... He obviously wants his family's approval, even in a grown up headspace. This only gets worse when he's little. He'll curl up with his comfort items and cry, quietly mentioning different members of his family.
He low-key got caregiver energy from the way Judy treated him, and felt like he failed her when he ran back to wanting to please his father. He felt like he failed them both, this did not help those issues...
He has SEVERAL cat toys, his favorites are the little light up cat balls that you can bat around on the floor and make them flash different colors.
If you get him yapping when he's small, he will NOT stop. He loves to tell you everything he knows and show you what a big boy he is (and he loves being CALLED a big boy.) He knows what color that is! He knows what shape that is!! Yes, he knows how to do that all by himself, thank you very much.
He's a prideful little man. Even if he's obviously much more little than usual, he won't budge a whole lot when you suggest maybe a sippy cup may be more efficient than a big boy cup today, or that maybe his caregiver should help him with tying his shoes. Why would he even need the help? He'd huff and pout. (He tied one lace in a knot over and over again and said it was tied.)
He doesn't like receiving gifts for no reason. There has to be a reason, especially when he's little. If his caregiver gave him a gift and didn't give a reason, he'd think it may be an apology or a bribe... His family did this often. When giving him something as small as a toy from the store, you'd have to say "this is for eating all your dinner last night," or "this is for being such a good helper this week."
He has the cutest little things he does when he's fussy. He never exactly throws a fit even if he's being a little prideful. He stamps his foot gently against the floor, or he'll make a little lynx growl noise. The best response to this is, "oh yeah? Are you so angry, little boy?" And then he'll melt back to normal... Your attention usually calms him.
He hates crying or being vulnerable, but his headspace brings it out of him. He'll cling to his caregiver and ask if they still love him for seemingly no reason. His little ears will go down and he'll hold onto you, wondering if he'll be yelled at for his tears. But he won't...
His favorite thing in the whole world would be a good2grow drink. Those little drinks with the character heads on them? Those. He always knows exactly where they are when you take him somewhere, and he'll point and ask if he can have a "grow drink, p'ease?" What's most funny is he often chooses the same characters so you have duplicates at home. You've tried putting different juices in the same cup to see if it has the same appeal... It doesn't. He can taste the difference.
His favorite nicknames when tiny are Pawbie, Kitty/Kitten, Big Boy, Fuzzy Guy, and Yarn Ball.
Padded regressor. No elaboration. Don't tell him that though, they're pull-ups or 'uppies' (even if it's really a diaper with tabs.)
He's afraid of the dark and needs his night light to be on when he's in bed. He also prefers cuddles rather than sleeping all by himself, especially after feeling safer with his caregiver.
As compensation for waiting on this post, I present to you what I think Pawbert's fussy growl™ sounds like.
Age regression is always portrayed as this pure super cute, electable comforting thing in social media and I’m sorry but, I’m tired, there’s sometimes it’s not. Sometimes age regressing is extreme feelings, it’s hitting your head and screaming in pain and laying on the floor and kicking and wanting it to stop. Sometimes it’s shaking in anxiety, biting your hands and stimming uncomfortably. Sometimes theres no comfort, sometimes the triggers are not good, and that’s fine too. Age regressing does not mean pure state, it means a much younger one. Just that. It can be violent and ugly too
The ones who are tall, fat, busty/curvy, buff,,, all of the above,, maybe scarred and rough looking from their years of struggling,, but they're just as teeny tiny and cute and squeezable as any other baby or kid :((
Sometimes all I want is someone to look at me and say "no one should ever have to go through what you went through. I can't belive so many people cared so little that that happened" and scoop me up in their arms and give me milk and let me be so soft it makes up for all the moments I couldn't be
