This is a point that has already been raised years ago, but it bears repeating: Accusing transfeminized people who use "TMA"/"TME" terminology of "wanting to know what's in people's pants" is (on top of very obviously not being true) an attempt to portray them as sexual predators intent on violating others' boundaries - It is actively, maliciously using transmisogynistic biases against transfeminized people in service of denying that those biases affect transfeminized people qualitatively differently from non-transfeminized people.
It's one of the most sickening rhetorical strategies that those segments of the trans community who wish to preserve and extend their own ability to benefit from transmisogyny have devised.
"Transfeminized people wanting others to acknowledge the power they hold over them makes them sexual deviants" is a near perfect crystallization of anti-transfeminist politics in the trans community.
